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Post by nancyb on Feb 2, 2018 15:04:50 GMT -5
To all the gentlemen in the forum. Can you tell me how Cialis works? ie: When do you need to take it, what sort of erection does it achieve? My friend didn't use anything yesterday and the erection was about 70% I would say. He's a very fit, healthy 70 year old. Cialis can be taken a variety of ways. In small doses (5mg) it is usually taken daily. Larger doses, up to 20mg. are taken on the day a man expects to be active. The medication is taken at least an hour before PIV is initiated. Daily doses are taken at the same time each day. Larger doses (20mg) are supposed to be good for a 36 hour time frame. 20mg. is the maximum dose to take in a 24hr. period. If his erection is 70% that's pretty good for age 70. Cialis may or may not improve the quality. He should discuss this with his doctor to see if he's a good candidate for the medication. Thankyou for the info worksforme2. I hope to see if that 70% can't be improved with some vigorous coaching. So far I haven't had to try very hard. It's early days and I'm a hot old lady. We laughed yesterday about the learning curve for each other's body. Heady days and I'm trying to keep me feet on the ground. ( when they're not up in the air)
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Post by nancyb on Feb 2, 2018 10:19:27 GMT -5
He cooked me supper last night. Steak and mushrooms. It was delicious. We had sex before dinner in the afternoon. Had a lovely cuddle/snooze afterwards. Talked almost non stop for 7 hours. I haven't said anything about the sexlessness of my last marriage...in fact we aren't spending much time talking about our past relationships at all. We have both been married twice with grown children. Things are still in the earliest stages lots of talking to do. Our stories are coming our organically. It's good.
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Post by nancyb on Jan 31, 2018 10:22:22 GMT -5
We went for a long drive yesterday through the county and did a short hike in minus 15 degree weather. He's a fascinating man. He used his Austrian old world charm to get me into his bed. LOL Its was delicious fun. He was an imaginative, responsive lover and we enjoyed each others company after the sex too. I don't know if he's 'the one' but he's certainly the one for right now and that's fine by me. To all the gentlemen in the forum. Can you tell me how Cialis works? ie: When do you need to take it, what sort of erection does it achieve? My friend didn't use anything yesterday and the erection was about 70% I would say. He's a very fit, healthy 70 year old.
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Post by nancyb on Jan 27, 2018 21:59:27 GMT -5
No tongues in the kiss. Just a full on lip kiss.
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Post by nancyb on Jan 27, 2018 21:58:42 GMT -5
He's a gentleman with a nice sense of humour. I'm not unattracted to him. There's a sparkle there if you know what I mean. He held my hand on the way to the car and kissed me good night. He wanted me to come back to his place to see some paintings but I demurred. LOL I know it's not like me to take things slow but I think if anything real and true is to grow it comes from a place of friendship first. Besides the sex is better if you wait...I had my share of NSA & FWB this last year to know that. This time I want to dance with my partner before I do the DANCE.
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Post by nancyb on Jan 27, 2018 16:32:21 GMT -5
Out on a second date tonight. We are going into the bigger city to a local German club where they have music and dancing on Saturday night. LOL I haven't had the intimacy talk yet but there were confessions from both parties about enjoying sex. It worked into the conversation and wasn't creepy at all.
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Post by nancyb on Jan 26, 2018 22:51:53 GMT -5
I have a history of picking and being with some really great men. Unfortunately the last one turned sexless but he was a good man nevertheless. I have very high standards. Josef is a financially well off gentleman. He's an optician and owns a chain of stores. ( verified baza) We had some good laughs and he has a twinkle in his blue eyes. He's cultured and a little bit wacked ( like me) We talked about everything from a brief history of our marriages and then bam into some talk about quantum physics. It was fun. He called me tonight and we chatted on the phone for an hour. I know I sound dense but whats the next step? Dinner? He said he would call me tomorrow. Is there any reason why a healthy 70 year old couldnt have vigorous sex? ...not yet but maybe someday.
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Post by nancyb on Jan 25, 2018 16:49:55 GMT -5
So I'm meeting a man for coffee tomorrow who is 12 years older than I am. Its here any different sort of approach I should take other than being my usual charming self? This is the first really successful man I've met and I'm anxious for it to go well. There may be no chemistry but I won't know till I have coffee with him.
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Post by nancyb on Jan 25, 2018 16:39:39 GMT -5
Excellent article. Thankyou for posting.
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Post by nancyb on Jan 24, 2018 11:13:02 GMT -5
I am meeting an older gentleman for coffee later this week. He's one of the few I would call a gentleman online in that he didn't ask for my bra size within 3 posts. LOL
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Post by nancyb on Jan 22, 2018 15:52:23 GMT -5
Yes, it is a shot in the dark. Ever hopeful back into the fray...
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Post by nancyb on Jan 22, 2018 15:37:48 GMT -5
Well I Alrik was undoubtably a scam and I know that now. So glad my intuition knew that something was not quite right but I must admit I can see how if you are lonely or vulnerable enough it would reel you in. That's terrible shit, messing with someone's emotions. The entire online dating experience has been a little distasteful and I've only been at it 3 weeks. Would it be to my benefit to join a paid site or all they all just the same . Lonely folks looking to shag.....LMAO
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Post by nancyb on Jan 20, 2018 10:18:50 GMT -5
"I have not really decision where i want to live yet. But with the right woman in my life. I won't want to live far away from her. As i don't really like long distance relationship. So meeting you and we can decide together, maybe close with 20 or 30 minutes drive. I promise to keep things exciting. A step beyond consistently reminding someone you love them is literally taking action to keep the spark alive. Spontaneous candle lite dinners. A bath running when they get home from work. A weekend getaway for no reason. When we start a fire. We cannot walk out of the room and expect it to keep burning forever. We need to continue to add logs to it and to stoke it. If we keep doing that. It will never go out. The problems arise when we stop giving it the attention it requires in order to continue burning. Always keep stoking your fire. I appreciate your writing me. And i want this to work and for us to keep it real. Do have a beautiful day."
This is an example of emails I received from Alrik. He told me he lived in Connecticut and was coming to live in a city near me in the next month. Told me english wasn't his first language. Sent me pics of this handsome guy doing all sorts of active things etc. Had pictures of his Mother and sister. I wanted to believe him but ultimately I can't. I think I have narrowly escaped an internet scam. My sister has a friend who lost 4000 pounds to an internet lover whom she had never met because of problems coming to her country.
What are you thoughts fellow SM escapees? I sent him an email saying that i wanted to wait until he came to Canada before I committed anything to him, my heart included. He just wrote me back and said I was rude and have a nice life. ? ALL this because he saw my picture and made assumptions about me. WTF I am so confused.
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Post by nancyb on Dec 30, 2017 9:58:28 GMT -5
Thought I'd pop in and say hello. Seems things are much the same around here. Happy New Years to you all. xo
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Post by nancyb on Dec 23, 2017 8:41:43 GMT -5
obobfla: I am so sorry for your loss. Take as good care of yourself.
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