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Post by saarinista on Dec 11, 2019 15:51:16 GMT -5
Angeleyes: โ So eventually they broke up.I let her stay in a different room since it was that or moving back to get aunt's that I felt didn't have her best interest at heart.โ She didnโt have your sonโs best interest at heart and that was reason not to let her stay in your home. No need to make where she lived your concern. Allowing her to remain in your home after they broke up was making things difficult for your son, something that likely would have been true even if she had been more mentally balanced. Most couples who split up need distance. Yes with the first altercation I put her out. It was putting him in a difficult situation morally and legally. Having a soft heart doesn't always work out for the best. You can have a soft heart and a compassionate soul so long as you have a strong understanding of how to apply the same loving compassion to YOURSELF as you do to other people. The tendency to be compassionate to everyone except MYSELF is an issue I've worked hard to overcome. I believe the unofficial name for that tendency is "Soft-HEADED-itis". ๐๐
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Post by lessingham on Dec 12, 2019 10:19:47 GMT -5
A very pertinant point, we never lecture girls and women. Female violence is a taboo subject.
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