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Post by sweetplumeria on Mar 1, 2020 3:00:14 GMT -5
Well... we were watching a movie... hubby smoked out the house because he wasn't watching his cooking. He liked the movie we were watching "Anna".
So... With smoke in the air and him asking about doors etc. I had been opening doors, turning on the fan, and then moved some laundry to the dryer. I was going to move another load into the washer when he began yelling at me. I was getting in trouble for not watching the movie. Yelling at me to watch the movie and then when I yelled back he got even more mad saying that it's hard to be nice to me. He was mad at me for yelling at him. I like the movie but it's harder to enjoy as I am now a prisoner to it.
I am drinking now.
I don't feel like I can share with anyone... yet... I wish I wasn't alone dealing with this crazy. Why do I have to do everything he does? Why can't I stop watching a movie or load the washer?
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Post by worksforme2 on Mar 1, 2020 4:46:35 GMT -5
Your H sounds like he is in serious need of mental health counselling. I have seen a few people with control issues but not to the degree you are describing for us with your H. I know it must be hard to share this type of abuse with others but I think it's time for you to get some help to address this situation. It's way past time if it drives you to grab some alcohol in order to deal with it.
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Post by lessingham on Mar 2, 2020 4:35:33 GMT -5
Like the saying about fire, alcohol is a good servant but a harsh master. It is easy for us guys to say, "You do not shout at me, you have not earned the right to shout at me," without fearing a slap but you should try to find your safe response to the shouting. But stay safe.
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