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Post by Deleted on Apr 27, 2016 17:39:47 GMT -5
[br Do you suspect he has some side dish that might have dumped him? No - to someone on the side. I can barely get him 'out' of the house. Porn - maybe but doubtful. I've encouraged that over the years- he's such a purde. With all that said- I'm not naive enough to know anything is possible. I doubt porn would increase drive. It usually kills it towards real human beings. I'd be more inclined to think he's feeling some threat -- and that's turning him on. |
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Post by lass1 on Apr 27, 2016 17:51:40 GMT -5
I am suspicious of any sudden change in behavior. who knows whats really going on in his head. but I probably wouldn't be too fast to trust it. just my 2cts. and I am like you. I don't find my husband attractive anymore. I'm not sexually attracted to him at all. I have desires, but not for him. and thats ok. nothing wrong with how you're feeling. |
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Post by lass1 on Apr 27, 2016 17:57:39 GMT -5
I am suspicious of any sudden change in behavior. who knows whats really going on in his head. but I probably wouldn't be too fast to trust it. just my 2cts. and I am like you. I don't find my husband attractive anymore. I'm not sexually attracted to him at all. I have desires, but not for him. and thats ok. nothing wrong with how you're feeling. |
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Post by lass1 on Apr 27, 2016 17:58:10 GMT -5
Hmmm. This all sounds suspicious to me.
It could be as simple as he had a itch to scratch and since your his wife......you get first prize.
But if he suddenly days he thinks you've got a hot body that's he didn't realise was always in front of him anyway then.....alert alert.
Having said that....I don't think I could have sex with hubby without alot of forced self motivation. I agree that over time slowly we just don't find them attractive because of their habitual rejections. It's true for me.
God I would love the good ####, but alas the thought of even trying it with him to see if all parts work would just be too off putting. In many ways I thank God I'm not a man.....then I really wouldn't be able to bluff it.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 27, 2016 18:15:03 GMT -5
Hmmm. This all sounds suspicious to me. It could be as simple as he had a itch to scratch and since your his wife......you get first prize. But if he suddenly days he thinks you've got a hot body that's he didn't realise was always in front of him anyway then.....alert alert. Having said that....I don't think I could have sex with hubby without alot of forced self motivation. I agree that over time slowly we just don't find them attractive because of their habitual rejections. It's true for me. God I would love the good ####, but alas the thought of even trying it with him to see if all parts work would just be too off putting. In many ways I thank God I'm not a man.....then I really wouldn't be able to bluff it. Aye Lass, you said IT there. The men definitely cannot fake it. I've often wondered what I would do if my wife suddenly had a change of heart like Lexus's H seems to have had. My first reaction would probably be to respond enthusiastically and make a plan to definitely schedule it for next week some time (to be determined after I consult my schedule). (Got that from my wife.) Then I would have a week to consider it, make plans, or maybe forget about it. But explaining why I wake up every morning with an unconcealably raging erection, but can't seem to get it up for sex with my wife is not on any of my wish lists. |
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Post by deleted on Apr 27, 2016 18:34:07 GMT -5
Maybe he is truly attracted to you or maybe he is marking his property. Marking property? You mean like peeing on her? That's a different thread. |
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Post by Frustrated1978 on Apr 27, 2016 18:58:00 GMT -5
I hear you sister lex. I feel like a tool for saying this but altough my wife is physically attractive i am not turned on by her given her attitude to sex in the past.
