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Post by carl on Feb 3, 2020 20:57:47 GMT -5
isthisit I liked your last post. But what where you trying to say. No I wouldn’t have sex with my wife for the time being.
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Post by Apocrypha on Feb 4, 2020 10:30:49 GMT -5
I wouldn’t want sex with any of the examples you described but I wouldn’t think of marrying them either. I am quite similar to my wife and other women have said they loved me so I just don’t understand. Other women have loved me and wanted to have sex with me too. I'm not the worst. I'll bet you aren't either. But you have articulated a fundamental lack of an ability to understand your wife's perspective. So I'm trying to help you imagine it. People often overthink this, or try to bake in an assumption about their marriage - that because their wedding announced an intention to remain married, that the attraction as well would keep in perpetuity. To understand, think of someone who you don't want to have sex with. Even better, think of someone you DID want to have sex with - maybe a childhood crush, who you look at now, or know something about them and think maybe you wouldn't. The fact of your marriage means nothing in terms of attraction or desire.
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Post by isthisit on Feb 4, 2020 13:39:12 GMT -5
isthisit I liked your last post. But what where you trying to say. No I wouldn’t have sex with my wife for the time being. Thank you carl I am glad you liked it. Apologies if it was cryptic I was in a particularly playful mood. So I guess what I was getting at was that I understand that you have no plans to initiate. But do you have a plan if Mrs Carl chooses to do so? (Which may or may not be based on some major purchase she had in her mind?) After all surely there is no risk of rejection if she gets the ball rolling? My second question relates to whether Mrs Carl understands a) that you are counter refusing and b) if so, why? To answer your question about me. I briefly saw a very nice guy in the autumn for a few dates. Unfortunately he did something I couldn’t get past so I ended it there. I am quite content on my own, I don’t need the validation of having a man in my life, it has to be right or I would rather not bother. Just my way. And anyway, now the Super Bowl has happened deadzone75 will be here any minute for our trips to Costa Rica and Antarctica. He won’t know what’s hit him 😉.
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Post by sadkat on Feb 4, 2020 14:07:30 GMT -5
isthisit I liked your last post. But what where you trying to say. No I wouldn’t have sex with my wife for the time being. Thank you carl I am glad you liked it. Apologies if it was cryptic I was in a particularly playful mood. So I guess what I was getting at was that I understand that you have no plans to initiate. But do you have a plan if Mrs Carl chooses to do so? (Which may or may not be based on some major purchase she had in her mind?) After all surely there is no risk of rejection if she gets the ball rolling? My second question relates to whether Mrs Carl understands a) that you are counter refusing and b) if so, why? To answer your question about me. I briefly saw a very nice guy in the autumn for a few dates. Unfortunately he did something I couldn’t get past so I ended it there. I am quite content on my own, I don’t need the validation of having a man in my life, it has to be right or I would rather not bother. Just my way. And anyway, now the Super Bowl has happened deadzone75 will be here any minute for our trips to Costa Rica and Antarctica. He won’t know what’s hit him 😉. Maybe the squishy, oily sandwich thingy can be done with deadzone75 if you chose Costa Rica. 😉. The two of you can cuddle in an igloo all by yourselves.
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Post by isthisit on Feb 4, 2020 14:16:07 GMT -5
Thank you carl I am glad you liked it. Apologies if it was cryptic I was in a particularly playful mood. So I guess what I was getting at was that I understand that you have no plans to initiate. But do you have a plan if Mrs Carl chooses to do so? (Which may or may not be based on some major purchase she had in her mind?) After all surely there is no risk of rejection if she gets the ball rolling? My second question relates to whether Mrs Carl understands a) that you are counter refusing and b) if so, why? To answer your question about me. I briefly saw a very nice guy in the autumn for a few dates. Unfortunately he did something I couldn’t get past so I ended it there. I am quite content on my own, I don’t need the validation of having a man in my life, it has to be right or I would rather not bother. Just my way. And anyway, now the Super Bowl has happened deadzone75 will be here any minute for our trips to Costa Rica and Antarctica. He won’t know what’s hit him 😉. Maybe the squishy, oily sandwich thingy can be done with deadzone75 if you chose Costa Rica. 😉. The two of you can cuddle in an igloo all by yourselves. Do you think igloos have kitchens? I have been keen to get him into a kitchen for reasons that will be obvious to regular viewers.... 😉.
