Post by worksforme2 on Jun 27, 2019 8:04:57 GMT -5
Well eeman we have something in common. Like you I had finally given up (for the moment)on intimacy with the W. I was distancing myself from her and just preparing to cohabitate until I'd had time to really put together an exit plan. Well she made the decision she wanted to separate, relieving me of the bad guy status. We did so very amiably and we remain friends. Good luck going forward....
If this is only an issue every 18 month then why not let it blow up. A good vent and and tell her exactly what you think and why. Then it can go back to normal for another couple of years. The question is, why do you want to keep the peace and hide from it. Will she grind up glass and put it in your food. What does she have to punish you with
Post by angeleyes65 on Jul 15, 2019 16:20:51 GMT -5
eeman I'm coming late to the party life has been hectic. I was the one to have to make the break and as detached as I had made myself it was the hardest thing I had to do so far So I say congratulations consider yourself lucky and as one that is on the other side life is absolutely great without the emotional anchor around my neck. Never too late to be happy wish I could have been string enough to choose it at 40. I was 52 when I left still well worth it!
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petrushka: In my world view, you are buying into some really shitty memes there.
Nov 5, 2019 17:25:20 GMT -5
apocrypha: The "feminist agenda" has changed across the past 60 years. Some feminists of the 60's call the current iteration "fainting couch feminism", thinking it a subversion and betrayal of women's lib. Hard to get a bead on what folks think, using a broad label.
Nov 8, 2019 9:37:14 GMT -5
apocrypha: No aspect of that article (which I amount to a magazine offering bad diet advice) promotes rape, coercion (beyond seduction), sexual assault, and I don't understand your public performance suggesting that they would be and thus implicating bfar.
Nov 8, 2019 9:41:51 GMT -5
mirrororchid: pfar, being sensitive means understanding how others think and feel. It doesn't mean you are compelled to adopt their thoughts and feelings. This is a matter of understanding people including loved ones. If you aren't sensitive, you lack tools to
Nov 11, 2019 8:09:49 GMT -5
mirrororchid: live well. You need not soften, but you should be able to understand vulnerability. Recognizing others' distress provides me with cues when I need to use self-control or extend help. If you're strong, you should be helping others. Use what works.
Nov 11, 2019 8:14:06 GMT -5
worksforme2: You know who I miss ...I miss smartkat and andie..and snowman 12345
Nov 14, 2019 9:16:44 GMT -5