grower
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Post by grower on Jul 8, 2020 11:27:09 GMT -5
Hi all, been a while since I have visited and have a few things to report on.
1. Have been separated from my,angry, unhappy, refusing W most of the year and I am personally feeling much, happier, healthier and would never consider going back to my suck ass, so called life that I endured for 20 years, at any cost. Life is short/ you can't change other people. My so called 50/50 child responsibility has become a 95/5, with me being 95% of my 16 year old's care. He does not want to be around a angry, unhappy person either. Fine with me, but does cut into my opportunities to have a personal life, But that's ok.
2. That brings me to the fact that the world is full of divorced, separated ladies that are wanting to meet a decent, honest and loving man. Joined Zoosk, very strange world of online dating. Be very careful and realistic, guard you info, but yess it is possible to meet some nice ladies, and yes they are horny too. Being a one woman kind of guy I have decided to pursue just one, and had to cut a couple loose because I am no player, never was, never want to be. Be realistic, if you are like me, being 60 and better than average shape, but no young buck. Look for someone your own age, interests, ect.... and not some unreal fantasy.
3. Am actually be cordial and cooperative with the W and hope to navigate through the divorce proceeding by years end. Life is good, sun rises/sets, enjoy yourself, let those happy interests, endeavors emerge from the crappy self imposed dungeon of a life. Peace SM brothers and sisters, there is life and sex.
Had mid afternoon sober sex, FN fantastic!!!!
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Post by saarinista on Jul 8, 2020 12:37:18 GMT -5
Yay! Congrats, grower. Glad you are happier. Good for you having courage. See guys? Women are out there. BTW what's the deal with Zoosk? Does it have a focus, theme, etc? Not terribly familiar with it.
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grower
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Post by grower on Jul 9, 2020 8:36:23 GMT -5
Zoosk is an online dating site, allows you to search others by age, distance and various other factors. From what I understand as a female you will be bombarded with all kinds of weirdos and propositions, which you will have to wade through. You can black list creepers, Not as much a hook up site as some. You communicate through internal messaging and then exchange phone # when you care to. Online and phone app , but you may want to turn off notifications or your phone or it can get pretty annoying. It is the internet and like real life is full of scammers and weirdos. Phone seems to be safest way to go. Not much money. Kinda fun actually.
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Post by mirrororchid on Jul 14, 2020 6:23:19 GMT -5
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Post by flashjohn on Jul 21, 2020 11:16:41 GMT -5
Congratulations grower. I am so glad you are doing well.
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spencer
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Post by spencer on Aug 3, 2020 15:47:23 GMT -5
Thank you for posting - slowly one by one these kind of posts tell me what i need to do.
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Post by lessingham on Aug 8, 2020 9:47:08 GMT -5
Sigh, good news from a distant horizon. But well done that man.
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Post by grower on Aug 11, 2020 8:06:37 GMT -5
Still doing well and happy. My friend and lover is a professional, hard working, grandmother, my age, but has as much if not more desires for sex and intimacy as I do. Which after years of 1-4 times a year, 1-2 a week is awesome. Nice to have the anger and resentment and frustration gone from my life.
I believe that many people don't desire sex, and in my case always looking for the worst in people, and life. You can't change people, but you can change the people you are around. Peace
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