|
Post by saarinista on Jun 14, 2020 19:35:19 GMT -5
That's the thing. People lie about liking sex to get married, because they want to have kids or whatever. Also some people outgrow each other, but they don't want to leave the marriage because of kids or money or whatever. So, they give excuses ranging from menopause to fatigue, but really, they're just not in love anymore, if they ever were.
|
|
|
Post by Handy on Jun 15, 2020 19:47:04 GMT -5
Yes, some people lie about what they like or dislike before marriage.
I was think along the lines of people being honest, with the facts that things change throughout life for some people.
If "Love Languages" and the ENQ are not reliable, what is?
|
|
|
Post by baza on Jun 15, 2020 21:25:52 GMT -5
Yes, some people lie about what they like or dislike before marriage. I was think along the lines of people being honest, with the facts that things change throughout life for some people. If "Love Languages" and the ENQ are not reliable, what is? Observation of the current facts is your best guide. If your spouse is enthusiastically banging you, then you can be pretty sure that they are sexually in to you. If your spouse is rarely banging you, and not very enthusiastically when they do, then you know they're sexually indifferent to you. If your spouse is not banging you at all, then you can rest assured they are sexually avoidant toward you. Whether they are also into "Words of affirmation" or "The giving of gifts" or "Acts of service" or other languages doesn't particularly matter.
|
|
|
Post by Handy on Jun 15, 2020 22:45:30 GMT -5
Baza, my thoughts were on the prospects of any future relationship and the other person being honest, at least for the moment. Shit happens so future bets are not included.
What you posted works for current relationships. And yes, If your spouse is not banging you at all, then you can rest assured they are sexually avoidant toward you.
|
|
kay
New Member
Posts: 2
|
Post by kay on Jun 16, 2020 17:16:50 GMT -5
I am new and just learning how to use this thread. But I will com in and say I love these books/information!! (I need to take the test again) it’s been awhile.
|
|