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notdeadyet: (I'm never sure of posting protocols here. Forgive me if I don't do it right) This is vwell said. We finally found a therapist who wasn't anti-male biased from the outset. She concluded that my W was OCPD, NOT the same as OCD at all. But it took month Dec 17, 2023 14:01:27 GMT -5
jim44444: @notdeadyet you might wNtbo.post your updates and story under the sexless marriage folder. The shout box only appears in desktop mode not the mobile version. Dec 18, 2023 18:24:58 GMT -5
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