Back 20 years ago when we had sex, that was my wife's trick, put a towel down and remove it when finished. Worked sometimes, but others times not so well but that was ok. I would lay in it and she slept on the dry spot. I didn't care.
It’s hard to continue to love someone romantically who doesn’t love you back in the way you need to feel like a whole person.
I don't leave enough to need more than a tissue to clean up (probably due to the frequency of solo activity). She hates, and I mean is truly disgusted by, the wetness. After a thorough and lengthy bathroom session to wipe away any traces of sexual activities, she will lay down a folded beach towel to cover a minimally damp spot on the bed. It's just in the last 2 years or so that I convinced her not to strip the bed and change the sheets immediately after our orgasms.
Bits of me are dying but others are growing. One step at a time.
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petrushka: In my world view, you are buying into some really shitty memes there.
Nov 5, 2019 17:25:20 GMT -5
apocrypha: The "feminist agenda" has changed across the past 60 years. Some feminists of the 60's call the current iteration "fainting couch feminism", thinking it a subversion and betrayal of women's lib. Hard to get a bead on what folks think, using a broad label.
Nov 8, 2019 9:37:14 GMT -5
apocrypha: No aspect of that article (which I amount to a magazine offering bad diet advice) promotes rape, coercion (beyond seduction), sexual assault, and I don't understand your public performance suggesting that they would be and thus implicating bfar.
Nov 8, 2019 9:41:51 GMT -5
mirrororchid: pfar, being sensitive means understanding how others think and feel. It doesn't mean you are compelled to adopt their thoughts and feelings. This is a matter of understanding people including loved ones. If you aren't sensitive, you lack tools to
Nov 11, 2019 8:09:49 GMT -5
mirrororchid: live well. You need not soften, but you should be able to understand vulnerability. Recognizing others' distress provides me with cues when I need to use self-control or extend help. If you're strong, you should be helping others. Use what works.
Nov 11, 2019 8:14:06 GMT -5
worksforme2: You know who I miss ...I miss smartkat and andie..and snowman 12345
Nov 14, 2019 9:16:44 GMT -5