About a week ago she wanted a marathon session for whatever reason and i was just going through the motions. My lack of desire was purely because her past attitude has turned me off her
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Post by deleted on Apr 27, 2016 19:06:47 GMT -5
explaining why I wake up every morning with an unconcealably raging erection, but can't seem to get it up for sex with my wife is not on any of my wish lists. This is a bad situation and results in some very awkward conversations. It was a very weird few weeks. |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 27, 2016 20:24:15 GMT -5
Maybe he is truly attracted to you or maybe he is marking his property. Marking property? You mean like peeing on her? That's a different thread. Bucket List? Maybe a Cleveland Steamer, a Boston Steamer, or a Hot Karl? |
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Post by lwoetin on Apr 28, 2016 0:14:48 GMT -5
If only, we could have that magically package with pretty on top that graced us with happiness, Joy, Peace, unconditional Love and a nice intimate relationship..... I haven't given up on that dream yet. I would like that package as well. Maybe it need not be a dream. We can dream about fame, fortune and hot women worshiping us. But the package you describe is realistic. |
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Post by lass1 on Apr 28, 2016 10:36:10 GMT -5
Hmmm. This all sounds suspicious to me. It could be as simple as he had a itch to scratch and since your his wife......you get first prize. But if he suddenly days he thinks you've got a hot body that's he didn't realise was always in front of him anyway then.....alert alert. Having said that....I don't think I could have sex with hubby without alot of forced self motivation. I agree that over time slowly we just don't find them attractive because of their habitual rejections. It's true for me. God I would love the good ####, but alas the thought of even trying it with him to see if all parts work would just be too off putting. In many ways I thank God I'm not a man.....then I really wouldn't be able to bluff it. Aye Lass, you said IT there. The men definitely cannot fake it. I've often wondered what I would do if my wife suddenly had a change of heart like Lexus's H seems to have had. My first reaction would probably be to respond enthusiastically and make a plan to definitely schedule it for next week some time (to be determined after I consult my schedule). (Got that from my wife.) Then I would have a week to consider it, make plans, or maybe forget about it. But explaining why I wake up every morning with an unconcealably raging erection, but can't seem to get it up for sex with my wife is not on any of my wish lists. |
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Post by lass1 on Apr 28, 2016 10:52:32 GMT -5
Aye Lass, you said IT there. The men definitely cannot fake it. I've often wondered what I would do if my wife suddenly had a change of heart like Lexus's H seems to have had.
My first reaction would probably be to respond enthusiastically and make a plan to definitely schedule it for next week some time (to be determined after I consult my schedule). (Got that from my wife.)
Then I would have a week to consider it, make plans, or maybe forget about it.
But explaining why I wake up every morning with an unconcealably raging erection, but can't seem to get it
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Creelunion...you made me laugh. The scheduling of a schedule,that sounds familiar.
It's funny when we are rejected we become despondent and feel so many other rejectory feelings,yet know the table is turned we seem to suffer too. We almost can't credit it and get overwhelmingly (with cause) suspicious.
Honestly, sometimes you got laugh!
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Post by Deleted on Apr 28, 2016 21:44:03 GMT -5
Aye Lass, you said IT there. The men definitely cannot fake it. I've often wondered what I would do if my wife suddenly had a change of heart like Lexus's H seems to have had. My first reaction would probably be to respond enthusiastically and make a plan to definitely schedule it for next week some time (to be determined after I consult my schedule). (Got that from my wife.) Then I would have a week to consider it, make plans, or maybe forget about it. But explaining why I wake up every morning with an unconcealably raging erection, but can't seem to get it _____________________________ Creelunion...you made me laugh. The scheduling of a schedule,that sounds familiar. It's funny when we are rejected we become despondent and feel so many other rejectory feelings,yet know the table is turned we seem to suffer too. We almost can't credit it and get overwhelmingly (with cause) suspicious. Honestly, sometimes you got laugh! No, you definitely can't just jump into the sack with your spouse. That takes planning and careful consideration. Are you busy in June? 2017? |
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Post by lass1 on Apr 29, 2016 17:03:45 GMT -5
Hmm. June 2017.....that is hasty!!!
Still maybe I'll find my toy boy by then and can bluff him for a change. After all after more than a decade he probably won't even even remember his old lines given back at him!
Got to say , being on the browser for this I'd better 5han thru tapas alk. ...I couldn't figure out how pole responded to individual comment.
Each day gets better(on here). But that's not bad for this year's new motto from last year's 'small steps'
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Post by Deleted on Apr 29, 2016 17:23:28 GMT -5
Hmm. June 2017.....that is hasty!!! Still maybe I'll find my toy boy by then and can bluff him for a change. After all after more than a decade he probably won't even even remember his old lines given back at him! Got to say , being on the browser for this I'd better 5han thru tapas alk. ...I couldn't figure out how pole responded to individual comment. Each day gets better(on here). But that's not bad for this year's new motto from last year's 'small steps' Did you lose your boy toy? |
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