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Post by mas on Nov 11, 2017 3:52:51 GMT -5
Great story. I hope it all works out the way you plan it. You both deserve it.
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Post by mas on Oct 26, 2017 2:36:10 GMT -5
Even if this letter doesn’t work it’s still a good exercise to put pen to paper to let it out.
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Post by mas on Jul 6, 2017 3:07:56 GMT -5
Well, talk happened much more earlier than I expected it to. Wasn't as well prepared as I would have liked, but I know the message has been sent loud and clear. Was on the deck having a smoke with her this morning. And she says to me....so are you going to tell me what you're so pissed off and distant about? I said to myself, fuck it. Here we go. I laid all my cards on the table and as many have mentioned here, she came back with all the things I'm doing wrong. She tried to attack me verbally. I didn't let it work. I told her this is not about me. This is about her, and how over the last 22 years our sex life has been shit. I did not marry her to be her friend. I married her to be my wife. I married her to be intimate with. Without going into detail as I don't want to bore everyone (besides my sad-sack details have already been laid bare to you all), the conversation wrapped up like this: Her: So, what does this mean? Where do we go? Me: Take this week to decide what you want to do. Take this week to decide what you are prepared to do in order to make this work. Then I got up and I walked away. She spent the next two hours stomping around the house, slamming doors, basically acting like a spoiled child. She then came down to my man cave to say goodbye to the dogs and said to me "I guess you don't care that I'm leaving now" (For those that haven't followed my saga........shes going on vacation with her family for the week). My initial reaction was to say, if I didn't care I'd be long gone. But just decided to let her think and say what she wants. No sense in getting into a pissing argument. I said what it was that I needed to say. So the 1st hurdle is done now. While she's away this week I will make sure to see a lawyer and my bank about possiblities for the house. With mixed feelings I applaud you and envy your courage.
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Post by mas on May 31, 2017 19:43:36 GMT -5
This thread is interesting to me because I know I'm an attractive man. I get attention in my daily encounters due to my job as a territory manager in the field here in Southern California so I interact with women all day. My wife is also beautiful. But yet somehow I feel patheticly unattractive to the person I want to want me most. I have no weight issues but I'm not some model/actor type either. I have no performance issues at all (unless I'm wasted) so the sex has always been consistent where I aim to always please before me. I go to bed with a hard-on, wake up in the middle of the night with one, wake up in the morning with one and get a couple throughout the day. No sex drive is her excuse for the past 8 years and no sex for the past year. I'm ready to start exploring.
My story is long complicated and boring but I will be posting a thread soon. Sorry to go off topic here.
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Post by mas on May 23, 2017 11:21:41 GMT -5
Hello everyone, I'm here because of what we all have in common. All of our stories may not be the same but I'm hopeful I will find some support and do the same for all of you after reading some of your threads here.
My story is quite complicated and long but I'll find the courage soon to start a thread and share it with all of you. : )
Mas from LA, CA
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