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Post by hopingforachange on Jun 13, 2019 7:25:20 GMT -5
If what's holding you back is the risk of him running away and leaving you with the debt, talk with a lawyer and find out what the courts can do. Maybe they can hold his Visa during the divorce process do to him being a flight risk.
Why wait a year to start living?
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Post by hopingforachange on Jun 13, 2019 7:27:51 GMT -5
Wait, you have leverage. I'm sure he doesn't want the cousin to find out your H was sexting his W. Sounds like something you can use to ensure an equal debt split.
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Post by cassiopeia92 on Jun 13, 2019 7:34:57 GMT -5
Wait, you have leverage. I'm sure he doesn't want the cousin to find out your H was sexting his W. Sounds like something you can use to ensure an equal debt split. His cousin knows. He is probably the one person in the world who knows him best. Ummm also his wife has just had open heart surgery and has been subjected to photos of stuff I am pretty sure she vould not even physically do, let alone tolerate. This same cousin once questioned me on how often my H loses it on me when he did it in front of him once and stormed out, because he had never seen that behaviour. Then he said...you will never get rid of him you know, he has nowhere to go.
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Post by worksforme2 on Jun 13, 2019 14:43:51 GMT -5
Wait, you have leverage. I'm sure he doesn't want the cousin to find out your H was sexting his W. Sounds like something you can use to ensure an equal debt split. This same cousin once questioned me on how often my H loses it on me when he did it in front of him once and stormed out, because he had never seen that behaviour. I don't understand what you are saying here. Are you saying your H ejaculated on you as is cousin watched?
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Post by cassiopeia92 on Jun 13, 2019 14:47:46 GMT -5
Lol NO!!!
Poor choice of words, I meant lost it as in losing his temper.
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Post by 2019change on Jun 23, 2019 12:36:00 GMT -5
I thought it interesting that you titled the thread "I don't give a shit anymore". You say you have no holds or assets but it seem you working very hard to put delaying plans in place, You can't leave until this or that is thought out and considered. If you truly don't give a shit, close the accounts, pack a bag and walk away. Everything else can be negotiated from a distance.
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Post by cassiopeia92 on Jun 24, 2019 0:59:53 GMT -5
I thought it interesting that you titled the thread "I don't give a shit anymore". You say you have no holds or assets but it seem you working very hard to put delaying plans in place, You can't leave until this or that is thought out and considered. If you truly don't give a shit, close the accounts, pack a bag and walk away. Everything else can be negotiated from a distance. Is that what you did?
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Post by 2019change on Jun 24, 2019 16:11:22 GMT -5
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Post by cassiopeia92 on Jun 24, 2019 16:19:40 GMT -5
I was going to write something long in response, but I really dont owe anyone any explanations or justifications for anything to anyone. I wish everyone good luck.
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Post by snowman12345 on Jun 24, 2019 18:12:22 GMT -5
I was going to write something long in response, but I really dont owe anyone any explanations or justifications for anything to anyone. I wish everyone good luck. Go at your own pace, be at peace with yourself and your decisions - they are yours to make and live with. And never, never, never give a fuck what anyone else thinks.
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Post by okiedude on Jun 24, 2019 19:26:36 GMT -5
OK so sounds like he has moved on. TALK to an Lawyer now! Maybe you can get this moving and not pay for a new VISA. The debt/expense thing reminds me of a joke: Why is divorce so expensive?... Because it is worth it!
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okiedude
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Post by okiedude on Jun 24, 2019 19:27:41 GMT -5
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