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Post by worksforme2 on Jun 19, 2021 14:29:37 GMT -5
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Post by rejected101 on Feb 27, 2022 19:02:02 GMT -5
When I learned that my ex watched lorn (probably only a handful of times a month) it felt like she was cheating. Simply put, cheating is when you choose something or someone over your partner.
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Post by northstarmom on Feb 28, 2022 10:26:11 GMT -5
Rejected: Lots of people watch porn. My partner watches porn. Sometimes I watch porn, too. As long as it isn't something like kiddie porn and doesn't replace sex with a partner, I wouldn't care.
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Post by rejected101 on Mar 1, 2022 19:58:23 GMT -5
Rejected: Lots of people watch porn. My partner watches porn. Sometimes I watch porn, too. As long as it isn't something like kiddie porn and doesn't replace sex with a partner, I wouldn't care. I have no massive issue with porn. My current partner watches and it’s no cause for concern or upset to me. But I was being chosen less then porn in my marriage and certainly less then masturbation and for that reason I found it to be distasteful and upsetting. I think the difficulty here is: at what point does someone define “replace sex with a partner”. Does porn have to be chosen 100% of the time for someone to feel replaced? Personally, I’d be more likely to agree that, unless your living/life circumstances don’t allow for anything different, if you watch porn as much as or more then you choose sex with your partner, there is a huge problem.
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Post by northstarmom on Mar 2, 2022 10:10:22 GMT -5
rejected101: "But I was being chosen less then porn in my marriage and certainly less then masturbation and for that reason I found it to be distasteful and upsetting."
If this was during your SM of course the porn was a problem.
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