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Post by sadkat on Feb 11, 2020 23:07:18 GMT -5
Awww. Don't like cuddles? lol Oh, I love to cuddle! I just don’t think it would be a good idea to be the only female in a house with a bunch of ILIASM men! Call me a coward. 😂.
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Post by ScottDinTN on Feb 11, 2020 23:43:01 GMT -5
I can understand that. We just need a few more women to join in.
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Post by DryCreek on Feb 12, 2020 1:30:33 GMT -5
I just don’t think it would be a good idea to be the only female in a house with a bunch of ILIASM men! Call me a coward. 😂. Even a dude might double-think that one. 😂 Though, the idea of being the only guy in a houseful of ILIASM women seems less daunting...
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Post by Handy on Feb 12, 2020 2:21:36 GMT -5
I am not coming but wanted to comment on what Sadkat said about sleeping arrangements. I did go to an event that separated sleeping locations, men from the women. I wound up in a double bed with a man. I didn't feel comfortableso I went out to my car and slept there all night. Maybe I have some homo phobic tenancies. I think I could in the same bed with a woman I didn't know, easier than be in a bed with a man. BTY, I have experience sleeping on my edge of the bed so as not to touch another person. I respect people's boundaries.
With me around, if anyone was being intrusive with Sadkat, I would steep in and try to disarm the situation. I think other men would do the same. After all a person put in an awkward situation tends to be not much fun to be around and should never be put in that position. Positive free exchanges between people is so much more enjoyable than pressuring someone into something they do not enjoy.
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Post by sadkat on Feb 12, 2020 9:03:24 GMT -5
I just don’t think it would be a good idea to be the only female in a house with a bunch of ILIASM men! Call me a coward. 😂. Even a dude might double-think that one. 😂 Though, the idea of being the only guy in a houseful of ILIASM women seems less daunting... You make a very valid point DryCreek. Sorta like a kid in a candy store? I must rethink this.. 🤔😂
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Post by sadkat on Feb 12, 2020 9:06:15 GMT -5
Handy- you are a very sweet man. I’m mostly playing and joking around with you guys. I wouldn’t even be considering going on this trip if I had any concerns about the guys being intrusive.
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Post by sadkat on Feb 12, 2020 9:11:06 GMT -5
Oh, I love to cuddle! I just don’t think it would be a good idea to be the only female in a house with a bunch of ILIASM men! Call me a coward. 😂. If you’d rather cuddle up w/ Mrs. P, my house will be man-free that weekend. :-) With any luck, by June it will be man-free for good. Mrs P likes to cuddle?!? The skin to skin, smooching, feeling each other up kind of cuddle? I’ll gladly hug my girlfriends but I tend to reserve cuddling for a special guy.
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Post by Handy on Feb 12, 2020 12:57:54 GMT -5
Sadkat, one of my traits is trying to to make people feel comfortable and safe.
Like you, cuddling with a special woman is my MO. Random hook-ups never interested me long term.
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Post by Handy on Feb 12, 2020 17:28:42 GMT -5
So? No one suggested playing "Truth or Dare" yet?
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Post by Handy on Feb 13, 2020 3:27:02 GMT -5
Padgemi I think I’d rather cuddle up with a guy.
I bet with a compatible and wiling woman, cuddling would be much more enjoyable than cuddling with a guy.
Me..... there is no desire to cuddle with any guys. I almost threw up the first time I saw 2 guys making out.
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Post by workingonit on Feb 13, 2020 9:21:16 GMT -5
Mrs P likes to cuddle?!? The skin to skin, smooching, feeling each other up kind of cuddle? I’ll gladly hug my girlfriends but I tend to reserve cuddling for a special guy. She definitely likes to cuddle up with the pillows and blankets she uses to erect a wall between herself and her bed partner. For the longest time, I thought it was just me. But the other day I noticed she had one built up between herself and our daughter. after 13 years of this, I think I’d rather cuddle up with a guy too. :-) I am a HUGE cuddler. The lack of cuddles with my husband was worse than no sex, tbh. I cuddle with my friends even (women) and my family, kids, etc. I was raised in a cuddly family and friend group and it used to be very normal for me. My h has changed that but I am looking forward to more cuddles in my future.
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Post by ScottDinTN on Feb 14, 2020 0:34:37 GMT -5
I enjoy cuddling. It doesn't have to be sexual. Just enjoy being close to someone.
I believe touch can be very healing and brings connection. I enjoy giving massages, as my profile pics depicts. Great way to relieve tension and help someone else relax.
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Post by saarinista on Feb 15, 2020 0:13:24 GMT -5
21st C version of Woodstock. A bunch of bands (some famous) playing on a stage, hippies, sex, drugs, rock & roll for a few days in an open field; unfathomable traffic Manchester doesn’t see the other 361 days a year, etc. :-) www.bonnaroo.com/ Jesus Mary and Joseph. I ABHOR Bonnaroo. I got stuck in the traffic on the interstate from 11 to 4 in the morning the inaugural year, which must have been 15 years ago. I had to pee in a cup, It was so bad. And of course this was the middle of the night. Women with hippie skirts and long curly hair were jumping out of Vans and peeing on the median strip. It was disgusting. Gah.
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Post by sadkat on Feb 15, 2020 0:39:26 GMT -5
21st C version of Woodstock. A bunch of bands (some famous) playing on a stage, hippies, sex, drugs, rock & roll for a few days in an open field; unfathomable traffic Manchester doesn’t see the other 361 days a year, etc. :-) www.bonnaroo.com/ Jesus Mary and Joseph. I ABHOR Bonnaroo. I got stuck in the traffic on the interstate from 11 to 4 in the morning the inaugural year, which must have been 15 years ago. I had to pee in a cup, It was so bad. And of course this was the middle of the night. Women with hippie skirts and long curly hair were jumping out of Vans and peeing on the median strip. It was disgusting. Gah. Hey saarinista- if I promise not to go to Bonnaroo, will you go to Nashville with me?
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Post by saarinista on Feb 15, 2020 15:33:47 GMT -5
sadkat I might. Check your DMs.
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