Hi all, been a while since I have visited and have a few things to report on.
1. Have been separated from my,angry, unhappy, refusing W most of the year and I am personally feeling much, happier, healthier and would never consider going back to my suck ass, so called life that I endured for 20 years, at any cost. Life is short/ you can't change other people. My so called 50/50 child responsibility has become a 95/5, with me being 95% of my 16 year old's care. He does not want to be around a angry, unhappy person either. Fine with me, but does cut into my opportunities to have a personal life, But that's ok.
2. That brings me to the fact that the world is full of divorced, separated ladies that are wanting to meet a decent, honest and loving man. Joined Zoosk, very strange world of online dating. Be very careful and realistic, guard you info, but yess it is possible to meet some nice ladies, and yes they are horny too. Being a one woman kind of guy I have decided to pursue just one, and had to cut a couple loose because I am no player, never was, never want to be. Be realistic, if you are like me, being 60 and better than average shape, but no young buck. Look for someone your own age, interests, ect.... and not some unreal fantasy.
3. Am actually be cordial and cooperative with the W and hope to navigate through the divorce proceeding by years end. Life is good, sun rises/sets, enjoy yourself, let those happy interests, endeavors emerge from the crappy self imposed dungeon of a life.
Peace SM brothers and sisters, there is life and sex.
Zoosk is an online dating site, allows you to search others by age, distance and various other factors. From what I understand as a female you will be bombarded with all kinds of weirdos and propositions, which you will have to wade through. You can black list creepers, Not as much a hook up site as some. You communicate through internal messaging and then exchange phone # when you care to. Online and phone app , but you may want to turn off notifications or your phone or it can get pretty annoying. It is the internet and like real life is full of scammers and weirdos. Phone seems to be safest way to go. Not much money. Kinda fun actually.
This the "Shoutbox" -- basically a site-wide, group chat. (It's only visible to members.)
petrushka: Even her little 5 or 6 year old was questioning her purchase!
Mar 14, 2020 6:25:44 GMT -5
petrushka: One of my favourite quotes for the last 30 years: "don't ever look a sheep in the eyes, the intellectual vacuum may suck your brains out". Well, let's all drink to the sheeple! (besides, alcohol is a good disinfectant).
Mar 14, 2020 6:31:26 GMT -5
frednsa: so...............i'd like to tell her when she "attempts to placate me": have you ever been invited to a party where you knew for certain that you WEREN'T wanted ?
Mar 19, 2020 15:57:05 GMT -5
worksforme2: Former Miss Hawaii tests positive. Being the gallant lad that I am I have offered her the use of my guest bedroom to "shelter in place"..
Mar 23, 2020 20:34:21 GMT -5
worksforme2: Hey tamara68, there is a covid19 positive cat in Belgium, watch out for it.
Mar 30, 2020 14:05:56 GMT -5
tamara68: @worksforme I think I have to be more careful for all infected people. Most likely I already have Covid19
Apr 1, 2020 3:29:42 GMT -5
worksforme2: tamara68.....it's been a couple weeks since you posted you may have the covid19 virus. hopefully you are feeling better and are on your way to renewed health
Apr 11, 2020 5:31:38 GMT -5
tamara68: @worksforme thanks, yes I am feeling better. How is it in the USA?
Apr 14, 2020 1:57:26 GMT -5
worksforme2: some better and some worse,..virus seems to be slowing down, but people are beginning to refuse to stay inside,...worst thing I see is Biden leading in the election poles,...but that could be fake news
Apr 20, 2020 16:56:22 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Politics? Is that what we want to happen here?
Apr 21, 2020 6:21:24 GMT -5
petrushka: Certainly not American style politics. Toxic echo chambers.
Apr 23, 2020 16:21:52 GMT -5
petrushka: However, I feel that sexual politics, including political moves that impact the relationships between gender (misogynist, misandrist, etc) definitely deserve room in this context.
Apr 23, 2020 16:22:59 GMT -5
fred: just calculated that i've spent somewhere near 19,000 days (& nights) as a "rejectee".AND that allows for 2,000+ days (& nights) on business travel apart from her. i've chosen to "stay" .....would never do that again, and can't as you see doing the math
May 15, 2020 18:01:15 GMT -5
worksforme2: 19000 days and nights,....damn dude, that's 52 yrs.
Jun 17, 2020 9:19:10 GMT -5
fred: you're a little short works - was thinking this AM, there has NEVER been a day when she indicated desire for me physically (other than for heavy lifting or finance)........LOL...........earlier, i had enough libido for both of us, now i'm left with guilt
Jun 20, 2020 13:11:12 GMT -5
fred: over imposing myself on her rather than simply leaving .....DAMN LOVE ANYWAY !
Jun 20, 2020 13:12:12 GMT -5
mesulina: update everyone, still has not happened. I have now come to accept that I will live with out. It is just different now.
Jun 29, 2020 19:32:31 GMT -5
worksforme2: Sorry mesulina,... but on the positive side you did stock up on toys a short time back,..now might be the time to go for the gusto
Jun 30, 2020 17:42:54 GMT -5
grower: Embrace a change, you will wonder why you waited so long
Jul 9, 2020 11:22:56 GMT -5
grower: Your life clock is ticking away, don't waste all your time. Live some.
Jul 24, 2020 9:53:20 GMT -5