In this sample ..... 7 have gone inactive so we have no idea what happened to them 1 staying 2 left 0 examples of 'turnaround'
The % of those who went inactive are a bit above past examples. The % of those staying is usually a bit higher than this example The leavers usually come in at 2 (as is the case here) The 'turnarounds' in this sample are at zero, again.
Hope this was what you wanted Sister ggold . Incidently Sister ggold , you appear as "left" in the above. Is that correct ?
baza . Yes! Thank you. It is the data I was curious about.
My status: in process of leaving. I retained an attorney in January. My H and I are still living together. Everything is the same at home. I texted him that I was retaining since we cannot verbally communicate about our marital situation. He is not really acting much differently and still shows some passive aggressive behavior. He may not fully believe that I retained. It will become REAL when he gets the paperwork. My children don't know. They may feel tension or anxiety, but according to their therapists, they are unaware that a divorce is coming. We will tell them after consulting with their therapists.
RexCorvus is also in process of his divorce. He has moved out of his marital home and is now renting a very nice house nearby (his marital home). Rex had a very rough time with his STBX, however, things have become more amicable between them. Thank God. His children are adapting to their new situation and are doing well. This gives me hope!
I visited Rex for the first time last month!! I hadn't flown in about 13 years or so and was a nervous wreck. My dear love flew to NJ (from Seattle where he was working) to fly with me back to his residence. He wanted me to feel safe and calm. I did! It was a wonderful trip. I felt as if I was home. Then again, home is wherever Rex is. He then flew me back to NJ and made the roundtrip home. (He got "stranded" in NJ for the night due to weather, but we made the BEST of it. ..wink!)
We are both moving forward. It's so hard to be away from each other, but we have to be patient. We both want what is best for us and especially our children. Rex and I have been together for over 2 years now and have grown closer and further in love despite the challenges we have faced. We both feel so blessed!!
misssunnybunny: You're welcome! So glad to hear you had a great day
Jan 19, 2019 16:34:01 GMT -5
worksforme2: anyone hear anything lately from mrslowmaintenance or smartkat?
Jan 24, 2019 18:06:02 GMT -5
petrushka: Just saw the forecast for Mildura at 47C -- I hope you and Ms. Enna are going to be ok Baz. That's getting dangerous.
Jan 24, 2019 20:10:00 GMT -5
lifeinwoodinville: I last heard from mrslowmaintenance about a month ago. I have been in regular contact with her for the last year and a half. I feel comfortable in saying that her situation remains unchanged. If you want to know more PM me.
Jan 25, 2019 22:36:50 GMT -5
worksforme2: Hey baza,...I know it's hot and dry down under. N.C. is having record rainfall. I would gladly trade some rain for some sunshine....
Feb 22, 2019 20:28:35 GMT -5
tamara68: Today it's steak and blowjob day! I suppose the steak is for those who don't get a blowjob.
Mar 14, 2019 16:49:49 GMT -5
petrushka: tamara68 Laughing with tears in my eyes. And my steak is going to be semolina gruel, due to some tummy upset :-\
Mar 15, 2019 1:11:10 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: So sad to hear the news from New Zealand. Boston Strong supports Kiwi Strong!!
Mar 15, 2019 7:46:22 GMT -5
petrushka: I was gobsmacked when I heard. This is just not us. In all of 2017 we had 37 murders in the country ..... I think the echo chambers of "social media" have a lot to answer for.
Mar 15, 2019 18:45:45 GMT -5
baza: Feeling for our Brothers and Sisters across the ditch Brother petrushka .
Mar 15, 2019 19:27:50 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: petrushka, I thought I read the headline wrong (this stuff happens here, not in NZ). It is frightening the hate that is being spread; it makes my heart hurt.
Mar 15, 2019 20:46:54 GMT -5
saarinista: All of us, IMHO, should try to be civil and kind as much as possible in person and online. I actively Tweet (civilly) on political matters and am horrified by the rancor & trolling on both sides of the spectrum, which only inflames unstable people.
Mar 19, 2019 23:21:20 GMT -5