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Post by jim44444 on Apr 5, 2019 12:23:52 GMT -5
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Post by isthisit on Apr 5, 2019 12:29:49 GMT -5
18/20 for me. No to numbers 4 and 17.
I so wish I had got my act together sooner.
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Post by Handy on Apr 5, 2019 13:28:20 GMT -5
I checked all of them except 15. "You convince yourself it isn’t that bad." That question or statement doen't fit in with the other statements in my opinion.
How could you not know it is bad. I know it is bad so 20 out of 20 for me. |
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Post by firefollower on Apr 5, 2019 13:30:51 GMT -5
Great article 18/20 for me |
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Post by h on Apr 5, 2019 13:54:00 GMT -5
Yeah, I hit most of them. The ones I didn't:
6: NA. I rarely see friends anymore.
7: NA. I have very little interaction with coworkers.
8: W and I are ALWAYS together outside of work.
15: I don't try to convince myself that "it's not that bad" because I know it is.
19: NA. Neither of us take any overnight trips for work so there's no time to "miss each other".
20: NA. I don't bother thinking about the future much so I don't make plans, solo or otherwise.
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Post by baza on Apr 5, 2019 18:51:54 GMT -5
So you find out by this questionnaire (or some other questionnaire or some other method or simply by your own observations) that your marriage is a fuck up.
Now what ?
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Post by jim44444 on Apr 11, 2019 11:37:41 GMT -5
So you find out by this questionnaire (or some other questionnaire or some other method or simply by your own observations) that your marriage is a fuck up. Now what ? We come on here and vent, bitch, complain and seek a solution. Jeez baza, have you not been paying attention all these years? |
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Post by twotimesone on Apr 12, 2019 11:40:03 GMT -5
I think I am 14/20. Not as bad as you guys. However, I am definitely having plans in the future without my W.
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Post by caballotierra on Apr 25, 2019 21:11:32 GMT -5
I found that the ones that didn't resonate for me DEFINITELY resonated for my W. She was completely annoyed with ME, didn't miss ME when I was gone, etc.
The one that surprised me was Having Crushes. I had crushes like crazy. I used to think it was a chronic thing and that I had a problem falling in love, that I was in love with the idea of being in love. Now, I realize it just meant that I wanted to find someone who would not treat me like shit. We've been living in the same house, working through a divorce for months now...and I find that I realized I don't have crushes on people anymore! How about that. Now that I'm not in an unhappy confusing marriage, I find that I am now content.
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Post by midwest on Apr 26, 2019 19:15:06 GMT -5
Stupid questionnaire. 12 was the dumbest "You can't remember memorable sex."
This was click bait. Stop posting crap like this. Not helpful.
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Post by nomoretears on Apr 28, 2019 11:52:19 GMT -5
20/20 for me.
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