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Post by Handy on May 18, 2019 0:13:10 GMT -5
How to Recognize a Toxic Relationship, What to do to Protect Yourself and How You Play a Part. I think this video will be helpful to some of out ILIASM members.
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Post by Handy on May 18, 2019 0:31:56 GMT -5
Low Testosterone and Depression
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Post by Handy on Aug 23, 2019 2:47:03 GMT -5
Sort of why people need a sense of belonging to something and connecting with other people. Brené Brown: Create True Belonging and Heal the World with Lewis Howes
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Post by Handy on Aug 23, 2019 23:35:53 GMT -5
Esther Perel on Sexual Desire and Successful Relationships - with Lewis Howes 1:17:28 long
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Post by warmways on Aug 24, 2019 20:39:00 GMT -5
Thanks you for the Brené Brown interview!! I learned a lot more about vulnerability.
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Post by Handy on Sept 26, 2019 14:02:19 GMT -5
"Why Men Have Trouble With Intimacy"
"6 Steps To Turn a Toxic Relationship Into a Healthy One"
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Post by Handy on Sept 29, 2019 11:31:30 GMT -5
Desire and Intimacy; Madonna-Whore=(female) or Saint Brute (male=why some women like bad boys but not their H) You will have to use your imagination to understand the Saint Brute based on this article. Most articles of this type discuss the Madonna-Whore complex but not the Saint-Brute complex, which is similar but the gender is reversed.
I just discovered the term Saint Brute complex but knew it as some women go for "bad boys" or like men who take the lead. An example of leading might be
www.theschooloflife.com/thebookoflife/desire-and-intimacy/ |
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Post by Handy on Oct 9, 2019 21:21:56 GMT -5
What Men Get Wrong About Sex Esther Perel on facing rejection, how men’s sexuality is just as mental as it is physical, and why having good sex doesn’t necessarily mean having an orgasm.
Case in point, It isn't always about getting off/organism for men.
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Post by Handy on Oct 9, 2019 21:33:04 GMT -5
The sexual fantasy stores on another thread are interesting and I personally have a wish they were true but reality sets in for me.
10 to 40 percent of women have difficulty or inability to orgasm. 100 female volunteers, ranging from 18 to 60, they found about 11 percent said they always have orgasm during intercourse and the same number said they never climaxed.
Dr. Jessica O’Reilly, creator of the Sexual Pro Series Webinar Videos, explains that just because you can have multiple orgasms, doesn't mean that's better, per se. Although there have been studies that show about 43% of women have experienced multiple orgasms.
About 75 percent of all women never reach orgasm from intercourse alone -- that is without the extra help of sex toys, hands or tongue. And 10 to 15 percent never climax under any circumstances.
On the other hand some regular ordinary caring sex would be a treat for many of us.
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Post by Handy on Dec 6, 2019 23:54:27 GMT -5
ASKING FOR WHAT YOU WANT
Many people have serious trouble knowing what they want, feeling comfortable communicating it, and stating it clearly. Many people have difficulty solving problems because they do not know what they want, or, if they do know, cannot express it effectively to someone else.
I think some of our SM's are caused by not knowing how to ask for what we need. |
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