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Post by jpn on Dec 29, 2017 23:13:14 GMT -5
Hmmmmm... looks like we're in the same boat, although at this exact moment you've got us beat by a few. Good times! Good times. Kill you dead kinda cold. Reminds me of my wife sometimes. lol
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Post by jpn on Dec 29, 2017 23:08:57 GMT -5
A tad brisk lately. Iām in sask. enjoying the deep freeze. Hmmmmm... looks like we're in the same boat, although at this exact moment you've got us beat by a few. Good times!
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Post by jpn on Nov 9, 2017 21:52:46 GMT -5
Edmonton.
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Post by jpn on Nov 5, 2017 21:41:03 GMT -5
I'd count it as a SM... only because that sounds, in some ways, how my SM started out. Sorry to hear about the lack of fulfillment. It just isn't fair. Thank you. It feels like he willfully withheld until he eventually developed ED. š In our case, she eventually developed the unbreakable routine of just being happy without any sexual interaction or touch. Same thing, just no acronym. I had tried to talk to her about it, but it failed each and every time. I hope you have better luck. It's not a good feeling to be rejected, or not have the physical touch of someone who is supposed to be "there" for you. At least you're here in a forum of many, many, many people in the same boat. It's a great place to talk it out, vent a little, and read other's situations. For me, it takes away a little bit of the loneliness.
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Post by jpn on Nov 5, 2017 21:31:03 GMT -5
I'd count it as a SM... only because that sounds, in some ways, how my SM started out. Sorry to hear about the lack of fulfillment. It just isn't fair.
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Post by jpn on Jun 9, 2017 1:04:22 GMT -5
Can relate... fully. Good days and bad days... for me, if I catch myself thinking about my SM life/marriage (like now), it's amazing how fast the feelings plummet. BUT... reading the posts here help me... in many, many, many ways. (thanks everyone!!) I do find that exercising lifts my spirits too. OH... and thinking about moments in my past, where time stood still, heart racing, due to being caught up in a mutually flirtatious conversation with someone. Yup... that's a pick-me-up for me. *sigh*
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Post by jpn on Jun 9, 2017 0:55:43 GMT -5
Hey everyone, So over the last few days I've been debating on whether to share this info and decided what the hell. As I've mentioned my H was a combat Marine. During his first deployment after we got married (it was to Japan) I found adult chat rooms online. I used to go online, usually at night when my oldest slept and that's usually when I felt...frisky. This is something I did for several years when he would be gone and even now I do it from time to time. The thing is, even though my sex drive is wonky, there was a slight excitement when I would chat. I never met anyone in person even though several suggested it. For all I knew I'm chatting with a woman pretending to be a man or some 40 yov in mommy' basement lol. True the chats all end up sounding the same, but once and a while I would feel desired. Is that strange? Off topic a little, maybe relating somewhat to your last point... Feeling desired... that is a feeling I wish I still had... and truly believe everyone should have. When I was in university... way back when... I recall flirting with a neighbour whenever I saw her. She was quite a bit older... but I'll never forget how she changed when she was around me. She would instantly start to smile, stand a little taller, and laugh a little easier. I believe it wasn't "me" so much, but rather the attention, friendly chats, and feelings she had during our moments together. Thinking about her sincere smile always brightens my day.
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Post by jpn on Jun 8, 2017 22:22:57 GMT -5
Sounds on par with someone needing excitement in their life. I'm jealous... it sounds like fun... however, I guarantee, the person I would wind up chatting with would be the exact opposite to what I was thinking was the situation. LOL Cheers! JPN Lol it can be exciting, but after a while it became just the same thing. At least for me I can imagine it could get that way... then go on a break until a little bit of excitement is needed again I guess. But this forum is the closest I've been to "sex" talk in about 7 years... so my opinion should be taken last in any pool of opinions, and even then it should be seriously reconsidered 'several times'. LOL
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Post by jpn on Jun 8, 2017 22:15:13 GMT -5
Sounds on par with someone needing excitement in their life. I'm jealous... it sounds like fun... however, I guarantee, the person I would wind up chatting with would be the exact opposite to what I was thinking was the situation. LOL
Cheers! JPN
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Post by jpn on Jun 8, 2017 22:09:16 GMT -5
Can relate... fully. Good days and bad days... for me, if I catch myself thinking about my SM life/marriage (like now), it's amazing how fast the feelings plummet.
BUT... reading the posts here help me... in many, many, many ways. (thanks everyone!!)
I do find that exercising lifts my spirits too.
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Post by jpn on Jun 8, 2017 21:53:49 GMT -5
@smartkat, I'm sorry you and your family are going through this battle. My thoughts and heart are with you and your family. *sending big hug*
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Post by jpn on Apr 25, 2017 22:04:04 GMT -5
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Post by jpn on Apr 8, 2017 9:52:02 GMT -5
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Post by jpn on Apr 7, 2017 20:18:50 GMT -5
Dag-nab-it... I sure wish I was coming with you all!!! I hope you all have a great time. Can't wait to hear all about it! I'll keep an eye out for the next ILIASM Get-Together and plan accordingly.
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Post by jpn on Apr 7, 2017 10:08:04 GMT -5
jpn too bad you'll miss the tulip festival. I was there once during my college years. I'm a city girl and admittedly more familiar with Toronto-Hamilton-Niagara than the small towns in between there and Ottawa. The Keg always makes a great ribeye, and the bartender at the Burlington location knows exactly how I like my martinis. Don't forget, Balls Falls T-shirt please. So... what's the favourite colour for the shirt? Do you have a size preference?
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