Post by lessingham on Sept 25, 2019 10:45:24 GMT -5
I am planning vacations, but it may be a month or three before she can travel. An oddity, I have slept better this week than for months. Whether this is due to relief or the fact I am alone in the bed waits to be seen. Thank you all for your good wishes.
Post by northstarmom on Sept 30, 2019 11:13:26 GMT -5
Hardy, do you think even a sex loving woman who just had surgery and needed help in the shower would be lured into sexually by washing her feet or hair? Sounds like she’s doing good to stand in the shower.
My bad. I didn't remember Ms Lessingham recently had surgery. I was thinking she got over what ever it was that she was seeking medical care.
Lots of people and lots of situations to try to keep track of. I screwed up. I went back and read some earlier posts. Sept 23 surgery, yes that is recent, too recent to expect her to not be thinking mostly about her recovery.
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petrushka: In my world view, you are buying into some really shitty memes there.
Nov 5, 2019 17:25:20 GMT -5
apocrypha: The "feminist agenda" has changed across the past 60 years. Some feminists of the 60's call the current iteration "fainting couch feminism", thinking it a subversion and betrayal of women's lib. Hard to get a bead on what folks think, using a broad label.
Nov 8, 2019 9:37:14 GMT -5
apocrypha: No aspect of that article (which I amount to a magazine offering bad diet advice) promotes rape, coercion (beyond seduction), sexual assault, and I don't understand your public performance suggesting that they would be and thus implicating bfar.
Nov 8, 2019 9:41:51 GMT -5
mirrororchid: pfar, being sensitive means understanding how others think and feel. It doesn't mean you are compelled to adopt their thoughts and feelings. This is a matter of understanding people including loved ones. If you aren't sensitive, you lack tools to
Nov 11, 2019 8:09:49 GMT -5
mirrororchid: live well. You need not soften, but you should be able to understand vulnerability. Recognizing others' distress provides me with cues when I need to use self-control or extend help. If you're strong, you should be helping others. Use what works.
Nov 11, 2019 8:14:06 GMT -5
worksforme2: You know who I miss ...I miss smartkat and andie..and snowman 12345
Nov 14, 2019 9:16:44 GMT -5