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Post by flashjohn on Mar 25, 2019 15:14:07 GMT -5
@ flashjohn I literally told my refuser when I quit yelling it's because I don't care anymore. He didn't take heed. I didn't start outsourcing until 3 years later. I don't consider it cheating we were roommates until we paid off the bills. That is exactly how I viewed my ExRefuser. She was just a very demanding roommate who didn't contribute to the rent or other bills. I am sure some people think this is harsh, but when you have been cut off for over 6 months, the refuser has nothing to complain about if the refused spouse fucks someone else.
I found out that I am actually very nice looking, I have a delightful personality, and I am very caring. The vast majority of women find me very attractive.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 28, 2019 8:40:19 GMT -5
To me SM is all ready wrecked. This is what amazes me. Often, refusers go along thinking everything is hunky dory, and the marriage is fine. I wrote an article on my blog saying that the most dangerous time in a sexless marriage is when the refused spouse stops asking. This means the refused spouse has given up, has found someone else, or both.
And for the record, in my opinion, it is impossible to cheat on a rejecting spouse. The rejecting spouse has given up his/her rights to exclusive sexual contact with the refused spouse. You are only outsourcing the job that the rejecting spouse won't do.
Yes .... 100% agree on both statements. Thank you!
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