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Post by ironhamster on Feb 6, 2021 2:34:19 GMT -5
Hang in there, jerri . I'm pretty sure his emotions are red lining lately. It's been a rough year, politically. We're seeing censorship on a level never before seen, which is causing a lot of raw nerves. The mask issue has been heavily politicized, too. The guy now suggesting, off the cuff with no science, that double masks might be good, was telling us only a year ago that masks were no good. He's admitted lying to all of us for our own good, yet BOTH Republican and Democrat administrations have retained him. (Insert frustration noise, here.) Can you imagine the household of James Carville and Mary Madeline? Ever wonder how that works? I have good friends like that, except the man is a gun toting conservative and his wife is a vegan tree hugging liberal. They truly enjoy each other's company, though. I hope your lovers quarrel is over soon and things are patched up again. |
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Post by jim44444 on Feb 6, 2021 11:32:47 GMT -5
a vegan tree hugging liberal. Are there non-vegan trees? 🤔 |
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Post by jerri on Feb 6, 2021 23:29:25 GMT -5
Hang in there, jerri . I'm pretty sure his emotions are red lining lately. It's been a rough year, politically. We're seeing censorship on a level never before seen, which is causing a lot of raw nerves. The mask issue has been heavily politicized, too. The guy now suggesting, off the cuff with no science, that double masks might be good, was telling us only a year ago that masks were no good. He's admitted lying to all of us for our own good, yet BOTH Republican and Democrat administrations have retained him. (Insert frustration noise, here.) Can you imagine the household of James Carville and Mary Madeline? Ever wonder how that works? I have good friends like that, except the man is a gun toting conservative and his wife is a vegan tree hugging liberal. They truly enjoy each other's company, though. I hope your lovers quarrel is over soon and things are patched up again. Neither of us called. It's very telling, but everything I read said not to call. I think I may check in much later. I just decided to cozy up to a machine. I read a few articles with lists of why I would be better off...Trying to cheer me up and it really helped. so hard not to call. Maybe it's best to move on. I read one article that said by the time a man will spring back to a woman she is over him. I guess he was more serious than I thought. I knew he was mad at the whole election, I just really didn't know how much. Not happy about it, but I just have to accept it. It bothers me far more than I let on. I am powerless. And if anyone knows, I know you can't make someone desire you. I thought my ego would be more bruised than it is. Maybe I just don't accept it because we didn't get into a huge tug of war? Can't imagine him going without sex. So he may let go of my hand while simultaneously grabbing another. Oh, well, it was fun. And I would love to know how he did some of his techniques. |
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Post by ironhamster on Feb 7, 2021 0:01:52 GMT -5
I don't believe there are any hard rules, there, other than consent.
You can still contact him? If so, that's a good sign.
I've had some ill fated secondary relationships. I value honesty highly. I have trust issues, so these women knew where they stood. One fell into depression and wanted to be left alone. I'd do wellness checks on her, but she didn't want company. By the time she was available again I had another secondary relationship brewing, and only so much time and attention to give. Now, that secondary relationship ended up turning into a real shit show, because she had no intention on remaining secondary. I ended that, and had to block her everywhere, but she still hasn't given up in over a year. I'm still being stalked. Every new social media account I make, I know there is a chance she will suddenly pop up to see how I am doing. I'd welcome a message, though, from the first ill fated secondary partner, though, as I still consider her a friend.
Anyhow, bottom line: I don't think it's bad form to check in. If he's really done, he'll block you and won't get the message anyway.