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Post by deadzone75 on Feb 4, 2020 14:45:49 GMT -5
isthisit I liked your last post. But what where you trying to say. No I wouldn’t have sex with my wife for the time being. Thank you carl I am glad you liked it. Apologies if it was cryptic I was in a particularly playful mood. So I guess what I was getting at was that I understand that you have no plans to initiate. But do you have a plan if Mrs Carl chooses to do so? (Which may or may not be based on some major purchase she had in her mind?) After all surely there is no risk of rejection if she gets the ball rolling? My second question relates to whether Mrs Carl understands a) that you are counter refusing and b) if so, why? To answer your question about me. I briefly saw a very nice guy in the autumn for a few dates. Unfortunately he did something I couldn’t get past so I ended it there. I am quite content on my own, I don’t need the validation of having a man in my life, it has to be right or I would rather not bother. Just my way. And anyway, now the Super Bowl has happened deadzone75 will be here any minute for our trips to Costa Rica and Antarctica. He won’t know what’s hit him 😉. My snowshoes and budgie smugglers are packed.
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Post by deadzone75 on Feb 4, 2020 14:49:35 GMT -5
Thank you carl I am glad you liked it. Apologies if it was cryptic I was in a particularly playful mood. So I guess what I was getting at was that I understand that you have no plans to initiate. But do you have a plan if Mrs Carl chooses to do so? (Which may or may not be based on some major purchase she had in her mind?) After all surely there is no risk of rejection if she gets the ball rolling? My second question relates to whether Mrs Carl understands a) that you are counter refusing and b) if so, why? To answer your question about me. I briefly saw a very nice guy in the autumn for a few dates. Unfortunately he did something I couldn’t get past so I ended it there. I am quite content on my own, I don’t need the validation of having a man in my life, it has to be right or I would rather not bother. Just my way. And anyway, now the Super Bowl has happened deadzone75 will be here any minute for our trips to Costa Rica and Antarctica. He won’t know what’s hit him 😉. Maybe the squishy, oily sandwich thingy can be done with deadzone75 if you chose Costa Rica. 😉. The two of you can cuddle in an igloo all by yourselves. Sadkat, you do not enjoy ice cream sandwiches?
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Post by deadzone75 on Feb 4, 2020 14:51:51 GMT -5
Maybe the squishy, oily sandwich thingy can be done with deadzone75 if you chose Costa Rica. 😉. The two of you can cuddle in an igloo all by yourselves. Do you think igloos have kitchens? I have been keen to get him into a kitchen for reasons that will be obvious to regular viewers.... 😉. If they don't, we'll throw some whale blubber on the ground and call it a kitchen. Where there's a will, there's a way.
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Post by sadkat on Feb 4, 2020 15:06:24 GMT -5
Do you think igloos have kitchens? I have been keen to get him into a kitchen for reasons that will be obvious to regular viewers.... 😉. If they don't, we'll throw some whale blubber on the ground and call it a kitchen. Where there's a will, there's a way. 😂😂😂😂. Ok- that is just too funny!
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Post by sadkat on Feb 4, 2020 15:12:49 GMT -5
Maybe the squishy, oily sandwich thingy can be done with deadzone75 if you chose Costa Rica. 😉. The two of you can cuddle in an igloo all by yourselves. Sadkat, you do not enjoy ice cream sandwiches? 🤔. Well, it depends. If I’m nice and toasty warm and can play with them (along with a nice warm sexy body), absolutely!! I can think of a whole bunch of things I could do with an ice cream sandwich- couldn’t you isthisit? 😉 But, if your talking about me being a part of a frozen sandwich. No thanks, I’ll pass. (I’m sure you’ve gotten the message by now how much I detest the cold? To pass on your delectable body because you’ve decided to go to Antarctica with isthisit.. a girl has her limits. ).
