Desire and Intimacy; Madonna-Whore=(female) or Saint Brute (male=why some women like bad boys but not their H) You will have to use your imagination to understand the Saint Brute based on this article. Most articles of this type discuss the Madonna-Whore complex but not the Saint-Brute complex, which is similar but the gender is reversed.
I just discovered the term Saint Brute complex but knew it as some women go for "bad boys" or like men who take the lead. An example of leading might be
The sexual fantasy stores on another thread are interesting and I personally have a wish they were true but reality sets in for me.
10 to 40 percent of women have difficulty or inability to orgasm. 100 female volunteers, ranging from 18 to 60, they found about 11 percent said they always have orgasm during intercourse and the same number said they never climaxed.
Dr. Jessica O’Reilly, creator of the Sexual Pro Series Webinar Videos, explains that just because you can have multiple orgasms, doesn't mean that's better, per se. Although there have been studies that show about 43% of women have experienced multiple orgasms.
About 75 percent of all women never reach orgasm from intercourse alone -- that is without the extra help of sex toys, hands or tongue. And 10 to 15 percent never climax under any circumstances.
On the other hand some regular ordinary caring sex would be a treat for many of us.
Many people have serious trouble knowing what they want, feeling comfortable communicating it, and stating it clearly. Many people have difficulty solving problems because they do not know what they want, or, if they do know, cannot express it effectively to someone else.
I think some of our SM's are caused by not knowing how to ask for what we need.
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petrushka: In my world view, you are buying into some really shitty memes there.
Nov 5, 2019 17:25:20 GMT -5
apocrypha: The "feminist agenda" has changed across the past 60 years. Some feminists of the 60's call the current iteration "fainting couch feminism", thinking it a subversion and betrayal of women's lib. Hard to get a bead on what folks think, using a broad label.
Nov 8, 2019 9:37:14 GMT -5
apocrypha: No aspect of that article (which I amount to a magazine offering bad diet advice) promotes rape, coercion (beyond seduction), sexual assault, and I don't understand your public performance suggesting that they would be and thus implicating bfar.
Nov 8, 2019 9:41:51 GMT -5
mirrororchid: pfar, being sensitive means understanding how others think and feel. It doesn't mean you are compelled to adopt their thoughts and feelings. This is a matter of understanding people including loved ones. If you aren't sensitive, you lack tools to
Nov 11, 2019 8:09:49 GMT -5
mirrororchid: live well. You need not soften, but you should be able to understand vulnerability. Recognizing others' distress provides me with cues when I need to use self-control or extend help. If you're strong, you should be helping others. Use what works.
Nov 11, 2019 8:14:06 GMT -5
worksforme2: You know who I miss ...I miss smartkat and andie..and snowman 12345
Nov 14, 2019 9:16:44 GMT -5