... I can stand nude in front of my H and he doesn't even look at me. He has his eyes locked on mine or looks away like there is shame in looking at a nude wife. ....
...I ask the ILIASMers to not be held captive and wipe away the cobwebs on your genitals....
...In another forum one male hired a lady to lay and hug him. (She was a professional hugger with all sorts of rules) I thought that was the most creative.
Is there a post listing tasteful porn? If not, there should be. Soft and hardcore. Twin Moon Junction comes to mind. The Red Shoe Diaries may be enough for those otherwise averse to skin flicks.
The aversion of eyes is common even amongst red blooded males. We've been conditioned by society to equate ogling with objectification. Lord knows plenty of refusers get distressed by shows of wonton desire. Commonly, locking eyes with a prospective mate can start things off on teh right foot, letting such lust stay hidden for later.
"lay him"? Or "lie/lay with him"? I thought those cuddlers-for-hire drew pretty firm lines. baza If you outsource, you get a sex life and stay in your marriage. I know you know that, but explicitly including it for blueguy strikes me as important. I'm not sure whether you consider it to be an inferior choice, but that was never my impression.
Well that blew up nicely. She got mad at me because I didn't have them on, and apparently I totally misread this. She didn't get them because she's interested in my manhood; she just thought I would like it because of what she read on it. I ended up being the jerk because I didn't want to even try them on. I did ended up doing so after arguing with her, and the way it cradles the scrotum sort of turns me on because it feels like someone is holding them. I am that sex starved. . When we were "discussing" it beforehand, she told me that not everything has to be sexual and that she was just trying to be nice by buying me underwear and that she will never do this again. Her idea of sex is starfish position and hurry up and get it over with.
I just want intimate attention and to be desired and wanted in that way!!
You aren't going to get that from a person who doesn't see you as a sexual partner. She isn't and hasn't been your sexual partner and has no intention of it.
It's fair of you to want sex, but she has made clear that it won't be from her.
Her goal with this interaction with you may well have been to provoke the fight, which resulted in her saying she won't "do this again", if her purchase was unusual
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jim44444: Happy Vernal Equinox. Go out and frolic.
Mar 20, 2021 19:16:35 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Vernal Equinox....Be fruitful and multiply...
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petrushka: Just attended a lecture on local history. Apparently the Presbyterian Scottish refugees who settled here called a 'frolic', what the Amish would call a 'barn raising'. First a working bee, then dancing and feasting.
Mar 25, 2021 22:43:53 GMT -5
jerri: Pressing the like sign for all those comments.
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worksforme2: Lucked onto a great new source for breaking news----The Babylon Bee
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catlover: The resentment is running high today
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mirrororchid: Sorry, dude. I think resentment has been the fuel for action in some SMs. It can be part of a process, eventually helpful.
Mar 30, 2021 4:43:40 GMT -5
Handy: I just read "The Babylon Bee" article "Blockage Cleared, Ships Moving At Record Speed As Chick-Fil-A Workers Put In Charge Of Suez Canal." Good humor.
Mar 30, 2021 16:49:51 GMT -5
worksforme2: Freezing temps in the morning for the next 3 days= no peaches in the fall for me unless I buy them,... 2 yrs in a row...growing my own fruit has proven to be a losing proposition
Apr 1, 2021 16:32:30 GMT -5
Handy: Meet the Feebles=weird!
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jerri: Lots of interesting comments. I am way behind. Sending hugs and a kiss on the cheek💋
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roy: Hi All, I just joined, at 77. I've been in a sexless marriage for too many years ...
Apr 9, 2021 15:26:32 GMT -5
petrushka: G'day Roy, welcome to the place most of us don't want to be. I am sure you will find lots of interesting personal stories and comments and reactions on the forum. Don't be shy about jumping in to talks ...
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