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Post by michael on Jul 1, 2020 10:26:52 GMT -5
She left. She took the other house. I thought I was putting it up for sale so I hired someone to put new siding on it. As soon as that was done, she moved in. I wished I didn’t spend that $6000 now. I even had to put it on my line of credit. She left the kids and she even left her damned cats.
On the bright side though, my sister in law told me my mom thinks I look more rested than I have in years and my brother said I seem more like myself again.
On the weird side, she still comes over everyday to make supper.
On the best side I met someone on POF. She said we will meet this month sometime and she said she has a big hug for me.
My poor church though. They are in shock. From what I hear anyways as we don’t actually meet right now. Maybe I’ll play the sympathy card and get some of the ladies to offer their daughters for some dates once we start to meet again if things don’t pan out from POF.
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Post by mirrororchid on Jul 1, 2020 17:25:59 GMT -5
She left. She took the other house. I thought I was putting it up for sale so I hired someone to put new siding on it. As soon as that was done, she moved in. I wished I didn’t spend that $6000 now. I even had to put it on my line of credit. She left the kids and she even left her damned cats. On the bright side though, my sister in law told me my mom thinks I look more rested than I have in years and my brother said I seem more like myself again. On the weird side, she still comes over everyday to make supper. On the best side I met someone on POF. She said we will meet this month sometime and she said she has a big hug for me. My poor church though. They are in shock. From what I hear anyways as we don’t actually meet right now. Maybe I’ll play the sympathy card and get some of the ladies to offer their daughters for some dates once we start to meet again if things don’t pan out from POF. Depending how long this keeps up, $6000 flat fee for a cook to come to your house and make y'all dinner? Deal of the century if you can make it work. Keep us in the loop. It'd be super great to hear it work out.
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Post by saarinista on Jul 1, 2020 17:46:09 GMT -5
michael Thank God! Your wife sounded like a real jerk. Welcome to the good part of your life! P. S. Cats can be rehomed by the humane Society if need be. P. S. S. Your church needs to let go and let God.
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Post by worksforme2 on Jul 1, 2020 18:39:56 GMT -5
OK, after rereading some of your earlier posts this is my take.
You 2 had talked about her leaving some time back. Looks like she took that talk to nheart and played the "I'm outa here card". Having had that talk her leaving should not have been too surprising. She took the house with the new siding....If it is smaller witha smaller yard she is probably looking at it from a maintenance, upkeep perspective. cheaper for her to heat/cool and easier to look after. New siding means no painting for at least 10 yrs.
She left the da*n cats. Rehome the cats.
If others are seeing positive signs of improvement in your physical appearance and mental balance then perhaps you owe her a "Thank You" card, along with the hopes and wishes for the same benefits accruing to her that have come to you.
She took the other house....Well she was going to end up with one of them, so look on the positive side, less moving for you.
You met someone on POF already. That's good, just be sure you take it slow. Very often after leaving a SM it is easy to mistake friendship or really any kind of attention as the early stages of love. They usually aren't, so don't fall in love right out of the gate. And keep in mind that she is just as likely to meet another male sooner or later so best come to terms with the idea of another male in her bed.
Your poor church? Unless you are in 1 of the totalitarian states that is still blocking religious services why hasn't your church started the process of reopening?
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Post by saarinista on Jul 1, 2020 18:43:45 GMT -5
Love the handwritten thank you card idea! Gotta cultivate those relationships.
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Post by worksforme2 on Jul 1, 2020 18:49:58 GMT -5
Love the handwritten thank you card idea! Gotta cultivate those relationships. That's me being in touch with my feminine side. Baring abusive circumstances why not be friends with your X if you can? Maybe after she finishes fixing dinner she will pack a lunch for him for tomorrow.
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Post by saarinista on Jul 1, 2020 18:55:56 GMT -5
Yup. There's no reason to be cranky unless there's no other alternative.
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Post by michael on Jul 1, 2020 22:20:51 GMT -5
Your poor church? Unless you are in 1 of the totalitarian states that is still blocking religious services why hasn't your church started the process of reopening? I live in Canada. We are allowed to open but the church leadership is delaying it because the congregation is a vulnerable age. I’m 47 and other than my kids, I am literally the youngest there. Sad. The future does not look good for our church and that is coming quickly. We have 40 people there with an average age of probably 80. if this new girl works out, I might consider the thank you card. That’s funny. I’m a little suspicious though. According to this new girls profile, her pictures are incredibly beautiful, she has an amazing job, and is 13 years younger. I’m very open to the idea that I’m going to be catfished. I won’t be happy about that. She said we will meet this month. If I have to drive two hours just to catfished, I think I’ll crushed.
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Post by saarinista on Jul 1, 2020 23:28:11 GMT -5
michael have you considered talking with her via video chat before meeting? That might be prudent. It would help show she is who she purports to be. Also meet in the middle!
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Post by ScottDinTN on Jul 2, 2020 1:14:42 GMT -5
Good for you!!! Just don't let her spend the night when she comes over and don't let her move back in with you!
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Post by michael on Jul 2, 2020 10:24:22 GMT -5
michael have you considered talking with her via video chat before meeting? That might be prudent. It would help show she is who she purports to be. Also meet in the middle! Good idea.
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