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Post by cagedadventurer on Aug 30, 2016 16:29:46 GMT -5
My Mybestmatch.com questionnaire Rate on a scale of 1-5 with 4- VERY IMPORTANT and 5-DEAL BREAKER IMPORTANT and either we could have a lot of fun together or simply never meet . 1- Monogamy – family values-Church 2- Willingness to work together concerning household needs 3- Adventure and Travel 4- Holding Hands 5- Flirting (with each other) 6- Marriage before children 7- Shopping and Cooking together 8- Hugs 9- Sex, not necessarily kinky but certainly not without some variants 10- Frequent Sex 11- Making friends/socializing as a couple 12- Willingness to learn new sports or gain new talents 13- Willingness to cut off anything that holds “us” down such as alcohol, television, obsessive friends, drama, etc. 14- Willingness to execute a plan for the future including financial 15- Sex – just to make sure you’re still ![]() paying attention Attachments:
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Post by Deleted on Aug 30, 2016 16:46:14 GMT -5
1- Monogamy – family values-Church
Monogamy 4.5-5, church 0
2- Willingness to work together concerning household needs
5 - I'm not doing all the work myself.
3- Adventure and Travel
5 - it's a big world out there, let's go leave our mark.
4- Holding Hands
3 - not always necessary or possible, but feel nice.
5- Flirting (with each other)
5 - that's how the flame keeps burning.
6- Marriage before children
N/A - I'm not starting a family at 45.
7- Shopping and Cooking together
2 - I dislike shopping. Be my guest.
8- Hugs
5 - no explanation needed.
9- Sex, not necessarily kinky but certainly not without some variants
10 - no explanation needed.
10- Frequent Sex
11.5 - no explanation needed.
11- Making friends/socializing as a couple
4 - personal connections are important.
12- Willingness to learn new sports or gain new talents
4 - expand your horizons.
13- Willingness to cut off anything that holds “us” down such as alcohol, television, obsessive friends, drama, etc.
5 - WE before them.
14- Willingness to execute a plan for the future including financial
5 - planning is paramount.
15- Sex – just to make sure you’re still paying attention
18.7 - explanation not needed.
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Post by wewbwb on Aug 30, 2016 17:03:51 GMT -5
1- Monogamy – 5 -family values-Church N/A 2- Willingness to work together concerning household needs -5 3- Adventure and Travel -5 4- Holding Hands- 3 5- Flirting (with each other)-5 6- Marriage before children- N/A 7- Shopping and Cooking together - (shopping for sex toys together) - Everything else - negotiable 8- Hugs- 5 always and often 9- Sex, not necessarily kinky but certainly not without some variants -5 - kinky and new - 10- Frequent Sex -5 11- Making friends/socializing as a couple - 3 - she needs her friends - I need mine 12- Willingness to learn new sports or gain new talents - shared hobbies 4 - new sports - (as long as I don't have to run) 13- Willingness to cut off anything that holds “us” down such as alcohol, television, obsessive friends, drama, etc. - 5 14- Willingness to execute a plan for the future including financial- if it's a good one and we agree. 15- Sex – just to make sure you’re still paying attention - 5 Adding to my "make-out" rule and my "naked day" rule, I'd add in a "communication" rule - Once a week (at least) we sit down and discuss the things that went "right" and "wrong" - and why. What we can do to prevent these "little" things form building up and the things we need to improve upon as a couple. Also, everyday compliments. Every single day. Even for the little things and the "supposed to" things. How about just being nice to each other? I want this as our motto:  |
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Post by baza on Aug 30, 2016 19:06:34 GMT -5
I'm not sure that I have actually "got" the point here.
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But, it is interesting to note that if you look at the 15 suppossed dealbreakers as single issues, you get one picture, but if you look at the overall accumulation of the 15 questions, you get another.
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FWIW I do not believe that in most relationships there is one clear inarguable dealbreaker aspect to the whole.
Rather, I believe that it is an accumulation of quite a lot of single issues that end up totalling a dealbreaker.
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Post by wewbwb on Aug 31, 2016 7:27:23 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Sept 2, 2016 19:29:27 GMT -5
1-Monogamy – family values-Church
Monogamy - 4 (but we wouldn't BE monogamous until we were sure - and there would be an escape clause in case one of us became a refuser)
Family values/church - negative numbers
2- Willingness to work together concerning household needs
3.5
3- Adventure and Travel
5
4- Holding Hands
3
5- Flirting (with each other)
4
6- Marriage before children
N/A - I am not having children at my stage of life!
7- Shopping and Cooking together
2
8- Hugs
4
9- Sex, not necessarily kinky but certainly not without some variants
5
10- Frequent Sex
5
11- Making friends/socializing as a couple
4
12- Willingness to learn new sports or gain new talents
3.5
13- Willingness to cut off anything that holds “us” down such as alcohol, television, obsessive friends, drama, etc.
3.5
14- Willingness to execute a plan for the future including financial
4
15- Sex – just to make sure you’re still paying attention
5
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Post by northstarmom on Jun 6, 2022 20:37:11 GMT -5
1- Monogamy – family values-Church. Monogamy 5, Church 0
2- Willingness to work together concerning household needs 5
3- Adventure and Travel 5
4- Holding Hands 5
5- Flirting (with each other) 5
6- Marriage before children 5
7- Shopping and Cooking together 0
8- Hugs 5
9- Sex, not necessarily kinky but certainly not without some variants. 5
10- Frequent Sex. 5
11- Making friends/socializing as a couple. 5
12- Willingness to learn new sports or gain new talents. 4
13- Willingness to cut off anything that holds “us” down such as alcohol, television, obsessive friends, drama, etc. 2 (If I feel that an activity is vital for my mental health, I'd rather cut off the relationship)
14- Willingness to execute a plan for the future including financial. 5
15- Sex – just to make sure you’re still paying attention 5
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Post by deadzone75 on Jun 7, 2022 2:31:22 GMT -5
All 15 questions in my questionnaire would be: Do You Like Sex? And it better damn well score 5 for every question. You get 15 attempts to tell me the truth. I mean, you gonna say you like it now and then pull the rug out from under my feet down the road? No? Good. Now that I know you are a sexual being, let's talk about ourselves, what we like and about our expectations.
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Post by cagedadventurer on Jun 7, 2022 6:31:54 GMT -5
All 15 questions in my questionnaire would be: Do You Like Sex? And it better damn well score 5 for every question. You get 15 attempts to tell me the truth. I mean, you gonna say you like it now and then pull the rug out from under my feet down the road? No? Good. Now that I know you are a sexual being, let's talk about ourselves, what we like and about our expectations. LOL...you made my morning! |
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Post by heelots on Jun 7, 2022 8:55:14 GMT -5
All 15 questions in my questionnaire would be: Do You Like Sex? And it better damn well score 5 for every question. You get 15 attempts to tell me the truth. I mean, you gonna say you like it now and then pull the rug out from under my feet down the road? No? Good. Now that I know you are a sexual being, let's talk about ourselves, what we like and about our expectations. BRILLIANT! 👍 |
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