My sexy stranger won't be here at the bar for another half hour (yes we do corny things like that) but I had to hold the table. Thought I would share a Pema quote about embracing the unknown because some of you are feeling the fear. The other quote I added just because....well, you know, throbbing....teehee! (Adultish tonight). All will be ok.
Letting there be room for not knowing is the most important thing of all. When there's a big disappointment, we don't know if that's the end of the story. It may just be the beginning of a great adventure. Life is like that. We don't know anything. We call something bad; we call it good. But really we just don't know. Pema Chödrön, When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
When things are shaky and nothing is working, we might realize that we are on the verge of something. We might realize that this is a very vulnerable and tender place, and that tenderness can go either way. We can shut down and feel resentful or we can touch in on that throbbing quality. (9) Pema Chödrön, When Things Fall Apart: Heartfelt Advice for Hard Times like
Those who feel lovable, who love, and who experience belonging simply believe they are worthy of love and belonging. - Brene Brown
Post by choosinghappy on Feb 12, 2018 11:21:43 GMT -5
This quote has spoken to me for a long time. I first found it as a magnet about 20 years ago and not only do I still have the magnet but I also have this quote as a plaque on the mantel above my fireplace. It might be time for me to once again follow its' advice.
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