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Post by flashjohn on Jul 23, 2019 17:25:07 GMT -5
The short answer is that I love her, and we are best friends. we can talk about anything and everything (as long as it doesn't have to do with our sex life or physical affection between us).. If I could dial down my sex drive to a 2 on a scale of 1-10, I think I would be just fine. All her actions outside the bedroom says to me that she loves me. That said, I can't imagine a better match than her and I when it comes to a relationship outside the bedroom. I think you are right about the selfishness, but I think that selfishness is mostly confined in the sexual relationship. I don't know where that comes from. She is a giving person when it doesn't come to sex.
If you think you can live this way, I certainly understand.
I have to tell you that in my opinion, a spouse who will not fuck his/her husband/wife is NOT a good spouse. He/she can be a good roommate, a good parent, or a good friend, but NOT a good spouse. If she loved you, she would want to fuck you.
I do note that you say that you love her and you are best friends, but you omit saying that she loves you. It seems to me that you already know that she doesn't love you.
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Post by Handy on Jul 23, 2019 21:02:55 GMT -5
sunnysean , some women think it is improper to initiate anything sexual and want the man to do all of the initiation.
It might feel like rejection but some women are wired that way. It is the same way with on line dating. Some women insist the man make the first move. OTH a few women make the first moves.
Some people are sort of set in stone. Is your W like that?
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