Today I was alone at home, which is rare. My husband was out and I exercised, sat in the sun (we took our family to Spain for a few months to escape NY in the pandemic so our kids could go to school), worked, and still in my skintight exercise outfit, did some laundry.
I was outside hanging the clean clothes up in the sun when he came home with an old friend he’d had lunch with. We chatted a little, I finished hanging up the clothes, and the friend left. As soon as the door closed, my husband said, “You looked so sexy outside hanging up the laundry in your exercise clothes. When my friend left, he was jealous! I have 13 minutes until I have to teach online...” l’ll let you use your imagination for the rest! Let’s just say we used the time...very wisely.
Friends, I am 46 years old with two small kids and we have been together for almost 8 years. In my SM, I tried every conceivable “lingerie and scented candles” type strategy to zero result. The difference is still, all these years later, incredible to me.
You don’t have to live a life of loneliness and frustration!! I left a SM, fell madly in love with a wonderful (and gorgeous) man 11 years my junior, with whom I have two incredible children and a deliciously full and complex life and marriage.
Where you see Sister nyartgal 's name in pale blue, click on it. It will take you to her profile page. Then, click on her "recent posts" and there they'll be. Pick the oldest post. Start reading them all in sequence.
I think you will find the nyartgal story extremely interesting and informative.
Lovely to see you again Sister nyartgal . Thanks for this update.
Ya know what would really be sexy? You sitting at the table with a lady friend enjoying tea, looking out the patio window and noticing him carrying a heavy wet load of laundry to the line. Tell your mate, hey let's go help him, then you all laugh and hang laundry together then have a snack together while cooking a fine meal together! (Record scratch noises and I stop daydreaming) hahaha
They probably noticed you hanging laundry and he said can ya believe her ex would not give her intimacy?
Other guy: No, what a jackass for not realizing what he had!
Then they both laugh and his friend leaves...
I can say you are one of a few who will get sex on Valentine's day! Yay!😍
Post by misssunnybunny on Feb 1, 2021 11:15:12 GMT -5
Hey nyartgal ! Opposite land is a great place! So happy to read that all is going well for you. To add to your story with an update of my own, I have found myself a great guy and a year on it is going fantastic. He is 180-degree opposite of what I had when I was in my SM: he is affectionate, supportive, caring and kind, and can't stop touching me (WOO HOO!). It took seven years, but I found me a good one; they are out there, so for those afraid to leave, happiness can be found on the other side.
We're all stories in the end. Just make it a good one.
Like almost everyone else, I loved my wife and wanted to find a solution that fixed our marriage. Long story short, I've been out nearly three years, and I am much happier. I'd never consider going back to the way things were.
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jim44444: Happy Vernal Equinox. Go out and frolic.
Mar 20, 2021 19:16:35 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Vernal Equinox....Be fruitful and multiply...
Mar 21, 2021 5:18:36 GMT -5
petrushka: Just attended a lecture on local history. Apparently the Presbyterian Scottish refugees who settled here called a 'frolic', what the Amish would call a 'barn raising'. First a working bee, then dancing and feasting.
Mar 25, 2021 22:43:53 GMT -5
jerri: Pressing the like sign for all those comments.
Mar 26, 2021 15:04:52 GMT -5
worksforme2: Lucked onto a great new source for breaking news----The Babylon Bee
Mar 28, 2021 12:47:45 GMT -5
catlover: The resentment is running high today
Mar 28, 2021 18:39:08 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Sorry, dude. I think resentment has been the fuel for action in some SMs. It can be part of a process, eventually helpful.
Mar 30, 2021 4:43:40 GMT -5
Handy: I just read "The Babylon Bee" article "Blockage Cleared, Ships Moving At Record Speed As Chick-Fil-A Workers Put In Charge Of Suez Canal." Good humor.
Mar 30, 2021 16:49:51 GMT -5
worksforme2: Freezing temps in the morning for the next 3 days= no peaches in the fall for me unless I buy them,... 2 yrs in a row...growing my own fruit has proven to be a losing proposition
Apr 1, 2021 16:32:30 GMT -5
Handy: Meet the Feebles=weird!
Apr 1, 2021 18:22:06 GMT -5
jerri: Lots of interesting comments. I am way behind. Sending hugs and a kiss on the cheek💋
Apr 8, 2021 0:11:19 GMT -5
roy: Hi All, I just joined, at 77. I've been in a sexless marriage for too many years ...
Apr 9, 2021 15:26:32 GMT -5
petrushka: G'day Roy, welcome to the place most of us don't want to be. I am sure you will find lots of interesting personal stories and comments and reactions on the forum. Don't be shy about jumping in to talks ...
Apr 9, 2021 15:47:25 GMT -5