So this is for real? As long as there are no lingerie wearing expectations, I’ll tentatively stick a toe in this. Nashville is the country music center of the world. If I make it for this get together on June 13, I’m headed to the Grand Ole Opry! And maybe to a few bars with starving artists trying to make it in country music.
IDK Sadkat, I was kinda looking forward to seeing these guys prance about for us in skimpy negligees!
I am not coming but wanted to comment on what Sadkat said about sleeping arrangements.
I did go to an event that separated sleeping locations, men from the women. I wound up in a double bed with a man. I didn't feel comfortableso I went out to my car and slept there all night. Maybe I have some homo phobic tenancies.
I think I could in the same bed with a woman I didn't know, easier than be in a bed with a man. BTY, I have experience sleeping on my edge of the bed so as not to touch another person. I respect people's boundaries.
With me around, if anyone was being intrusive with Sadkat, I would steep in and try to disarm the situation. I think other men would do the same. After all a person put in an awkward situation tends to be not much fun to be around and should never be put in that position. Positive free exchanges between people is so much more enjoyable than pressuring someone into something they do not enjoy.
If you’d rather cuddle up w/ Mrs. P, my house will be man-free that weekend. :-) With any luck, by June it will be man-free for good.
Mrs P likes to cuddle?!? The skin to skin, smooching, feeling each other up kind of cuddle? I’ll gladly hug my girlfriends but I tend to reserve cuddling for a special guy.
She definitely likes to cuddle up with the pillows and blankets she uses to erect a wall between herself and her bed partner. For the longest time, I thought it was just me. But the other day I noticed she had one built up between herself and our daughter. after 13 years of this, I think I’d rather cuddle up with a guy too. :-)
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Nov 5, 2019 17:25:20 GMT -5
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Nov 8, 2019 9:37:14 GMT -5
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Nov 8, 2019 9:41:51 GMT -5
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Nov 11, 2019 8:09:49 GMT -5
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Nov 11, 2019 8:14:06 GMT -5
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