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Post by saarinista on Jul 1, 2019 12:19:35 GMT -5
Or not. That's a cute donkey. I need your meme/gif sources.
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Post by noregretz on Jul 4, 2019 15:45:02 GMT -5
Or not. That's a cute donkey. I need your meme/gif sources. Need? π€
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Post by DryCreek on Jul 4, 2019 21:49:20 GMT -5
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Post by saarinista on Jul 6, 2019 2:18:19 GMT -5
Or not. That's a cute donkey. I need your meme/gif sources. Need? π€ Want? Please? π
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Post by notdeadyet on Jul 6, 2019 19:10:03 GMT -5
Ladees in the group, please help us poor morons understand something. Why do ya'll say (we've all heard it) "All you want is sex." When many of us have waited, for fucking MONTHS for even a crumb of affection, often without a word of protest for fear of being mis-understood. It's the female equivalent of calling someone a rasist. There's no point in even trying to argue. It's not intended to be true, just a way to stop any legitimate discussion dead in its tracks.
LATER, REVISED. Ok, I've been thoroughly reprimanded. By "ya'll", I only meant SM wives in general, certainly NOT those who participate here. I wasn't casting aspersions, just looking for insights on the female mind. Sincere apologies to the offended.
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Post by Handy on Jul 6, 2019 20:10:32 GMT -5
Bfar Why do ya'll say (we've all heard it) "All you want is sex."
Because it is an easy complaint to come up with and it puts the blame/problem on you. If your W said she just didn't like sex, then she would have to come up with a solution. It is easier to blame someone else than admit that a person has an issue.
People that like sex, fore-play is a bonus that leads up to sex. It is a plus. For people that do NOT like sex is just the first warning sign that something might turn sexual.
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Post by csl on Jul 6, 2019 21:44:21 GMT -5
Ladees in the group, please help us poor morons understand something. Why do ya'll say (we've all heard it) "All you want is sex." When many of us have waited, for fucking MONTHS for even a crumb of affection, often without a word of protest for fear of being mis-understood. It's the female equivalent of calling someone a rasist. There's no point in even trying to argue. It's not intended to be true, just stop any discussion in its tracks. Uh, why do think that the women of ILIASM use this tactic? Why would you think to ask women who want sex with their husbands why they are refusing it? This makes no sense. Are you a troll?
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Post by ironhamster on Jul 7, 2019 2:54:05 GMT -5
I was going to say, he is asking the wrong ladies.
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Post by Handy on Jul 7, 2019 12:10:01 GMT -5
Ironmaster I was going to say, he is asking the wrong ladies. True, but some men think all or most women should know what other women think or one woman has insight in how other women act. I saw the reverse of this several times where a woman will ask men similar to "why does my H do such and such. There is also the belief that women stick together and act according to some "women's code" based on group rules. The more I read about relationships, I find that this group code isn't true but there are some man and woman codes several people adhere to.
So, just chalk it up to Bfar as being a fairly newbie.
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Post by notdeadyet on Jul 7, 2019 13:53:18 GMT -5
I was going to say, he is asking the wrong ladies.
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Post by notdeadyet on Jul 7, 2019 13:54:17 GMT -5
I am most certainly not trolling, and I meant no offence. My mia culpa has been amended to my post.
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Post by Handy on Jul 7, 2019 15:39:00 GMT -5
Bfar, no one was accusing you of being a troll or trolling. This why isn't my spouse interested in sex even has some of the 10 year veterans wondering why.
As you read the forum, you will pick up on finding out the answer to the "why" counts less than you focusing on what you will accept or not accept. Giving up on the why leads to many individuals just charting their own course, either as staying married , counseling, outsourcing, or eventually divorcing.
What counts more than finding answers is how do you move forward from here on out.
I have read 10 to 15 relation books and did some counseling. Nothing really changed except when I gave up trying to get my W "see the light" Now I do a lot more of things individually that I want to do. NO, the W isn't happy but I don't care all that much. I am detached from her issues. I develop my own individual friends and activities I like.
I don't totally ignore my W. I take what she has to say and if it fits some truths, I make the accommodations I consider appropriate.
Anyway, welcome aboard the raft of miss-fit marriages.
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Post by flashjohn on Jul 8, 2019 14:38:16 GMT -5
Ladees in the group, please help us poor morons understand something. Why do ya'll say (we've all heard it) "All you want is sex." When many of us have waited, for fucking MONTHS for even a crumb of affection, often without a word of protest for fear of being mis-understood. It's the female equivalent of calling someone a rasist. There's no point in even trying to argue. It's not intended to be true, just a way to stop any legitimate discussion dead in its tracks. LATER, REVISED. Ok, I've been thoroughly reprimanded. By "ya'll", I only meant SM wives in general, certainly NOT those who participate here. I wasn't casting aspersions, just looking for insights on the female mind. Sincere apologies to the offended. I was pretty sure you were not referring to any of the ladies here, LOL!
I know the ladies here don't understand the female refusers just as we men don't understand the male refusers.
Over the years, my ExRefuser used to say, "You only married me for sex." After about 5 years of this, I started responding with, "Well, if I did, then I am the stupidest person on the face of the earth."
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Post by saarinista on Jul 8, 2019 16:28:52 GMT -5
Ladees in the group, please help us poor morons understand something. Why do ya'll say (we've all heard it) "All you want is sex." When many of us have waited, for fucking MONTHS for even a crumb of affection, often without a word of protest for fear of being mis-understood. It's the female equivalent of calling someone a rasist. There's no point in even trying to argue. It's not intended to be true, just a way to stop any legitimate discussion dead in its tracks. LATER, REVISED. Ok, I've been thoroughly reprimanded. By "ya'll", I only meant SM wives in general, certainly NOT those who participate here. I wasn't casting aspersions, just looking for insights on the female mind. Sincere apologies to the offended. I was pretty sure you were not referring to any of the ladies here, LOL!
I know the ladies here don't understand the female refusers just as we men don't understand the male refusers.
Over the years, my ExRefuser used to say, "You only married me for sex." After about 5 years of this, I started responding with, "Well, if I did, then I am the stupidest person on the face of the earth."
That, or she was the best deceiver. π€
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Post by flashjohn on Jul 9, 2019 14:52:19 GMT -5
I was pretty sure you were not referring to any of the ladies here, LOL!
I know the ladies here don't understand the female refusers just as we men don't understand the male refusers.
Over the years, my ExRefuser used to say, "You only married me for sex." After about 5 years of this, I started responding with, "Well, if I did, then I am the stupidest person on the face of the earth."
That, or she was the best deceiver. π€ Actually, that is probably more likely.
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