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Post by jerri on Oct 28, 2020 23:17:46 GMT -5
Without regard to the functionality or comfort of the pillow the commercial struck me as amusing. Who sleeps with that many clothes on? And why does she wear makeup to bed? Where are the blankets on the bed? I need answers! Silly goose
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Post by deadzone75 on Oct 29, 2020 0:44:55 GMT -5
You would never hold that position all night unless you were dead.
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Post by mirrororchid on Oct 29, 2020 5:47:29 GMT -5
Without regard to the functionality or comfort of the pillow the commercial struck me as amusing. Who sleeps with that many clothes on? And why does she wear makeup to bed? Where are the blankets on the bed? I need answers! She's a member here at ILIASM. All he wants to do is cuddle. Saves time to have the clothes and makeup on before she goes to her boyfriend's house. When he falls asleep, she doesn't wake him from lifting her head off his arm. Win-win.
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Post by worksforme2 on Oct 29, 2020 7:57:04 GMT -5
That's actually a great idea. It would work with a dog, too. How do you get the dog to keep its legs under the pillow ?
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Post by idgaf96 on Oct 29, 2020 12:00:09 GMT -5
My refusing x would not cuddle with me for so many years. I missed it almost as much as good sex. I am done with that shithole. I fall asleep completely cuddled and snuggled up as close as possible. Arms and legs intertwined and even swaddled. It is so wonderful to be loved again.
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Post by sadkat on Oct 29, 2020 18:23:25 GMT -5
I must say that what I saw in the video (I’ll admit to not viewing the entire video) is not my definition of cuddling. Seems like the pillow is in the way. My favorite form of cuddling is total body skin to skin with no space in between. Either spooning with his hand under my breast or face to face with my entire leg over his hip. <sigh! 😢>.
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Post by ScottDinTN on Oct 30, 2020 0:04:49 GMT -5
Jerri, I am DONE. Done with several things. I tried for so long and just felt used every time I tried. Something very tragic would have to happen for me to physically comfort my W. Even after my surgery last year I didn't want to get close to her. She tried to hug me and I changed the subject. I am done is all I can say right now. It is like; Fool me once-shame on you. Fool me twice-shame on me has some consequences. I am still civil, l do things for my W but the touchy-freely stuff creeps me out. Nice pillow, thanks for the description. My W had a full length body pillow to keep me away from her when we shared a bed but that was a long time ago. Our wives must be twins! She slept on the opposite edge of the bed too and always put pillows between us. She wanted a king size bed so we could spread out. Which meant easier for her to be out of reach of me. I also don't touch her anymore at all. It only makes me think of all the times she rejected me any time touch is even hinted at. My wife is going thru some extreme back pain lately. She usually asks one of the kids to rub her back. She asked me to a couple months back and I gave in because she was in so much pain. Made my skin crawl the whole time. I bought a high dollar back massager after that so if she asks again I can use that on her instead instead of touching her directly. But, she knows I don't like touching her and I live in the basement now so it doesn't come up often. She gets all the space she needs now days and I'm fine with it. Some day she'll have an entire lonely house to herself when I move out.
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Post by Handy on Oct 30, 2020 2:17:25 GMT -5
ScottDinTN, we are in similar situations. I spend as much time apart as I can.
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Post by petrushka on Nov 1, 2020 0:09:00 GMT -5
Are you able to ask for a good snuggle anyone? Sometimes, he will just say no to snuggling. And I have to ask for him to hold me when I join him in his room or I won't get held. He has not been the touchy feely type. Although he will give great hugs and if I massage him he will return the standing massage hug. What about you guys? Oh, since we had The Talk back in '09 I do get physical attention, she even initiates hugs and puts her head against my chest at times .. or against my back if we're on the (quad)bike together. If I want to get a cuddle (and this happens nearly every night) after she goes to sit in bed and read - something I can not do any more because something gets pinched in my neck and I get migraines - I get into the bedroom, take my clothes off, curl up next to her and put my head into her lap or on to her thigh, and I get a nice cuddle, stroking my back and caressing my head.
I must admit, I stole the trick from the cat. All he had to do was jump on her lap, and petting ensued. Works as well for me as it did for the cat .
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Post by greatcoastal on Nov 4, 2020 6:35:19 GMT -5
I must say that what I saw in the video (I’ll admit to not viewing the entire video) is not my definition of cuddling. Seems like the pillow is in the way. My favorite form of cuddling is total body skin to skin with no space in between. Either spooning with his hand under my breast or face to face with my entire leg over his hip. <sigh! 😢>. I want a dream lover!
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Post by takestwototango on Nov 7, 2020 15:44:42 GMT -5
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Post by scullion on Nov 15, 2020 1:30:31 GMT -5
Yes I find celibate wives dont cuddle enough
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Post by workingonit on Dec 7, 2020 12:12:54 GMT -5
Yes I find celibate wives dont cuddle enough Refusing husbands don't cuddle at all. I am stuck with my dogs for my cuddling needs. *sigh*
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Post by curious81 on Dec 7, 2020 13:46:34 GMT -5
Counter refuser here, so no getting even close to a snuggle. All that I see for the original post is, no picture or anything else, just: I need a good snuggle / I am assuming there is some type of pillow being discussed. Yes. Sorry if the ad isnt showing up for you. It's for a pillow where you can snuggle with your partner. The video in the ad has some very sweet moments and it just kind of made me yearn for something similar.
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