GC, according to this article, I must be doing some on-line cheating. I did or do a lot of what your X did.
Others on this forum also follow a similar pattern. Maybe people looking to change things have some common traits as cheaters, but for a different or opposite reason.
Mmm... I did like the way she ( in the article) explained some of the differences in being on line. What is more normal vs excessive. What level of privacy verses hiding everything.
Changing things when involving a manipulative controller, can mean taking control of your life again. You have to out smart, out maneuver them now, by dropping the rope in their tug of war. Change also can mean putting up a wall to protect yourself. A boundary. Detaching yourself from a toxic environment, while rebuilding yourself. Communicating with someone new- cheating ( I so despise having to use that word, it's wrong in these situations, but I digress)
Our spouses put up their walls to avoid, detach, and reverse so they can manipulate to get what they want, their way, their rules, with absolutely no empathy. Narcissism. ( and they use sights like facebook to do it) ( it's also called their minions or flying monkeys)
When a spouse says I don't want to have sex with you/or anyone ever again, they have no more say in what you do with sex and intimacy in your life. That spills over into many other areas as well, finances, time, disciplining children, etc......
This the "Shoutbox" -- basically a site-wide, group chat. (It's only visible to members.)
saarinista: is anyone else watching March Madness?
Mar 24, 2019 11:44:48 GMT -5
worksforme2: doesn't much look like it...
Mar 27, 2019 12:20:10 GMT -5
saarinista: Well, my team is going to the Final Four! I am beyond thrilled. Basketball is life.
Apr 1, 2019 0:47:14 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Congrats! Yay! I don't know how many people see the shout box, I don't think it shows up not he mobile version of the site. Maybe post something in the Off Topic section and more folks may see it?
Apr 1, 2019 15:38:34 GMT -5
wewbwb: Or, maybe baseball season started . . .
Apr 2, 2019 5:27:34 GMT -5
flashjohn: saarinista, my alma mater, Texas Tech, is also in the final four.
Apr 3, 2019 14:59:01 GMT -5
saarinista: : flashjohn Ruh, roh. Then we have to be mortal enemies for the weekend because I went to MSU!
Apr 4, 2019 16:09:20 GMT -5
worksforme2: The add attachment says a max of 1mb...I see plenty of videos that are way longer than that...how do I do that? My video is 4.97 mbs
Apr 25, 2019 20:10:25 GMT -5
h: The videos posted aren't attached. They are links to videos outside the site.
Apr 26, 2019 14:09:04 GMT -5
sexlessinga: Hi guys just joined
May 10, 2019 20:49:28 GMT -5
worksforme2: @mslowmaintenance….long time no see, welcome back...
May 29, 2019 9:30:25 GMT -5
noregretz: You can never outrun a Grizzly bear, but that's ok. You only have to outrun the person you're with....
Jun 15, 2019 12:28:09 GMT -5
solodriver: or in this case your refuser.
Jun 16, 2019 19:21:47 GMT -5