And just an aside: what’s wrong with dirty? Is it wrong to enjoy making a pie crust, scooping the mixed butter and flour into a ball, kneading it, the mixture oozing through your fingers until it forms a malleable dough? ....
Great, after reading your pie making erotica it will be like watching porn whenever the W make pies.
"Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity."
I totally agree with elynne. Most women who say they don't like getting oral sex it comes down to the can't relax and enjoy it either because they are givers and they feel guilty doing something solely for their pleasure or they are self conscious about the wetness, smell or amount of time it's taking. But if you were having sex before a honest conversation may work. You can work around most issues. Do it after a shower, let her lay down in a dimly lit or dark room. Build get confidence ( you taste so good) but don't talk too much lol. Maybe a cocktail or glass of wine to relax her. And a little foreplay first so it doesn't take so long she's self conscious. Also tell her orgasm doesn't have to happen it's simply the pleasure you want to give her so she doesn't feel pressured.
I love the smell of pussy. It's like something that activates the primal caveman areas of my brain, the smell swirls around and takes over my thoughts, I just have to have that pussy. Then once the taste hits my tongue. I will keep enjoying the wonderful pussy until I'm pushed off. Time doesn't exist when I'm munching the muffin, especially when she's elevated so my neck is comfortable. I've actually been told I moan to much, but it's instinctual, like when you first bite into the perfect steak.
Don't feel guilty because it's not solely for your pleasure, and your giving me pleasure as well.
I think your spouse might be like mine, and is just repulsed by oral, an aversion to it. My husband thought it was too degrading to him as a man. And it quickly escalated from there. Its incredibly difficult to "convert" a refuser.
I think aversion is what it boils down to. She won't come out and directly say that though. As opposed to your spouse, I totally love doing it, but with no outlet to satisfy that. Guess that's why we talk to each other here. Dispersing my frustration across the whole group. lol
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petrushka: Thank you! Had a great party with the boardgamers group (and BBQ, cakes and cards!)
Jan 18, 2020 20:14:00 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: You're welcome! Sounds like a wonderful way to celebrate
Jan 18, 2020 22:10:28 GMT -5
frednsa: yaaaaiiiiiieeeeoooooouuuuuuuuuueeeeeeeekkkkkkkkk ! OK, if feel better now.....
Feb 29, 2020 18:14:01 GMT -5
petrushka: Glad you got that off your chest ;-)
Mar 6, 2020 23:35:38 GMT -5
worksforme2: It is a sad day here in my small town, the only cinema has closed...it's probably close to 30 miles to get to one now...
Mar 7, 2020 19:48:28 GMT -5
worksforme2: Since our esteemed governor has declared a state of emergency here in NC (a total of 12 cases so far) the hording of toilet paper has begun. Is diarrhea a part of covid 19? I see Lowes and Home Depot have quick install toilet retro fit bidets.
Mar 13, 2020 10:34:57 GMT -5
petrushka: I've no idea what it is with the toilet paper hoarding. I walked out of a supermarket yesterday and saw a woman with the jumbo sized trolley and some 4x 18 roll packs of toilet paper. Nuts. Completely nuts. Incidentally, a bidet is definitely the way to go
Mar 14, 2020 6:18:43 GMT -5
petrushka: Even her little 5 or 6 year old was questioning her purchase!
Mar 14, 2020 6:25:44 GMT -5
petrushka: One of my favourite quotes for the last 30 years: "don't ever look a sheep in the eyes, the intellectual vacuum may suck your brains out". Well, let's all drink to the sheeple! (besides, alcohol is a good disinfectant).
Mar 14, 2020 6:31:26 GMT -5
frednsa: so...............i'd like to tell her when she "attempts to placate me": have you ever been invited to a party where you knew for certain that you WEREN'T wanted ?
Mar 19, 2020 15:57:05 GMT -5
worksforme2: Former Miss Hawaii tests positive. Being the gallant lad that I am I have offered her the use of my guest bedroom to "shelter in place"..
Mar 23, 2020 20:34:21 GMT -5
worksforme2: Hey tamara68, there is a covid19 positive cat in Belgium, watch out for it.
Mar 30, 2020 14:05:56 GMT -5
tamara68: @worksforme I think I have to be more careful for all infected people. Most likely I already have Covid19
Apr 1, 2020 3:29:42 GMT -5
worksforme2: tamara68.....it's been a couple weeks since you posted you may have the covid19 virus. hopefully you are feeling better and are on your way to renewed health
Apr 11, 2020 5:31:38 GMT -5
tamara68: @worksforme thanks, yes I am feeling better. How is it in the USA?
Apr 14, 2020 1:57:26 GMT -5
worksforme2: some better and some worse,..virus seems to be slowing down, but people are beginning to refuse to stay inside,...worst thing I see is Biden leading in the election poles,...but that could be fake news
Apr 20, 2020 16:56:22 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Politics? Is that what we want to happen here?
Apr 21, 2020 6:21:24 GMT -5
petrushka: Certainly not American style politics. Toxic echo chambers.
Apr 23, 2020 16:21:52 GMT -5
petrushka: However, I feel that sexual politics, including political moves that impact the relationships between gender (misogynist, misandrist, etc) definitely deserve room in this context.
Apr 23, 2020 16:22:59 GMT -5
fred: just calculated that i've spent somewhere near 19,000 days (& nights) as a "rejectee".AND that allows for 2,000+ days (& nights) on business travel apart from her. i've chosen to "stay" .....would never do that again, and can't as you see doing the math
May 15, 2020 18:01:15 GMT -5