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Post by isthisit on Feb 4, 2020 15:18:28 GMT -5
Do you think igloos have kitchens? I have been keen to get him into a kitchen for reasons that will be obvious to regular viewers.... 😉. If they don't, we'll throw some whale blubber on the ground and call it a kitchen. Where there's a will, there's a way. Close enough for me 😜.
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Post by isthisit on Feb 4, 2020 15:24:07 GMT -5
Sadkat, you do not enjoy ice cream sandwiches? 🤔. Well, it depends. If I’m nice and toasty warm and can play with them (along with a nice warm sexy body), absolutely!! I can think of a whole bunch of things I could do with an ice cream sandwich- couldn’t you isthisit ? 😉 But, if your talking about me being a part of a frozen sandwich. No thanks, I’ll pass. (I’m sure you’ve gotten the message by now how much I detest the cold? To pass on your delectable body because you’ve decided to go to Antarctica with isthisit .. a girl has her limits. ). Oh that’s a nice compromise isn’t it? We will go to Antarctica first, and deadzone75 can do his thing in the (whale blubber) kitchen and we can get busy under the furry blankets. Then we can head straight up to Costa Rica. You and I can then get busy thawing delicious DZ with oily friction until he gets all warmed up again. A reasonable compromise if I ever heard of one. Shall we see what he says or just organise it? Next week okay for you sadkat ?
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Post by isthisit on Feb 4, 2020 15:25:44 GMT -5
Thank you carl I am glad you liked it. Apologies if it was cryptic I was in a particularly playful mood. So I guess what I was getting at was that I understand that you have no plans to initiate. But do you have a plan if Mrs Carl chooses to do so? (Which may or may not be based on some major purchase she had in her mind?) After all surely there is no risk of rejection if she gets the ball rolling? My second question relates to whether Mrs Carl understands a) that you are counter refusing and b) if so, why? To answer your question about me. I briefly saw a very nice guy in the autumn for a few dates. Unfortunately he did something I couldn’t get past so I ended it there. I am quite content on my own, I don’t need the validation of having a man in my life, it has to be right or I would rather not bother. Just my way. And anyway, now the Super Bowl has happened deadzone75 will be here any minute for our trips to Costa Rica and Antarctica. He won’t know what’s hit him 😉. My snowshoes and budgie smugglers are packed. Are they the LGBT+ rainbow flag budgie smugglers or the leopard print ones?
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Post by deadzone75 on Feb 4, 2020 15:29:34 GMT -5
🤔. Well, it depends. If I’m nice and toasty warm and can play with them (along with a nice warm sexy body), absolutely!! I can think of a whole bunch of things I could do with an ice cream sandwich- couldn’t you isthisit ? 😉 But, if your talking about me being a part of a frozen sandwich. No thanks, I’ll pass. (I’m sure you’ve gotten the message by now how much I detest the cold? To pass on your delectable body because you’ve decided to go to Antarctica with isthisit .. a girl has her limits. ). Oh that’s a nice compromise isn’t it? We will go to Antarctica first, and @deadzone can do his thing in the (whale blubber) kitchen and we can get busy under the furry blankets. Then we can head straight up to Costa Rica. You and I can then get busy thawing delicious DZ with oily friction until he gets all warmed up again. A reasonable compromise if I ever heard of one. Shall we see what he says or just organise it? Next week okay for you sadkat ? I have the blubber and the oil. Just say when...
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Post by deadzone75 on Feb 4, 2020 15:31:02 GMT -5
My snowshoes and budgie smugglers are packed. Are they the LGBT+ rainbow flag budgie smugglers or the leopard print ones? I had them custom made with a blue star over the junk.
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