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Post by cassiopeia92 on May 17, 2019 11:38:54 GMT -5
Or rather returning to the old me of long ago before life kicked me in the guts.
I have had two huge helpers this week. My H's assertion I am a megative ninny leading me to download a lovely book called Shine.
The second is a man I met thtough another SM forum, if you are on this one you know who you are. It has been very powerful abd cathartic tp face time with someone in the same situation. If you get the chance fo it! Someone who has complimented me, laughed at my sense of humour, who has let me know I deserve better. He has me caring for myself again and celebrated with me that I went out and bought bright colourful clothes, some new statement earrings and bits of make up and let me know I am beautiful. Rather than the constant lack of attention or criticism of my H sucking me dry.
To quote a line in that Jack Nicholson/Helen Hunt movie, what he gave me was better than sex.
Please everyone care for yourselves first, put your happiness first, this is not your fault.
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Post by Handy on May 17, 2019 17:17:00 GMT -5
cassiopeia92, this update sounds great. I am so happy that you are caring for yourself in a more productive way.
BTW, YUKU website totally went Google, so my old log in doesn't work there. And No I am not the man cassiopeia92 communicates with.
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Post by baza on May 17, 2019 18:02:13 GMT -5
If you put up a story here, and it gets a few responses, that's because the members here figure you are worth investing in Sister cassiopeia92Then, it becomes a matter of you also figuring out that you are worth investing in. And when you start investing in yourself, things start to move forward.
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Post by Rhapsodee on May 18, 2019 1:07:09 GMT -5
Bravo!
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Post by warmways on May 18, 2019 23:22:39 GMT -5
Such a great story. Hurray!! I’m so happy for you.
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