Post by angeleyes65 on Mar 16, 2019 14:59:10 GMT -5
Just met my ex at the bank to remove my name off what was our joint account. And signed the titles on each others cars. That was the last things. My divorce was final Jan 7th. Taxes are done and refund split. House refinanced and quit claim and qdro forms signed. I breathe a collective sigh of relief. If he doesn't get with the program and quit trying to manipulate me into going back I never HAVE to see him again. I hope eventually we can be friends for the kids and grandkids sake but only he can make that possible. My boyfriend's divorce was final Feb 28th. Now he is left with severing all the ties..titles, bank accounts, house etc. Next step he's buying a house and we are moving in together. We already are living together in my apartment but he has his own This will be me letting go of the security of having my own place for 2 years. I'm confident this is forever but still hard treading those waters after ending long marriages. And navigating how to set stuff up when you aren't married, are older and have to consider things like retirement , death and his and her adult children. To the next 30 years!
Post by angeleyes65 on Mar 18, 2019 7:40:51 GMT -5
@ Baza I agree the navigation is much easier with someone you have open communication with and can take comfort in each others strengths. As much baggage we walked away with, it gives us only little hiccups at this point. But some of the pluses, we are so grateful and still amazed by the little differences. We work so well on day to day running of the house. We take care of each other it isnt one sided. And we relish the time together any chores that we can put off until the other is working we do. And we sit snuggled up with electronic devices put down for the most part.
misssunnybunny: You're welcome! So glad to hear you had a great day
Jan 19, 2019 16:34:01 GMT -5
worksforme2: anyone hear anything lately from mrslowmaintenance or smartkat?
Jan 24, 2019 18:06:02 GMT -5
petrushka: Just saw the forecast for Mildura at 47C -- I hope you and Ms. Enna are going to be ok Baz. That's getting dangerous.
Jan 24, 2019 20:10:00 GMT -5
lifeinwoodinville: I last heard from mrslowmaintenance about a month ago. I have been in regular contact with her for the last year and a half. I feel comfortable in saying that her situation remains unchanged. If you want to know more PM me.
Jan 25, 2019 22:36:50 GMT -5
worksforme2: Hey baza,...I know it's hot and dry down under. N.C. is having record rainfall. I would gladly trade some rain for some sunshine....
Feb 22, 2019 20:28:35 GMT -5
tamara68: Today it's steak and blowjob day! I suppose the steak is for those who don't get a blowjob.
Mar 14, 2019 16:49:49 GMT -5
petrushka: tamara68 Laughing with tears in my eyes. And my steak is going to be semolina gruel, due to some tummy upset :-\
Mar 15, 2019 1:11:10 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: So sad to hear the news from New Zealand. Boston Strong supports Kiwi Strong!!
Mar 15, 2019 7:46:22 GMT -5
petrushka: I was gobsmacked when I heard. This is just not us. In all of 2017 we had 37 murders in the country ..... I think the echo chambers of "social media" have a lot to answer for.
Mar 15, 2019 18:45:45 GMT -5
baza: Feeling for our Brothers and Sisters across the ditch Brother petrushka .
Mar 15, 2019 19:27:50 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: petrushka, I thought I read the headline wrong (this stuff happens here, not in NZ). It is frightening the hate that is being spread; it makes my heart hurt.
Mar 15, 2019 20:46:54 GMT -5
saarinista: All of us, IMHO, should try to be civil and kind as much as possible in person and online. I actively Tweet (civilly) on political matters and am horrified by the rancor & trolling on both sides of the spectrum, which only inflames unstable people.
Mar 19, 2019 23:21:20 GMT -5