Post by angeleyes65 on Mar 16, 2019 14:59:10 GMT -5
Just met my ex at the bank to remove my name off what was our joint account. And signed the titles on each others cars. That was the last things. My divorce was final Jan 7th. Taxes are done and refund split. House refinanced and quit claim and qdro forms signed. I breathe a collective sigh of relief. If he doesn't get with the program and quit trying to manipulate me into going back I never HAVE to see him again. I hope eventually we can be friends for the kids and grandkids sake but only he can make that possible. My boyfriend's divorce was final Feb 28th. Now he is left with severing all the ties..titles, bank accounts, house etc. Next step he's buying a house and we are moving in together. We already are living together in my apartment but he has his own This will be me letting go of the security of having my own place for 2 years. I'm confident this is forever but still hard treading those waters after ending long marriages. And navigating how to set stuff up when you aren't married, are older and have to consider things like retirement , death and his and her adult children. To the next 30 years!
Post by angeleyes65 on Mar 18, 2019 7:40:51 GMT -5
@ Baza I agree the navigation is much easier with someone you have open communication with and can take comfort in each others strengths. As much baggage we walked away with, it gives us only little hiccups at this point. But some of the pluses, we are so grateful and still amazed by the little differences. We work so well on day to day running of the house. We take care of each other it isnt one sided. And we relish the time together any chores that we can put off until the other is working we do. And we sit snuggled up with electronic devices put down for the most part.
This the "Shoutbox" -- basically a site-wide, group chat. (It's only visible to members.)
saarinista: is anyone else watching March Madness?
Mar 24, 2019 11:44:48 GMT -5
worksforme2: doesn't much look like it...
Mar 27, 2019 12:20:10 GMT -5
saarinista: Well, my team is going to the Final Four! I am beyond thrilled. Basketball is life.
Apr 1, 2019 0:47:14 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Congrats! Yay! I don't know how many people see the shout box, I don't think it shows up not he mobile version of the site. Maybe post something in the Off Topic section and more folks may see it?
Apr 1, 2019 15:38:34 GMT -5
wewbwb: Or, maybe baseball season started . . .
Apr 2, 2019 5:27:34 GMT -5
flashjohn: saarinista, my alma mater, Texas Tech, is also in the final four.
Apr 3, 2019 14:59:01 GMT -5
saarinista: : flashjohn Ruh, roh. Then we have to be mortal enemies for the weekend because I went to MSU!
Apr 4, 2019 16:09:20 GMT -5
worksforme2: The add attachment says a max of 1mb...I see plenty of videos that are way longer than that...how do I do that? My video is 4.97 mbs
Apr 25, 2019 20:10:25 GMT -5
h: The videos posted aren't attached. They are links to videos outside the site.
Apr 26, 2019 14:09:04 GMT -5
sexlessinga: Hi guys just joined
May 10, 2019 20:49:28 GMT -5
worksforme2: @mslowmaintenance….long time no see, welcome back...
May 29, 2019 9:30:25 GMT -5
noregretz: You can never outrun a Grizzly bear, but that's ok. You only have to outrun the person you're with....
Jun 15, 2019 12:28:09 GMT -5
solodriver: or in this case your refuser.
Jun 16, 2019 19:21:47 GMT -5