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Post by jamesbonding on Mar 3, 2019 15:48:46 GMT -5
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Post by workingonit on Mar 3, 2019 16:36:41 GMT -5
😲 I find this pretty gross, actually. He is not wrong. But to cheat with literally everyone for three years? Why not leave? And then tell her he is leaving via radio? I mean, come on! This guy is seriously immature. But I do not disagree with the idea that denying sex to your partner should be considered infidelity. Yes.
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Post by Handy on Mar 3, 2019 16:42:11 GMT -5
A bit over board but some truths for both men and women, not just one gender.
I agree with workingonit, there was a lot of me, me, me in the guys letter.
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Post by misssunnybunny on Mar 3, 2019 16:46:36 GMT -5
I almost stopped listening after the letter writer said he wasn't interested in anything his wife said, her opinions about anything; basically, her main purpose is to please him sexually. Then later he talks about men doing no housework because it emasculates them (really??? *eyeroll*). Whoever wrote this is an excellent candidate to live alone forever, because apparently he believes that women are only there for his sexual enjoyment, not a partnership. Just disgusting. He should have left her instead of whoring around behind her back.
By the membership in this forum, there are plenty of men who were active and willing sexual partners before marriage, and now deny sex to their wives, and that is unacceptable as well.
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Post by baza on Mar 3, 2019 18:50:37 GMT -5
The writers missus sounds like a real prize. So does the writer. So does this Tom Leykis bloke.
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Post by angeleyes65 on Mar 3, 2019 19:34:52 GMT -5
The honey moon said it all on her thoughts but then he kept talking he is pretty much an asshole can't figure out why she married him. They kind of deserve each other.
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Post by baza on Mar 3, 2019 19:48:36 GMT -5
The honey moon said it all on her thoughts but then he kept talking he is pretty much an asshole can't figure out why she married him. They kind of deserve each other. Their attitudes both seemed pretty much identical to me, in as much as they both wanted to run the marriage on their own terms. And that can work out brilliantly well if they both want the same things as individuals (obvious example being Sister nyartgal and Senor Sexy Guy) But where the individual agenda's are very different (examples of this are everywhere in this group), a fuck up ensues.
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Post by h on Mar 5, 2019 15:58:26 GMT -5
There were a few very true statements in there, but I think the guy was kind of an asshole for all the fat cow insults, the "I don't value anything you have to say", and in general shoving it in his wife's face on the radio. All in poor taste. He could have written a much more civil letter and gotten the same message across.
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Post by ironhamster on Mar 5, 2019 18:23:18 GMT -5
I have not heard Tom Licus for about twenty years. I haven't missed him. The letter fits his style.
He has a lot of golden nuggets of truth burried in the poison.
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Post by carl on Mar 6, 2019 5:24:31 GMT -5
That arsehole should have stayed with his wife. They would make a great couple.
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Post by ironhamster on Mar 6, 2019 17:11:52 GMT -5
Right. The logic of leaving is so strong, and his contempt for his new bride so strong, that I can't help but feel Tom himself wrote the letter for the sake of entertaining his audience. Perhaps he got a much more bland letter, then embellished the story for the sake of his audience.
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Post by flounder on Mar 6, 2019 19:55:41 GMT -5
The writers missus sounds like a real prize. So does the writer. I think this sums it up well. They were meant for each other.
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