Post by workingonit on Mar 3, 2019 16:36:41 GMT -5
😲 I find this pretty gross, actually. He is not wrong. But to cheat with literally everyone for three years? Why not leave? And then tell her he is leaving via radio? I mean, come on! This guy is seriously immature. But I do not disagree with the idea that denying sex to your partner should be considered infidelity. Yes.
Post by misssunnybunny on Mar 3, 2019 16:46:36 GMT -5
I almost stopped listening after the letter writer said he wasn't interested in anything his wife said, her opinions about anything; basically, her main purpose is to please him sexually. Then later he talks about men doing no housework because it emasculates them (really??? *eyeroll*). Whoever wrote this is an excellent candidate to live alone forever, because apparently he believes that women are only there for his sexual enjoyment, not a partnership. Just disgusting. He should have left her instead of whoring around behind her back.
By the membership in this forum, there are plenty of men who were active and willing sexual partners before marriage, and now deny sex to their wives, and that is unacceptable as well.
There were a few very true statements in there, but I think the guy was kind of an asshole for all the fat cow insults, the "I don't value anything you have to say", and in general shoving it in his wife's face on the radio. All in poor taste. He could have written a much more civil letter and gotten the same message across.
Called the W out for her reset attempt and we're now working on rebuilding something more.
Post by ironhamster on Mar 6, 2019 17:11:52 GMT -5
Right. The logic of leaving is so strong, and his contempt for his new bride so strong, that I can't help but feel Tom himself wrote the letter for the sake of entertaining his audience. Perhaps he got a much more bland letter, then embellished the story for the sake of his audience.
misssunnybunny: You're welcome! So glad to hear you had a great day
Jan 19, 2019 16:34:01 GMT -5
worksforme2: anyone hear anything lately from mrslowmaintenance or smartkat?
Jan 24, 2019 18:06:02 GMT -5
petrushka: Just saw the forecast for Mildura at 47C -- I hope you and Ms. Enna are going to be ok Baz. That's getting dangerous.
Jan 24, 2019 20:10:00 GMT -5
lifeinwoodinville: I last heard from mrslowmaintenance about a month ago. I have been in regular contact with her for the last year and a half. I feel comfortable in saying that her situation remains unchanged. If you want to know more PM me.
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worksforme2: Hey baza,...I know it's hot and dry down under. N.C. is having record rainfall. I would gladly trade some rain for some sunshine....
Feb 22, 2019 20:28:35 GMT -5
tamara68: Today it's steak and blowjob day! I suppose the steak is for those who don't get a blowjob.
Mar 14, 2019 16:49:49 GMT -5
petrushka: tamara68 Laughing with tears in my eyes. And my steak is going to be semolina gruel, due to some tummy upset :-\
Mar 15, 2019 1:11:10 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: So sad to hear the news from New Zealand. Boston Strong supports Kiwi Strong!!
Mar 15, 2019 7:46:22 GMT -5
petrushka: I was gobsmacked when I heard. This is just not us. In all of 2017 we had 37 murders in the country ..... I think the echo chambers of "social media" have a lot to answer for.
Mar 15, 2019 18:45:45 GMT -5
baza: Feeling for our Brothers and Sisters across the ditch Brother petrushka .
Mar 15, 2019 19:27:50 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: petrushka, I thought I read the headline wrong (this stuff happens here, not in NZ). It is frightening the hate that is being spread; it makes my heart hurt.
Mar 15, 2019 20:46:54 GMT -5
saarinista: All of us, IMHO, should try to be civil and kind as much as possible in person and online. I actively Tweet (civilly) on political matters and am horrified by the rancor & trolling on both sides of the spectrum, which only inflames unstable people.
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