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Post by novembercomingfire on Nov 22, 2016 13:14:57 GMT -5
First, I think the same of myself. I own that I chose to stay of my own accord. Second, we had 10 very sexual years after the wedding. The sexlessness was after 3 kids. I'm pretty sure there would have been a serious reckoning if I was sexless the day after the wedding. So it's a week after the wedding. You're getting divorced because you didn't get laid last week? Rather Jerry Springer and that was 10 years before Springer and the Internet. And etc. I seriously considered getting out about 3 months in, I had made the decision but chickened out. Six months in, as I was building my resolve, she got pregnant in a near immaculate conception. The rest is history. "For the children" and all that. I said the marriage was sexless from the beginning. But not celibate. She was a master of the reset . Same story essentially. A few days in I suspected that I had made a mistake. A few months in, pregnancy and I lost my resolve. And I continued to lose my resolve repeatedly whenever I thought of the children. Clinically sexless from the beginning, although I think that she had planned that we would be completely celibate as soon as possible, and I think that she also thought that I would just suck it up. I guess she was right, and she eventually got the celibacy that was so important anyway.
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