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Post by worksforme2 on Jun 2, 2019 5:20:16 GMT -5
This has to be disappointing and frustrating for you jmx. I just don't understand a man not being willing to "munch the muffin". I have been doing that for over 50yrs. and haven't gotten tired of it yet. And any village idiot should know that a man pleases a woman 1st and then thinks of himself. I learned decades ago that if I made a through job of eating my partner I never had to ask her to swallow my di*k. They willingly gobbled it right up. Like ironhamster seeing a bald mound is a relatively new experience. My generation did not do a lot in the way of intimate grooming. Unless one was hairy as a beast no one thought much about getting the occasional hair in the mouth. I ask my now X to trim(I was already doing so)and she agreed. But she added I shouldn't expect her to shave, because when re-growing the hair it itched and poked through her underwear. Being an Alpha woman she needed to exercise a certain amount of control.
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Post by worksforme2 on Jun 2, 2019 12:21:08 GMT -5
I would have made a poor refuser. I never once turned my 1st W down, although she was prone to wake me up at all hours of the night to pound her. And I only refused my 2nd W once. She had refused my attempts for months. Then one evening as I was watching TV she walked in, turned off the program and announced she was "in the mood" and headed for the bedroom. I sat for a moment and then turned the program back on and finished watching it. By the time I got to bed she was asleep. The next day she brought it up saying I did it to get even for all the times she said no. I responded that it wasn't about getting even, it was about respect. I may be a lot of things, but I for sure wasn't someone who could be basically whistled for and expected to come a running like the family dog. That ended the conversation. She never tried that approach again.
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Post by GoldenBubble on Jun 4, 2019 9:14:49 GMT -5
Reading these threads confirms for me that sex refusal is always about control.
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