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Post by jerri on Feb 7, 2021 15:50:21 GMT -5
I don't believe there are any hard rules, there, other than consent. You can still contact him? If so, that's a good sign. I've had some ill fated secondary relationships. I value honesty highly. I have trust issues, so these women knew where they stood. One fell into depression and wanted to be left alone. I'd do wellness checks on her, but she didn't want company. By the time she was available again I had another secondary relationship brewing, and only so much time and attention to give. Now, that secondary relationship ended up turning into a real shit show, because she had no intention on remaining secondary. I ended that, and had to block her everywhere, but she still hasn't given up in over a year. I'm still being stalked. Every new social media account I make, I know there is a chance she will suddenly pop up to see how I am doing. I'd welcome a message, though, from the first ill fated secondary partner, though, as I still consider her a friend. Anyhow, bottom line: I don't think it's bad form to check in. If he's really done, he'll block you and won't get the message anyway. See, you checked in on her, that was really sweet of you. I don't think I will score any points by calling. What do I hope to gain? He made it very clear to me that he didn't think it was right that he wear a mask inside his own hotel room. I told him if he thought wearing a mask was inconvenient wait until he got covid and he really would feel inconvenienced. He's had enough time to change his mind. It's not going to change until he gets really horny. It's a lot less work for me because I don't have to cook him something separate from my husband. I don't have an hour drive and he gets to the hotel about 10:00 pm. His sleep is cut short. He said he can't sit there and enjoy his meal and beer. However, he acted like it wasn't a problem the last few times. He just took put on his mask after he ate. We are at an impasse and it just is and I can understand why. He kind of snapped at me then he was nice. And he was whining about how trump was treated by the media and Twitter. He calls himself a perfectionistic assh@le, that was a jerk move. He's been acting cranky as of late. (I was also Miss cranky when trump won.) He told me it's best if you don't come over anymore. Yikes. My mind was swimming. No one likes a breakup but it takes a lot of pressure off me. I don't have to wonder if I can keep my H safe. In reality, it will probably be a long while before the different strains peter out. I don't think I would want to be with someone who broke up with me. I would be anxious about my looks technique, etc. I would rather suffer for a bit and get a really sweet guy.
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My mentor told me that he had a bad experience with a menage a trois because one was more outgoing than the other and she was very jealous and just sat back and pouted. He said he spent hours trying to build her self worth. He didn't notice her pouting and jealousy, he was having a great time. |
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Post by ironhamster on Feb 7, 2021 18:28:52 GMT -5
This Covid thing is tough. You both have your reasons for doing what you do. I'm not a medical professional of any sort, but, Covid doesn't just get in the air. It's in your saliva, and, TMI warning, if you have it, it's in your vagina and anus, also.
I will take the vaccine when it gets to me, but that could be April, so I need a backup plan or two.
I take zinc supplements. Zinc is anti-viral. Look into it and see what you think.
In case of Covid, I have a supply of ivermectin on hand. It does not stop the virus, but it slows it down and gives your body time to develop its response. By weight, it's easy to calculate your dose, but most slackers go to doctors and let them decide. Look into it and see what you think.
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Post by mirrororchid on Feb 9, 2021 5:38:18 GMT -5
... that secondary relationship ended up turning into a real shit show, because she had no intention on remaining secondary. .... Single, or unhappily married? Testing my dating strategy here. P.S. Ivermectin results are very weak, but doctors are using Vitamin D and B12 to attenuate the immune response to COVID that produces the shortness of breath issues. A Singapore medical study showed giving it to people already being hospitalized reduced the need for supplemental oxygen and entirely eliminated ventilator requirements. That same study also added Magnesium. Mg doesn't seem to be widely deployed. www.medrxiv.org/content/10.1101/2020.06.01.20112334v2While ivermectin appears to have stopped actual death, it wasn't helpful for preventing oxygen or ventilator needs. www.medrxiv.org/content/10.1101/2021.01.05.21249310v1.fullIt did prevent death by 7%, but that might be a fluke. There were only 112 patients. Remdesivir and colchicine (the second one an very old, cheap drug) were both effective in case of hospitalization. www.medpagetoday.com/infectiousdisease/covid19/90887 |
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Post by ironhamster on Feb 9, 2021 6:55:33 GMT -5
mirrororchid ...single or unhappily married? They were both single. Both divorced, if it helps with your theory. The first was looking more for relief and companionship. The second, I'm not sure it's worth trying to analyze someone that is incapable of telling the truth. A year after I broke it off and blocked her, I came across a woman that knew her. She went back to the unhealthy relationship she had before me.
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