Post by GeekGoddess on Nov 28, 2019 12:02:19 GMT -5
Hello, new person to the forum. This is a great group of caring people and we have something in common that most of us cannot or will not discuss with our regular support network of friends/family - though some of us have tried to. This is a great place for venting, finding suggestions, and just for reading other people's experiences. When you feel like, share a little of your back-story and you are likely to find we have other traits in common too. And don't forget to check out The Lighter Side thread/sub-group if (WHEN) you need some comic relief. Welcome to a group none of us hoped to be eligible for!
Post by RealMustangGuy on Dec 1, 2019 18:06:32 GMT -5
Welcome summer2 . Truly there is inspiration and advice here. For me, just knowing I wasn't alone in my sexless situation helped me immensely. Hope you can find something to help you as well. And I hope you have hope. Hope for me for a better future is a big factor for me and what gives me encouragement every single day.
This the "Shoutbox" -- basically a site-wide, group chat. (It's only visible to members.)
petrushka: In my world view, you are buying into some really shitty memes there.
Nov 5, 2019 17:25:20 GMT -5
apocrypha: The "feminist agenda" has changed across the past 60 years. Some feminists of the 60's call the current iteration "fainting couch feminism", thinking it a subversion and betrayal of women's lib. Hard to get a bead on what folks think, using a broad label.
Nov 8, 2019 9:37:14 GMT -5
apocrypha: No aspect of that article (which I amount to a magazine offering bad diet advice) promotes rape, coercion (beyond seduction), sexual assault, and I don't understand your public performance suggesting that they would be and thus implicating bfar.
Nov 8, 2019 9:41:51 GMT -5
mirrororchid: pfar, being sensitive means understanding how others think and feel. It doesn't mean you are compelled to adopt their thoughts and feelings. This is a matter of understanding people including loved ones. If you aren't sensitive, you lack tools to
Nov 11, 2019 8:09:49 GMT -5
mirrororchid: live well. You need not soften, but you should be able to understand vulnerability. Recognizing others' distress provides me with cues when I need to use self-control or extend help. If you're strong, you should be helping others. Use what works.
Nov 11, 2019 8:14:06 GMT -5
worksforme2: You know who I miss ...I miss smartkat and andie..and snowman 12345
Nov 14, 2019 9:16:44 GMT -5