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Post by teessider on Apr 18, 2019 6:54:28 GMT -5
Hi all, first time here and joined because I need to talk about this! I am a 48 year old male from the North of England, I have been married for 25 years and I love my wife , but there is something really missing, what do I do ?
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Post by baza on Apr 18, 2019 7:22:43 GMT -5
Well Brother teessider , usually, you try everything you can think of to try and sort the situation out yourself, with or without your spouses support. If that fails, then you might, at some point, google "sexless marriage" and you find yourself here (or some similar group) probably looking for the magic bullet solution to the problem. Suggestion. Start reading in here - voraciously. You'll almost certainly see yourself in some of the stories. You'll see the different ways people go about trying to cope with their situations. What you will NOT find is "the magic bullet solution" There is no such thing. Welcome to the zoo.
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Post by worksforme2 on Apr 18, 2019 7:27:44 GMT -5
The 1st thing I would suggest if you want our input is to be forthcoming with more information. What's missing? How long has the situation been going on? What were things like before the current situation evolved? Was it over a long period or seemingly overnight? Are there other issues in the relationship that could or are affecting the dynamic such as illness, children who are special needs in some way? We really need more info.
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Post by isthisit on Apr 18, 2019 14:56:31 GMT -5
Hi all, first time here and joined because I need to talk about this! I am a 48 year old male from the North of England, I have been married for 25 years and I love my wife , but there is something really missing, what do I do ? Hello, nice to have a fellow northerner here, (although I am a fair distance from Teeside). Welcome to the forum, although I wish that you did not need to be here. I agree with the advice above read and absorb the generosity and wisdom found here, and when you are ready please share more of your story.
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Post by saarinista on Apr 18, 2019 16:26:41 GMT -5
Greetings from the sometimes sexless USA! It's interesting how we have a rather international group of people on this forum. Definitely give us more details if you'd like more helpful feedback.
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Post by flashjohn on Apr 18, 2019 16:44:56 GMT -5
Hi all, first time here and joined because I need to talk about this! I am a 48 year old male from the North of England, I have been married for 25 years and I love my wife , but there is something really missing, what do I do ? Well the fact that you are here tells me that sex is missing, LOL! The fact that you are still there while you are not getting fucked clearly shows that you love your wife. The real question is does she love you!!
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