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greatcoastal
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How do I fix my picker? Sept 9, 2018 7:04:05 GMT -5 Vitruvius likes this

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Post by greatcoastal on Sept 9, 2018 7:04:05 GMT -5

I came across this article this morning and wanted to pass it along.

It certainly applies to me going back into the dating world, and (I believe) is just as helpful for those who are in a SM. (whatever stage you are in).

www.chumplady.com/2018/08/how-do-i-fix-my-picker/

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How do I fix my picker? Sept 9, 2018 18:07:00 GMT -5 greatcoastal and WindSister like this

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Post by jim44444 on Sept 9, 2018 18:07:00 GMT -5

I found the article to be so so. However the comments are a steady litany of bitter voices from those who have not yet reconciled with the failed relationships. Sure their exes where/are narcissistic assholes but which of us are flawless? IMO GC, you are ahead of the curve.

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