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Post by idgaf96 on Feb 12, 2018 21:09:26 GMT -5
It's really sad and it messes with my head continuously. No matter how done I am with him it still hurts. Boy do I get that. When you give your trust over to them, that includes your need to be sexually desirable. When that person you trust to want you, crave you, be turned on by you can't get it up or get wet over your body, over the pleasure to come as they make love, it's a betrayal in a most intimate place inside us. I really thought it was me at first. I made huge changes. Weight, clothes, activities I was involved in, professional. I changed everything trying to make him happy. I gave up. Got laid outside the marriage and realized it was him and not me.
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Post by johnwyo1 on Feb 12, 2018 21:14:48 GMT -5
Boy do I get that. When you give your trust over to them, that includes your need to be sexually desirable. When that person you trust to want you, crave you, be turned on by you can't get it up or get wet over your body, over the pleasure to come as they make love, it's a betrayal in a most intimate place inside us. I really thought it was me at first. I made huge changes. Weight, clothes, activities I was involved in, professional. I changed everything trying to make him happy. I gave up. Got laid outside the marriage and realized it was him and not me. You do what we all do. We assume that if we improve ourselves then they will be attracted, show the love and affection we crave. You now know you are perfectly desirable and hot and sexy. You just needed the man with the functional dick and working libido.
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Post by idgaf96 on Feb 12, 2018 21:16:22 GMT -5
I really thought it was me at first. I made huge changes. Weight, clothes, activities I was involved in, professional. I changed everything trying to make him happy. I gave up. Got laid outside the marriage and realized it was him and not me. You do what we all do. We assume that if we improve ourselves then they will be attracted, show the love and affection we crave. You now know you are perfectly desirable and hot and sexy. You just needed the man with the functional dick and working libido. Tbh I could have worked with the limp dick if he would have tried. So many other ways to please me.
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Post by johnwyo1 on Feb 12, 2018 21:19:02 GMT -5
You do what we all do. We assume that if we improve ourselves then they will be attracted, show the love and affection we crave. You now know you are perfectly desirable and hot and sexy. You just needed the man with the functional dick and working libido. Tbh I could have worked with the limp dick if he would have tried. So many other ways to please me. Yes, many ways. I could do a whole speech like Forrest Gump's friend Bubba did about shrimp. 'Cept my list would be ways to enjoy sex together. And that's all I have to say about that.
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Post by james on Feb 13, 2018 13:40:13 GMT -5
Here’s mine:
She give, moves, melts, flows, Like the mountain snows in spring. Or I seek elsewhere.
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Post by wewbwb on Feb 13, 2018 16:55:24 GMT -5
Once it could have been "No", one too many times alas I want a divorce
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Post by Admin on Feb 15, 2018 6:29:45 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Feb 15, 2018 7:49:40 GMT -5
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Post by choosinghappy on Feb 15, 2018 7:52:46 GMT -5
Thank you, thank you
I’d like to thank my husband, for without his consistent rejections over the years leading to anger, frustration, and diminished self-esteem, I wouldn’t be where I am today.
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Post by greatcoastal on Feb 15, 2018 7:58:35 GMT -5
Thank you, thank you I’d like to thank my husband, for without his consistent rejections over the years leading to anger, frustration, and diminished self-esteem, I wouldn’t be where I am today. I'm hearing the song "We are the Champions" as I read this. (It's been no bed of roses, no pleasure cruise)
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Post by WindSister on Feb 15, 2018 7:58:58 GMT -5
Yay!!! Congrats choosinghappy! You have a beautiful way of expressing yourself. 😊 This exercise inspired me to write individualized poems for all the grandkids to add to their goodie packages we mail out for our own declared holiday on the 20th "Just Because We Love You Day." The poems turned out rather good, and my man agrees. So thanks for inspiring! 😍
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Post by h on Feb 15, 2018 8:15:36 GMT -5
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Post by saarinista on Feb 19, 2018 1:37:42 GMT -5
congrats to choosinghappy ! For the record, next year I think there should be cash prizes. or at least sex toy prizes. 😁
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