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Post by takestwototango on Nov 4, 2017 10:06:10 GMT -5
So that's the weird thing, is it takes more for women to get going, so frequent masturbation and kegals is a good thing for the ladies, but in men not so much, the refractory time varies, but the general time to recover semen is about 48 hours. And 7 -10 days men hit peak testosterone levels and then they level off at about 14 days, so anything over 14 days is unnecessary. But ladies are the ones that should be masturbating a couple times a day. Wow I most have some super recovery period then. I'm ready to go 30min later. If I cum multiple times in the same day, I might have the ball empty feeling for 4hrs. I flat out get sexually aggressive after 3 days without cumming. At 7 days I want to be a cave man and drag her back to the bed. 14 days is crazy to go without cumming. I might be wierd because I was one of the few guys still masterbating in boot camp. The stress for most guys is a libido killer. Stress does nothing to curb my libido.
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Post by northstarmom on Nov 4, 2017 10:28:45 GMT -5
I bet virtually all of the guys were masturbating in Boot Camp. They just hid it well or didn’t talk about it. Virtually all young men masturbate. Frequently.
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Post by aguywithneeds on Nov 4, 2017 10:45:13 GMT -5
I didn't, I don't think I got an erection til about a week after graduation.
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Post by hopingforachange on Nov 4, 2017 11:51:20 GMT -5
I bet virtually all of the guys were masturbating in Boot Camp. They just hid it well or didn’t talk about it. Virtually all young men masturbate. Frequently. We talked about it, most of the guys were wondering how the heck I was still masterbating. They were so stressed out that their junk wasn't working and swore the medical shots were some sort of temporary castration. I didn't, I don't think I got an erection til about a week after graduation. I think that was the norm, for at least the guys. It was funny that shortly after word spread around the company, a few of the females, started started being more friendly. Unfortunately I was dating my W at the time and didn't take them up on the offer.
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Post by aguywithneeds on Nov 4, 2017 13:01:28 GMT -5
Lol, there is a rumor that goes on to this day that they give you soft Peter, and it's in the eggs and salt shakers. Which is a lie, I assure you, I didn't have women in my basic, we thought those that did were having a orgy every night lol.
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Post by h on Nov 4, 2017 15:50:12 GMT -5
So that's the weird thing, is it takes more for women to get going, so frequent masturbation and kegals is a good thing for the ladies, but in men not so much, the refractory time varies, but the general time to recover semen is about 48 hours. And 7 -10 days men hit peak testosterone levels and then they level off at about 14 days, so anything over 14 days is unnecessary. But ladies are the ones that should be masturbating a couple times a day. Wow I most have some super recovery period then. I'm ready to go 30min later. If I cum multiple times in the same day, I might have the ball empty feeling for 4hrs. I flat out get sexually aggressive after 3 days without cumming. At 7 days I want to be a cave man and drag her back to the bed. 14 days is crazy to go without cumming. I might be wierd because I was one of the few guys still masterbating in boot camp. The stress for most guys is a libido killer. I'm not far behind. I can't go again that quickly but after sex, I can't go more than 3 days without having to relieve the pressure. Never tried going more than 5 days.
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Post by aguywithneeds on Nov 4, 2017 18:58:54 GMT -5
It's an adjustment, but possible, lots of professional athletes of all sorts withhold from ejaculation for better performance on the field,court,ring,and arena. There are benefits from it, do some research on male enhancement and stamina training, it's helped keep my mind off sex and still getting to play with my favorite toy, hell if I didn't put in the work, I would've never found this place and enlighten myself that I'm getting the shit end of the stick. I'd still be in that rut of once a month or two getting pity starfish sex after asking every night, in the meantime going to my empty bed to masturbate to hardcore porn for 5 min.
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Post by aguywithneeds on Nov 4, 2017 19:06:52 GMT -5
On a side note, I'm like most of you, I can get off, and in less than a minute I can be erect and ready to go again. I also thought I would go insane if I missed a day, often if I did I would masturbate as soon as I woke up and that night. Withholding and focusing on not ejaculating has really cleared my head, made my junk harder, and I have more control over myself, not only in a sexual manner, but in general. Just thought I'd say that to clear up any confusion, I know not everyone is the same.
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Post by h on Nov 4, 2017 19:20:50 GMT -5
On a side note, I'm like most of you, I can get off, and in less than a minute I can be erect and ready to go again. I also thought I would go insane if I missed a day, often if I did I would masturbate as soon as I woke up and that night. Withholding and focusing on not ejaculating has really cleared my head, made my junk harder, and I have more control over myself, not only in a sexual manner, but in general. Just thought I'd say that to clear up any confusion, I know not everyone is the same. I'm the exact opposite. If I can't release the tension for a few days, I can't focus on anything. My mind is a fog of frustration and I can't think straight. Also, I can get erect in about 15 minutes after cumming but I can't maintain it or cum again for at least another hour. I have never had the opportunity to go for a second round with my W though. She's a one and done type and once I get off, she isn't interested in doing anything other than cleaning herself off. I only know my limits from my solo endeavors and the let down of last weekend's unsuccessful attempt to rise to the occasion after cranking one out in the shower.
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Post by ironhamster on Nov 4, 2017 20:04:39 GMT -5
My refractory times are all over the place, but my nuts ache within thirty-six hours of not cumming, and within seventy-two hours I can't think straight. I can edge, but if I went a week without relief I would be unfit for work.
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Post by aguywithneeds on Nov 4, 2017 20:26:58 GMT -5
Gotta get control over it, work up to it. I made it out to 6 weeks, and I'll be honest there's really no point after 10 days, I keep it on a 7-10 day schedule, just depends, the trick is porn. Gotta ditch both, I started off cold turkey, soon found that wasn't an option, and worked myself up, I still enjoy soft porn, mostly naked women, nothing remotely close to what was a normal browsing session. You can't just take away one variable, gotta be a clean slate.
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Post by workingonit on Nov 4, 2017 20:42:01 GMT -5
This is all very enlightening 🤔
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Post by hopingforachange on Nov 4, 2017 21:01:23 GMT -5
I've ditched porn, and I've found that at first my imiganiation and fantasies sucked, now after 3months, I feel like I can fantasize like how I could before porn.
It's never affected my hardness, both for sex and masterbation. My inability to fantasize did affect me, since I couldn't imagine, and get my self aroused, he had trickle getting up. It just told me a little bit longer.
I could also be dealing with being older and dealing with the natural aging issues.
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Post by ironhamster on Nov 4, 2017 21:38:45 GMT -5
This is all very enlightening 🤔 It gives me food for thought, too. A quarter century of neglect took its toll on my all-nighter abilities. Who knows. Maybe it is just age, but if I can get that back without resorting to pills, injections, or implants, I will be happy.
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Post by M2G on Nov 5, 2017 5:55:16 GMT -5
I'm pretty close to once/day, ditched pro porn ages ago for amateur but porn is not anywhere close to being a "need" (yet). Also there are studies that indicate it's good for prostate health. Maybe true, maybe not, but it can't hurt. Refractory time hasn't been measured in years since I've been basically celibate or so long.
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