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Post by Deleted on Mar 25, 2016 20:15:05 GMT -5
I moved out on 2/29. I am really glad that I am able to come home and relax. 6 days after I moved out, I met with my refusing cheater at the home of a couple from my church. At that time, my refusing cheater told me that she had been refusing because i had spent too much money. I am very irritated that she is using this as a rationalization for her refusal. I will be telling my lawyer to file the divorce next week.
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Post by darktippedrose on Mar 26, 2016 2:17:34 GMT -5
wow. so sorry. my husband used the excuse that me and my children were dragging him down to hell and it was because of us that hes cheated. He won't admit to rejecting me.
But I'm glad you made it out. Good luck to you.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 26, 2016 10:35:54 GMT -5
From my perspective (in the middle of divorce), the sooner you file, the better. At least where I am, divorce takes forever and I wasted a lot of time trying to be reasonable and "nice". Now I'm headed to court and I'm months behind where I would have been if I had just listened to my lawyer back in October.
I'm moving out next Tuesday (yes, I lived with my STBX for months after starting the divorce process and it sucked) and I can't wait to be able to come home and relax knowing he can't just walk in anytime he wants. Good for you moving out and good luck as you move on!
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2016 9:21:22 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Apr 14, 2016 16:26:28 GMT -5
I had a nice conversation with a friend today. When I told him I had been celibate for over 5 years, his jaw dropped open.
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Post by wewbwb on May 6, 2016 14:29:32 GMT -5
When I told my DBF he slapped me in the back of the head (Gibbs style). Then said "Why the fuck are you married?"
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Post by Deleted on May 6, 2016 18:36:13 GMT -5
wow. so sorry. my husband used the excuse that me and my children were dragging him down to hell and it was because of us that hes cheated. He won't admit to rejecting me. But I'm glad you made it out. Good luck to you. I see, since he's going to hell anyway he might as well live it up while he can. There is the mother of all rationalizations.
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Post by gearcynic on May 7, 2016 8:42:54 GMT -5
Doesn't matter what they tell you - any excuse is a reason to a refuser.
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