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Post by worksforme2 on Aug 22, 2020 9:57:34 GMT -5
The morning wood is the hardest. I awaken erect and full of dirty thoughts. My wife lies there, either asleep or awake. Awakening her puts her in an awful mood. If awake she is offended, saying I am running on hormones and she is just a convenient body. I neex a dead silent, no vibrating electronic morning wood relieving machine. Or a cold shower What you need is that blow job you have been pining for the last 20yrs. The shower can wait until your load is well on its way.
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Post by jerri on Aug 22, 2020 10:20:41 GMT -5
The morning wood is the hardest. I awaken erect and full of dirty thoughts. My wife lies there, either asleep or awake. Awakening her puts her in an awful mood. If awake she is offended, saying I am running on hormones and she is just a convenient body. I neex a dead silent, no vibrating electronic morning wood relieving machine. Or a cold shower Tell her there's no right or wrong when it comes to hormones/amount of sex, she's your wife, and sex never stops according to the expert. People make love once a week to ten days and we don't even get once a month. You can tell her I respectfully disagree. I would not call you wrong, but I need sex as much as you need shopping, car detailing, dog groomer. lessingham, how often do you get a yank or sex with the Mrs. Lessingham?
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Post by jerri on Aug 22, 2020 10:27:42 GMT -5
I slept with him. No offer this morning. He stayed up too late so he didn't walk the dog. I took he dog to the dog park, we had a blast.IT bothers me when Half the people don't wear masks. FWB, said I'm envious.
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Post by jerri on Aug 22, 2020 10:30:39 GMT -5
The morning wood is the hardest. I awaken erect and full of dirty thoughts. My wife lies there, either asleep or awake. Awakening her puts her in an awful mood. If awake she is offended, saying I am running on hormones and she is just a convenient body. I neex a dead silent, no vibrating electronic morning wood relieving machine. Or a cold shower What you need is that blow job you have been pining for the last 20yrs. The shower can wait until your load is well on its way. Did you keep in contact with Kathy?!?!?
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Post by lessingham on Aug 22, 2020 11:21:04 GMT -5
Once a month would be good. Not happening though.
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Post by jerri on Aug 24, 2020 5:35:56 GMT -5
His business transaction was a long wait. He followed through... after watching Bill Maher I sat on a chair with porn to my back and him facing me. I had j lube heated if you are not familiar. Very slippery, and you can't ingest. Hot tea and beverages. I performed Ode to Brian, variation, Heart beat of America, hot tea fellatio with Lynx Natural Anal lubricant ( one of a few that can be ingested) l didn't have a cock ring. I could only get him up with milking pressure. That meant I could not let go of base. He told me I can't stay hard. I told him no worries, we can reconnect some morning when you are not stressed and rested. I laid with him. We didn't use the body slime. I can reheat it another day. ๐ FWB said to go crawl in bed with DH and take advantage of the morning woody.
To give more details on date night and weekend, my mind is blown in a good way. ... I put sheets in his room, he put them on the bed, later, l wasn't going to bother asking him for sex if l didn't see a move in that direction. I put one of his favorite chocolates batches on his piled pillows. ...l came in later and he had placed DC truffles on the bed. Wow, it's a go!?!? ....he got semi erect on his own. I used porn in combo with the techniques, but in order to stay erect. I really need to keep pressure at his base. ... I really thought he was going to stay hard because of his heavy breathing. Not the case. I was turned on and confident and it felt awkward at times. Strange to see him turned on ,but he lost it in transition to the bed. He tried different things... He stood by the bed and tried to enter doggy style. I orgasm best in that position. His touch and fingering were pleasurable. ...We tried for 50ish minutes. He said, I can't stay hard. I responded, no worries. I was trying to break the time of the techniques so he would not orgasm before getting hard. I thought about getting an E-stim to milk him semi hard. Better to let him do what he wants. We cuddled under a low light ambiance with sexual music in the background. ...FWB told me to go back and sleep with him and wait for a morning wood. He slept in, so I took ๐ to the dog park. ... I let it sit for a couple days, told me that he would be seeing a doctor. We still remain a loving couple. It was very exciting for me I enjoyed his touch! ๐ It is very easy to stay pessimistic ...
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Post by mirrororchid on Aug 24, 2020 5:52:26 GMT -5
The morning wood is the hardest. I awaken erect and full of dirty thoughts. My wife lies there, either asleep or awake. Awakening her puts her in an awful mood. If awake she is offended, saying I am running on hormones and she is just a convenient body. I neex a dead silent, no vibrating electronic morning wood relieving machine. Or a cold shower When you start dating, you should leave saying, "Bye, honey! I'm off to find a less convenient body!!!!"
