Since about 6 weeks, I live together with my friend H. Before that we were together every weekend. Now we are together every day. It is going well. I feel happy when he shouts "Honey, I'm Home!!!" when he opens the door.
We have plenty of sex. Maybe even a bit much. It surprised me a little when H initiated sex every day for several weeks. It turned out that he thought that that was what I expected. He didn't want to disappoint me - knowing my history with my ex. Now we have sex 'only' 4 or 5 times a week. A little bit of kinkiness is usually involved. We have a room that is going to be our play room, but for now it is still a junk room. We still don't have been able to get internet or tv at home. So we have been watching downloaded series lately. Like True Blood. Great series, very kinky. It inspires H to bite my neck while watching together.
we have had a few small arguments, and surprisingly, they were good for us. We solved a few misunderstandings with these arguments and afterwards we felt better. So very different from arguments with my ex. They have never solved anything. It is good to experience that things can be different with the right person.
Our house is still very messy. Progress is slow, due to us both feeling tired and other things. But eventually it will be finished.
I still often feel sad about my daughter, but it isn't that intense anymore as it has been. I hope she is okay and I hope she will manage to become independent and seek contact with me again when she is ready for that. It will be up to her.
All members who have been out of their ILIASM deal for at least a year are invited to vote in the poll, and make a comment if they so desire.
(This same poll was done in September 2018)
Interested to see if the results differ this time around
Hell ya. I've been remarried 4 years. I am so eternally grateful for my life now. I don't check in here often, but I never forget from where I have come. We are celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary on 10/10. Last weekend we enjoyed concert going (Shinedown and Papa Roach) and time with his his kids and grandkids at the farm to celebrate. I love that I get to be a grandma. Be genuine. Be real. Don't settle. As for sex??? We are both happy. Me, being the horny woman I am, can say it's perfect. He never turns me down and he makes sure I know I'm wanted.
Noooo regrets getting our of that first loveless marriage I was in!
Last Edit: Oct 9, 2019 20:56:18 GMT -5 by WindSister
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worksforme2: Hey ironhamster...I just saw your picture on another site and your head wasn't covered. You actually look better without the bandana....
Sept 2, 2019 11:54:55 GMT -5
javba: Dunno Iron Hamster - I have not seen your other photo - I think you ROCK anyways.
Sept 4, 2019 10:11:42 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happened across Tamara68 on another site, messaged her but she didn't respond...
Sept 15, 2019 13:13:02 GMT -5
elkclan2: Dealing with an escaped gerbil. Fun times.
Sept 16, 2019 13:01:50 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: 1. Hope tamara is doing well. 2. Elkclan2, did you catch the critter???
Sept 17, 2019 15:40:05 GMT -5
worksforme2: Tamara answered me yesterday. She and her partner are moving into a house next week. It's probably about as good as is possible. She didn't comment on the situation with her daughter.
Sept 17, 2019 17:46:02 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Thanks for the update; just hope she is happy
Sept 17, 2019 19:49:55 GMT -5
workingonit: Elkclan2 my son's gerbil escaped at the same time as his pet snake. I did not think it was a coincidence!
Sept 17, 2019 20:40:26 GMT -5
hopingforachange: Wow, is been forever since I read the shoutbox.
Sept 17, 2019 21:33:01 GMT -5
hopingforachange: I need to set up another Skype session.
Sept 17, 2019 21:33:16 GMT -5
sme935: Not quite sure if anyone reads it but if there is a female in the Chicago area (40-60 years old) who is interested in chatting with me drop me a message or look at my profile for messenger screenname;
Sept 19, 2019 9:09:33 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Another Skype session would be great!
Sept 21, 2019 10:51:02 GMT -5
elkclan2: Gerbil was recaptured unharmed. Turns out my cat is good at opening gerbil cages, but not good at catching gerbils.
Sept 27, 2019 8:10:33 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Yay! Glad to hear the critter is okay.
Sept 28, 2019 20:44:20 GMT -5
worksforme2: elkclan2....don't feed cat for a couple days, cat will become very proficient at catching gerbil
Sept 29, 2019 14:15:01 GMT -5
javba: Hi folks been gone a minute [several minutes actually] What is the skype we're referencing?
Oct 1, 2019 8:55:44 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: javba, once in a while someone sets up a group Skype chat, so we can see each other and chat. I have a Skype account with my user name from here for them. One hasn't happened in a long time...
Oct 6, 2019 9:55:29 GMT -5
wewbwb: I'm pretty sure that it was seeing my ass.
Oct 6, 2019 15:21:29 GMT -5
petrushka: you breed donkeys?
Oct 10, 2019 6:05:03 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday shamwow….
Oct 11, 2019 9:02:53 GMT -5