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Post by Handy on Oct 3, 2020 7:35:14 GMT -5
FYI, I had one UTI and my friend that was in the investment club for 50 years had a nasty UTI. His daughter from 800 miles aray moved him to her town. My Veteran's Administration doctor I see once a year said when she does "out-reach" work at the veterans' home, she screens for UTIs if the resident has certain behavioral symptoms.
As far as exposed, well yes, they are exposed to injury. Landing hard on that bar from the handlebars to the seat post was a problem for me several times.
And then, there are the TV shows with titles "Sex Sent Me to the Emergency Department." I was in an upper grade level college class where the psychology of sexual activities were the main topic. One story the class heard from actual PhD staff was about a guy having an IUD device stuck in his penis and also attached to her internally. No other information was given.
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Post by DryCreek on Oct 4, 2020 11:56:47 GMT -5
A gentleman’s dangly bits come to more harm than a bit of rearranging can sort out! Oh..... if only I could share. Pshhht. What could possibly go wrong?
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Post by isthisit on Oct 4, 2020 12:38:50 GMT -5
A gentleman’s dangly bits come to more harm than a bit of rearranging can sort out! Oh..... if only I could share. Pshhht. What could possibly go wrong? DryCreek your imagination couldn’t take you there 😖.
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Post by jerri on Oct 4, 2020 23:02:11 GMT -5
[/font] Most women can't orgasm from PIV alone, l am one of them. Sex therapist taught me that technique![/quote] Whats the technique?[/quote] Penetration with a vibe and a small battery vibe doesn't cut it. It just wakes up the entire area and I can't cum otherwise. Since it takes about twenty minutes for me to orgasm. I make sure I do fellatio then ride him first, so I feel like I have given and then can receive.😇(Not the small tingling, those don't count! It has to be the large contractions) I am most comfortable with him standing at the edge of the bed and me doggy with a vibe. Yummy
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Post by jerri on Oct 5, 2020 1:26:17 GMT -5
I am not sure I fit any of the answers. My husband kind of liked to have sex with me in the beginning. I had never seen porn before so when he wanted to watch it during sex porn addiction was furthest from my mind. We have an age gap no one can relate too and now I wish I couldn't either. I believe my husband is a narcissist and I was his trophy wife until the point at which according to him I got fat. The problem is when your husband calls you fat well... you don't get thinner and healthier....Being 30 years my senior he probably had a testosterone issue but the one time he talk to his doctor about it (which of course he was madder than hates at me about) they decided it was a "desire issue". There is just too many times I should have divorced him. I must be a fool. It is hard to face and so much easier to blame. Did his doctor and him decide this? Sounds like the most common excuse that no one has to fix.
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Post by sweetplumeria on Oct 5, 2020 2:36:13 GMT -5
I am not sure I fit any of the answers.... There is just too many times I should have divorced him. I must be a fool. It is hard to face and so much easier to blame. Did his doctor and him decide this? Sounds like the most common excuse that no one has to fix. Yes H and doctor decided.
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Post by worksforme2 on Oct 5, 2020 5:18:40 GMT -5
..Being 30 years my senior he probably had a testosterone issue but the one time he talk to his doctor about it (which of course he was madder than hates at me about) they decided it was a "desire issue". In what 3rd world country did this doctor receive his training. The doctor should have known that if it was a desire issue(not related to emotional, psychological or temporary conflict issues) then he may well be low on testosterone. Testosterone is the fuel for desire(libido). If it's low then a man's desire is going to be low.
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Post by mirrororchid on Oct 5, 2020 6:14:28 GMT -5
My friend and I call the female system "expensive real estate"
"Location, location, location"
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Post by lessingham on Oct 7, 2020 3:27:22 GMT -5
From day one she would not have sex. Wait until we are married, the honeymoon hotel walls are thin they can hear. I am sick let's go home. So, from the beginning she was excuse central. I thought it would get better, it did not. I thought it was me, then knew it was my fault. Spent years down that rabbit hole. The most honest answer she ever gave was that for her it was not that important. But the excuses change as to what she thinks she can get away with.
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Post by jerri on Oct 28, 2020 20:34:30 GMT -5
I guess I'm in the "I don't know, and she won't tell me" camp. In the early years, we'd go at it like rabbits. She was multi-orgasmic, frequently into the double digits, and I had no trouble getting her there. Life intervened, with jobs, houses and children. I foolishly tried to do everything, fix everything, build everything. I wasn't as present in the moment as I should have been, and that came with a cost. Something I have to live with now. For her part, at age 39 my wife half-mumbled "I wonder when we can be done", in reference to our sex life. Prior to that, I had noticed a pattern of her putting everything else before our marriage, and then complaining that she didn't feel close to me. A lot of generalized complaining, but absolutely no effort to suggest solutions. Rinse and repeat. L ooks like intimacy went little by little. Did you want acceptance and the intimacy and friendship to return or did both sides of the R sour?? What advise do you have doe us?We're now at the point where I'm sure my wife does not respect me, and doesn't really even seem to like me much. Mid-life buyer's remorse, maybe? Perhaps I never lived up to some perceived potential she had for me? The funny thing is I'm a far better husband and person than I was earlier in life. Apparently, too little too late. No, silly, even though it takes a lot longer to clean up, it's never too late ? l spent several years getting my marriage intimate again. Took a lot more effort on my part and I felt like giving up, Especially when he didn't give me brownie points for the things I was doing. I would so something nice with no acknowledgement or reciprication. It was frustrating and at the same time I felt rejected then it started getting better one step at a time.
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