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Post by workingonit on Sept 23, 2018 8:32:43 GMT -5
Wow Carol and solodriver you guys got me beat! Maybe we should get prizes after a certain number of years. You know, like "sorry your life sucks, your self esteem is in tatters, and you wasted the majority of your adult life in a sexless wasteland but here's a first place ribbon" sort of thing? No? I guess not😢 |
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Post by h on Sept 23, 2018 8:43:05 GMT -5
Just curious, should we update our poll votes as time passes or was that supposed to be a single snapshot on a certain day? Ex: If more time passes do we change our vote to reflect the longer time, or if sex occurs, do we switch our vote to reflect the length of time shortening?
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Post by Deleted on Sept 23, 2018 9:51:34 GMT -5
Just curious, should we update our poll votes as time passes or was that supposed to be a single snapshot on a certain day? Ex: If more time passes do we change our vote to reflect the longer time, or if sex occurs, do we switch our vote to reflect the length of time shortening? I think it is too much to ask for people to keep updating their votes! |
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Post by Deleted on Sept 23, 2018 9:53:47 GMT -5
Wow Carol and solodriver you guys got me beat! Maybe we should get prizes after a certain number of years. You know, like "sorry your life sucks, your self esteem is in tatters, and you wasted the majority of your adult life in a sexless wasteland but here's a first place ribbon" sort of thing? No? I guess not😢 You mean like "I haven't had sex for ten years but at least I have this crummy T-shirt"? |
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Post by Carol on Sept 23, 2018 10:42:52 GMT -5
Wow Carol and solodriver you guys got me beat! Maybe we should get prizes after a certain number of years. You know, like "sorry your life sucks, your self esteem is in tatters, and you wasted the majority of your adult life in a sexless wasteland but here's a first place ribbon" sort of thing? No? I guess not😢 You mean like "I haven't had sex for ten years but at least I have this crummy T-shirt"? 😂😂😂 |
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Post by csl on Sept 23, 2018 11:57:10 GMT -5
Wow Carol and solodriver you guys got me beat! Maybe we should get prizes after a certain number of years. You know, like "sorry your life sucks, your self esteem is in tatters, and you wasted the majority of your adult life in a sexless wasteland but here's a first place ribbon" sort of thing? No? I guess not😢 An awards show for Sexless Marriages? I love it!! Can you see the "Thank You, I couldn't have done it without you" speeches? And the clips from the films showing the actors at their finest? You've got me thinking about categories now: Best Actor in the "Out With the Guys" category Best Actress in the "Not Tonight, The Kids Are Awake" category And of course you've got to have technical categories, like Best Achievement in Repellant Costume Design, for anti-sex appeal sleepwear. And instead of the Red Carpet, there can be the Refusers Walk of Shame. There are so many ways that this could go. |
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Post by elkclan2 on Sept 23, 2018 12:20:13 GMT -5
I'm not going to answer the poll as I'm not in a sexless relationship anymore. But sometime this morning. So it's been almost 12 HOURS!!!
This morning I told my love that I'm actually looking forward to not having sex with him on Monday/Tuesday (travelling for work) because that means I'll be more desperate when I see him again. (yay!).
It's actually such a strange thing looking forward to a bit of deprivation, but when you're no longer sex starved it's no big deal missing a day here and there.
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Post by sadkat on Sept 23, 2018 13:05:43 GMT -5
I have to admit to a bit of jealous emotion seeing some of your posts- just sayin. I’m happy for you but could beat you up! Lol😂.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 23, 2018 13:26:41 GMT -5
I'm not going to answer the poll as I'm not in a sexless relationship anymore. But sometime this morning. So it's been almost 12 HOURS!!! This morning I told my love that I'm actually looking forward to not having sex with him on Monday/Tuesday (travelling for work) because that means I'll be more desperate when I see him again. (yay!). It's actually such a strange thing looking forward to a bit of deprivation, but when you're no longer sex starved it's no big deal missing a day here and there. You can answer. Part of the point was to motivate others..... |
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Post by solodriver on Sept 23, 2018 15:28:21 GMT -5
Wow Carol and solodriver you guys got me beat! Maybe we should get prizes after a certain number of years. You know, like "sorry your life sucks, your self esteem is in tatters, and you wasted the majority of your adult life in a sexless wasteland but here's a first place ribbon" sort of thing? No? I guess not😢 Lol I'm not sure that's a ribbon I really want to brag about. But I have hope I can still salvage the rest of my life. That gives the strength to go on. 
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Post by loveless1 on Sept 23, 2018 20:55:10 GMT -5
I once asked everyone here how long it has been since they last had sex, an exercise that made me miserable at the time - but perhaps that misery helped propel me to change my circumstances. And it was a good thread. So once again...how long has it been since you had sex with a partner? It has been 3 years for any contact (hj/bj) and five years for real act of lovemaking/sex😥. |
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Post by saarinista on Sept 23, 2018 22:23:02 GMT -5
There's a sitcom pilot in this. Or at least a podcast. I call dibs!
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Post by saarinista on Sept 23, 2018 22:24:30 GMT -5
Wow Carol and solodriver you guys got me beat! Maybe we should get prizes after a certain number of years. You know, like "sorry your life sucks, your self esteem is in tatters, and you wasted the majority of your adult life in a sexless wasteland but here's a first place ribbon" sort of thing? No? I guess not😢 Lol I'm not sure that's a ribbon I really want to brag about. But I have hope I can still salvage the rest of my life. That gives the strength to go on.
If not a ribbon, how about a coffee mug with a suitable imprint? LOL. That's only for 20 years, though. |
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Post by sadkat on Sept 23, 2018 22:28:34 GMT -5
Lol I'm not sure that's a ribbon I really want to brag about. But I have hope I can still salvage the rest of my life. That gives the strength to go on.
If not a ribbon, how about a coffee mug with a suitable imprint? LOL. That's only for 20 years, though. I am NOT going sexless for another 5 years! So, no cup for me. |
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Post by solodriver on Sept 23, 2018 23:12:44 GMT -5
Lol I'm not sure that's a ribbon I really want to brag about. But I have hope I can still salvage the rest of my life. That gives the strength to go on.
If not a ribbon, how about a coffee mug with a suitable imprint? LOL. That's only for 20 years, though. Or I could get a t-shirt or hat. |
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