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Post by mirrororchid on Aug 24, 2020 6:06:23 GMT -5
...FWB told me to go back and sleep with him and wait for a morning wood. He slept in, so I took ๐ to the dog park.Maybe some words of comfort?www.nytimes.com/2020/05/15/us/coronavirus-what-to-do-outside.htmlโI think outdoors is so much better than indoors in almost all cases,โ said Linsey Marr, an engineering professor and aerosol scientist at Virginia Tech. โThereโs so much dilution that happens outdoors. As long as youโre staying at least six feet apart, I think the risk is very low.โ Pandemic life is safer outdoors, in part, because even a light wind will quickly dilute the virus. If a person nearby is sick, the wind will scatter the virus, potentially exposing nearby people but in far smaller quantities, which are less likely to be harmful. โThe virus load is important,โ said Eugene Chudnovsky, a physicist at Lehman College and the City University of New Yorkโs Graduate Center. โA single virus will not make anyone sick; it will be immediately destroyed by the immune system. The belief is that one needs a few hundred to a few thousand of SARS-CoV-2 viruses to overwhelm the immune response.โSo if you maintain six feet, you should be fine. If you're upwind? ... I let it sit for a couple days, told me that he would be seeing a doctor. We still remain a loving couple. It was very exciting for me I enjoyed his touch!๐ It is very easy to stay pessimisticSeeing a doctor? He followed up on the sex attempt. He may be serious. That's great news. He might get Viagra. A similar tactic he may prefer and his doc may help with is nitroglycerin paste (no I am not making that up.) www.woodlandhillspharmacy.com/compounds/mens-health/nitroglycerin-cream-erectile-dysfunction/...
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Post by Handy on Aug 24, 2020 12:00:11 GMT -5
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Post by jerri on Aug 24, 2020 16:30:29 GMT -5
Yay mirrororchid ,and Handy thanks for the links and information, dear ๐ hearts! Also found www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/erectile-dysfunction/symptoms-causes/syc-20355776Physical causes of erectile dysfunction In many cases, erectile dysfunction is caused by something physical. Common causes include: Heart disease Clogged blood vessels (atherosclerosis) High cholesterol High blood pressure Diabetes Obesity Metabolic syndrome โ a condition involving increased blood pressure, high insulin levels, body fat around the waist and high cholesterol Parkinson's disease Multiple sclerosis Certain prescription medications Tobacco use Peyronie's disease โ development of scar tissue inside the penis Alcoholism and other forms of substance abuse Sleep disorders Treatments for prostate cancer or enlarged prostate Surgeries or injuries that affect the pelvic area or spinal cord Low testosterone Psychological causes of erectile dysfunction The brain plays a key role in triggering the series of physical events that cause an erection, starting with feelings of sexual excitement. A number of things can interfere with sexual feelings and cause or worsen erectile dysfunction. These include: Depression, anxiety or other mental health conditions Stress Relationship problems due to stress, poor communication or other concerns" And then of course there is 'no fap' on Reddit. If it isn't too be, then it just isn't. He may only be able to get it up via masturbation. I'm not up for too much getting hot and bothered and then not cumming. I can only take so much๐
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Post by DryCreek on Aug 24, 2020 23:43:24 GMT -5
jerri, since your hand technique helps, then maybe a ring would help. Or this variation: getmegiddy.com/Mind you, it sounds like he may have some health conditions to investigate, and some prescription options may also be handy. So, let him see the doctor, regardless.
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Post by Handy on Aug 25, 2020 1:16:13 GMT -5
The Giddy device looks interesting!
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Post by baza on Aug 25, 2020 1:43:49 GMT -5
That (far from exhaustive) list of things that may be the cause of being unable to get - and/or maintain - a rod, have one common element. In such situations, the spouse - you - can not address them or fix them. The resolution of the problem (and there might not be one) can only be addressed by the spouse with the issue, whatever it might be. Sure, you might be able to offer encouragement, empathy and suchlike, and be supportive of his efforts, but *you* can't fix it. That's his job, not yours. You sure do seem to have really put the hard yards in as far as research and chasing the "why" Sister jerri , indeed your efforts appear to have been herculean. What sort of effort has he put in ?
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Post by Handy on Aug 25, 2020 2:49:38 GMT -5
With the help of a certain hooker, ED didn't stop this guy from having sex. She uses a low cost looking penis pump on the guy. Google: Old Man With Younger Asian Hooker
The doctor's version
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Post by jerri on Aug 25, 2020 23:43:06 GMT -5
That (far from exhaustive) list of things that may be the cause of being unable to get - and/or maintain - a rod, have one common element. In such situations, the spouse - you - can not address them or fix them. The resolution of the problem (and there might not be one) can only be addressed by the spouse with the issue, whatever it might be. Sure, you might be able to offer encouragement, empathy and suchlike, and be supportive of his efforts, but *you* can't fix it. That's his job, not yours. You sure do seem to have really put the hard yards in as far as research and chasing the "why" Sister jerri , indeed your efforts appear to have been herculean. What sort of effort has he put in ? An article told me to go with him. We will see if they would call me in. Probably to ask me if he snores...needs CPaP Shocked that he was looking for a doctor. Then he said he would ask around after looking on the internet. Just too soon to see how much he will put in. Purple heart emoji
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