I found someone. A very special man. I knew the moment I saw him that he would touch my heart. We were together for the entire month of July. It was the best month of my outsourcing life. I couldn’t get enough of him.
His significant other found out about me and is making his life hell. The situation is very abusive, but he believes he loves her and is willing to take the abuse and give up sex just to keep her in his life.
I see now that the connection was the fact that we are both damaged. I believe that he is aware that he is being abused. Just as I am aware of my situation. I offer him my support without judgment. He has to decide for himself if the relationship with this woman is worth the agony. I have to decide for myself if I can keep doing this.
DryCreek, I met him on AM. I had been “interviewing” for nearly three months. Frustrated, I had reached the point of doing video chats rather than finding time to go meet at a coffee shop. I was smitten at first smile.
He doesn’t know how she found out. It is a mystery.
Post by worksforme2 on Aug 16, 2019 7:24:00 GMT -5
I just so don't get this guy. To me, no woman, or man if roles were reversed, is that valuable when the relationship is permeated with abuse and is sexless. Sexless being another form of abuse. I understand how he can love her. I still loved my X during our sexless period, but if like my X they are unwilling or unable to make some kind of accommodation for your need for intimacy, then they should have nothing to say about how you address those needs and desires. This man sounds like he needs to grow a set of testicles and stand up to his W.
This the "Shoutbox" -- basically a site-wide, group chat. (It's only visible to members.)
saarinista: is anyone else watching March Madness?
Mar 24, 2019 11:44:48 GMT -5
worksforme2: doesn't much look like it...
Mar 27, 2019 12:20:10 GMT -5
saarinista: Well, my team is going to the Final Four! I am beyond thrilled. Basketball is life.
Apr 1, 2019 0:47:14 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Congrats! Yay! I don't know how many people see the shout box, I don't think it shows up not he mobile version of the site. Maybe post something in the Off Topic section and more folks may see it?
Apr 1, 2019 15:38:34 GMT -5
wewbwb: Or, maybe baseball season started . . .
Apr 2, 2019 5:27:34 GMT -5
flashjohn: saarinista, my alma mater, Texas Tech, is also in the final four.
Apr 3, 2019 14:59:01 GMT -5
saarinista: : flashjohn Ruh, roh. Then we have to be mortal enemies for the weekend because I went to MSU!
Apr 4, 2019 16:09:20 GMT -5
worksforme2: The add attachment says a max of 1mb...I see plenty of videos that are way longer than that...how do I do that? My video is 4.97 mbs
Apr 25, 2019 20:10:25 GMT -5
h: The videos posted aren't attached. They are links to videos outside the site.
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sexlessinga: Hi guys just joined
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worksforme2: @mslowmaintenance….long time no see, welcome back...
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noregretz: You can never outrun a Grizzly bear, but that's ok. You only have to outrun the person you're with....
Jun 15, 2019 12:28:09 GMT -5
solodriver: or in this case your refuser.
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