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Post by carl on Mar 2, 2020 13:34:30 GMT -5
I am in my forties at the moment and in good shape, touch wood. (Not that it helps though). But when I was younger I always liked the idea of women in their forties or there abouts. Even when I was 20 I kind of had an attraction to that age group. And wasn’t quite so taken by younger women. The thing is that I still prefer women in that age group. Shame. I’ve hardly had sex at all with anyone around that age. When I was younger I didn’t have the opportunity to have a relationship with a woman that age for various reasons and now I am married to someone that age she’s not fucking interested. I’ll be an old man next and they’ll be too young. Oh well. Anyway I was interested if anyone else got more turned on by people of a certain age. And has it been so as long as they remember.
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Post by h on Mar 2, 2020 13:56:38 GMT -5
I have never had a certain age group I was attracted to. Willing, enthusiastic, and female doesn't have an age limit (other than the obvious of course: over 18 and younger than dead).
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Post by grower on Mar 2, 2020 14:13:46 GMT -5
I'm kicking the door in on 60 and I think it is more of an attitude than an age thing. Don't think I would have much to talk about with someone under 40, but would not throw shade on someone older than myself, if they were young at heart and wanted to have fun. I feel young, but that friggin mirror don't like me. My W is 5 or so years younger than me and not bad to look at, but getting out and doing anything active is like pulling teeth and there is always some issue/drama so after a while I just say f it, unfortunately sex is an active thing.
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Post by mackowitz on Mar 2, 2020 15:50:56 GMT -5
It's strange for me, but when I was in my twenties, I liked attractive women in their 40's. When I was in my thirties, I liked attractive women in their 40's. Now that I'm in my forties, I really like attractive women in their 40's. Been with my wife since high school, so I never got to experience being with a woman in her 40's. And now that we are both in our 40's, we have a sexless marriage. So my experience with women in their 40's is terribly limited
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Post by worksforme2 on Mar 2, 2020 19:26:07 GMT -5
Whatever my age happened to be, that was the age female I was attracted to. Why? Because generally speaking, those were the female that were around me.
EDIT: Now that I am in my 70's I still prefer a woman somewhere around the same age.
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Post by baza on Mar 2, 2020 20:24:34 GMT -5
Same general view as Brother worksforme2 applies to me. When I was 20 I was attracted to some women around that age and not much interested in those over 30. When I was 30 I was attracted to some women around that age and not much interested in those over 40 or those under 30. When I was 40 I was attracted to some women around that age and not much interested in those over 50 or those under 40. .... and so on. And I tended to hang around with people around about my age.
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Post by tiredofbeinglonely on Mar 3, 2020 3:40:53 GMT -5
I'm 45. I am attracted to up to 10 years older (give or take), not really any younger.
Funny part, when I go on dating apps, I find most guys in my age range are looked for women in their 30s. Slim pickings for guys looking for a 45 year old! I've lost A LOT of weight (185 pounds) and have gone a long time without intimacy. I'm not really finding the options I dreamt about.
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Post by isthisit on Mar 3, 2020 5:31:35 GMT -5
I am in my forties at the moment and in good shape, touch wood. (Not that it helps though). But when I was younger I always liked the idea of women in their forties or there abouts. Even when I was 20 I kind of had an attraction to that age group. And wasn’t quite so taken by younger women. The thing is that I still prefer women in that age group. Shame. I’ve hardly had sex at all with anyone around that age. When I was younger I didn’t have the opportunity to have a relationship with a woman that age for various reasons and now I am married to someone that age she’s not fucking interested. I’ll be an old man next and they’ll be too young. Oh well. Anyway I was interested if anyone else got more turned on by people of a certain age. And has it been so as long as they remember. Carl, you have made my day! I am in my forties and I thought this was a myth. Please tell me where I will find these twentysomething MILF lovers. I am anxious to know. Sure, I will have nothing in common with these gentlemen but, well ... I have friends for conversation. To answer your question, prior to your shattering revelation above, I would have answered somewhere around my own age, but now I see a world of opportunity 😊.
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Post by workingonit on Mar 3, 2020 10:10:07 GMT -5
I also love this thread as a 45 year old woman! Maybe there IS hope!
I have never been too concerned with age but recently someone started online flirting with me on a DM on reddit. Not weird in general but he was really flirty really quickly which I usually just shut down. Turned out he was 28. I told him how old I am and shut him down. The thought of being sexy with someone that young is gross, IMO. He called me ageist. Guess I am not a cougar!
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Post by h on Mar 3, 2020 11:00:53 GMT -5
I also love this thread as a 45 year old woman! Maybe there IS hope! I have never been too concerned with age but recently someone started online flirting with me on a DM on reddit. Not weird in general but he was really flirty really quickly which I usually just shut down. Turned out he was 28. I told him how old I am and shut him down. The thought of being sexy with someone that young is gross, IMO. He called me ageist. Guess I am not a cougar! Probably younger guys are more interested in older women because they are often more experienced and less inhibited. That would be my thought.
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Post by lessingham on Mar 3, 2020 11:13:57 GMT -5
I adore most women, they all have their beauty and stories to tell.
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Post by saarinista on Mar 3, 2020 13:28:43 GMT -5
I'd prefer someone around my age so we have the same cultural touchstones. My husband is 12 years older and sexlessness aside, his obsessions with early 1950s music are wearing thin.
But there are no absolutes. Mainly, I want someone who is broad minded, open to discovery and learning and joy and LIVING. That's my main thing. Along with interested in sex.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 3, 2020 14:49:01 GMT -5
I've reached that point where I just don't see having a connection with anyone younger than 45 or so. Physical appearance be it age, hair, etc. doesn't have a narrow window for me. I just find some people naturally attractive. How they carry themselves. How they laugh. What they find interesting and funny. Those are the things that draw my attention.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 3, 2020 14:52:06 GMT -5
I also love this thread as a 45 year old woman! Maybe there IS hope! I have never been too concerned with age but recently someone started online flirting with me on a DM on reddit. Not weird in general but he was really flirty really quickly which I usually just shut down. Turned out he was 28. I told him how old I am and shut him down. The thought of being sexy with someone that young is gross, IMO. He called me ageist. Guess I am not a cougar! Great story and it reminded me of something that happened last week. I have worked on college/university campuses for about 15 years now. I can't see anyone in their 20s as anything other than kids : ) I was at a committee meeting the other day and one of our members, a 22ish female, was dressed in a way that favored skin over fabric. My first thought was a fatherly, "Go back to your apartment and get some clothes on". Yup, I'm officially an old curmudgeon.
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Post by Handy on Mar 3, 2020 15:10:48 GMT -5
Not interested in anyone younger than about 65 and not over 80 but they would have to be in reasonably good health. Age is a number, physical health and attitude is what really matters.
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