... I can stand nude in front of my H and he doesn't even look at me. He has his eyes locked on mine or looks away like there is shame in looking at a nude wife. ....
...I ask the ILIASMers to not be held captive and wipe away the cobwebs on your genitals....
...In another forum one male hired a lady to lay and hug him. (She was a professional hugger with all sorts of rules) I thought that was the most creative.
Is there a post listing tasteful porn? If not, there should be. Soft and hardcore. Twin Moon Junction comes to mind. The Red Shoe Diaries may be enough for those otherwise averse to skin flicks.
The aversion of eyes is common even amongst red blooded males. We've been conditioned by society to equate ogling with objectification. Lord knows plenty of refusers get distressed by shows of wonton desire. Commonly, locking eyes with a prospective mate can start things off on teh right foot, letting such lust stay hidden for later.
"lay him"? Or "lie/lay with him"? I thought those cuddlers-for-hire drew pretty firm lines. baza If you outsource, you get a sex life and stay in your marriage. I know you know that, but explicitly including it for blueguy strikes me as important. I'm not sure whether you consider it to be an inferior choice, but that was never my impression.
Well that blew up nicely. She got mad at me because I didn't have them on, and apparently I totally misread this. She didn't get them because she's interested in my manhood; she just thought I would like it because of what she read on it. I ended up being the jerk because I didn't want to even try them on. I did ended up doing so after arguing with her, and the way it cradles the scrotum sort of turns me on because it feels like someone is holding them. I am that sex starved. . When we were "discussing" it beforehand, she told me that not everything has to be sexual and that she was just trying to be nice by buying me underwear and that she will never do this again. Her idea of sex is starfish position and hurry up and get it over with.
I just want intimate attention and to be desired and wanted in that way!!
You aren't going to get that from a person who doesn't see you as a sexual partner. She isn't and hasn't been your sexual partner and has no intention of it.
It's fair of you to want sex, but she has made clear that it won't be from her.
Her goal with this interaction with you may well have been to provoke the fight, which resulted in her saying she won't "do this again", if her purchase was unusual
jerri: Anyone with a birthday in November? worksforme2 has one on the 28th Yay!! @missunnybunny, Hope it was grand!!!
Oct 30, 2021 3:29:31 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: jerri, I had a wonderful birthday, thank you! Wishing everyone here a Happy Halloween!
Oct 31, 2021 15:29:33 GMT -5
worksforme2: Moving right along,..received my 1st Moderna booster this morning,...Fauci is going to have to work harder to kill me
Nov 4, 2021 9:45:10 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday tiredoftears,.....I hope life is treating you well....
Nov 8, 2021 6:07:34 GMT -5
worksforme2: It's 6:30am and looking out the window I see the dark forms of my trees against the pale blue background of the sky....I like it....
Nov 8, 2021 6:33:22 GMT -5
mirrororchid: It begins again. *REFUSED* Season 2 - refusedpodcast.com - Trailer and Episode 14 "Only So Good", now available for download.
Nov 8, 2021 19:24:13 GMT -5
worksforme2: Hey mirrororchid,....Happy Birthday...and don't try to get out of it
Nov 11, 2021 12:31:11 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Much thanks, WorksForMe2. T'was pretty good. Little celebrations three days in a row, this year.
Nov 12, 2021 4:32:23 GMT -5
jerri: worksforme2 you paint a lovely picture and Happy Birthday on the 28th!! Let's don't forget his birthday he looks for ours up here almost every day! Thanks, mirrororchid.
Nov 17, 2021 3:34:35 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday baza, I hope you can dodge the lockdown long enough to go out for dinner....
Nov 22, 2021 8:44:29 GMT -5
jerri: Happy Birthday, Baza!!!! yay
Nov 23, 2021 3:12:48 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Thanksgiving to one and all...
Nov 25, 2021 7:27:40 GMT -5
jerri: Happy Birthday, worksforme2 Hope it's a great one!!!
Nov 28, 2021 3:54:39 GMT -5
worksforme2: Thanks jerri....I will be preparing meals for a food ministry that my church helps sponsor...
Nov 28, 2021 11:49:30 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Missed it by a day, Jerri. (I'm typically offline weekends.) Happy Birthday, WorksForMe2. Thank you for the kind wishes you send to everyone in our dysfunctional-but-getting-better family.
Nov 29, 2021 4:46:45 GMT -5
worksforme2: Thanks mirrororchid..I'm having my extendeen famil over thius weekend for Thanksgiving, no competition with the moms and grandmoms that way....the bad part, giving the whole house a good cleaning so the kids can play all over the place
Nov 30, 2021 5:02:35 GMT -5
mirrororchid: WorksForMe2, Our cleanup just got junked up by piling Xmas decorations everywhere in living room. Difficult come, easy go.
Dec 6, 2021 12:49:48 GMT -5