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Post by jim44444 on Feb 2, 2021 11:47:15 GMT -5
Listen, if a post menopausal wife wants to have sex, she will find a way (hormone topical cream, lube or just sucking up a bit of discomfort) to make things work. If she doesn't care, she will use menopause as an excuse. As a post-menopausal refused woman, that is my take. My parts might not work quite as well as they used to, but they're not broken. Desire/resolve plus a little patience will smooth over many shortcomings. Sure, there are doubtless some people with serious genital issues that can't be fixed easily or at all, but even then, there is oral, fantasy, a lot of stuff a person can employ if they wish to be sexual. If they DON'T desire that they will use age as an excuse. A common excuse irrespective of gender. How often have we seen posts where the man says "I am over 50, it doesn't work"? If someone wants to be intimate/sexual they will move mountains to do so. If someone does not want to be intimate/sexual they will build strong walls to repel us.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 2, 2021 17:49:08 GMT -5
Listen, if a post menopausal wife wants to have sex, she will find a way (hormone topical cream, lube or just sucking up a bit of discomfort) to make things work. If she doesn't care, she will use menopause as an excuse. As a post-menopausal refused woman, that is my take. My parts might not work quite as well as they used to, but they're not broken. Desire/resolve plus a little patience will smooth over many shortcomings. Sure, there are doubtless some people with serious genital issues that can't be fixed easily or at all, but even then, there is oral, fantasy, a lot of stuff a person can employ if they wish to be sexual. If they DON'T desire that they will use age as an excuse. That's my point exactly! If my refuser W wasn't a refuser she would have looked into something but she did nothing, zero, zilch because she wanted the final excuse. We discussed it briefly a few years ago and I got the usual, "Ugh, all you think about is sex." which is hilarious for a conversation that happened three times in 20 years. Now we have separate bedrooms and haven't had sex of any kind for almost a year and a half.
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