It had been many years since I had done anything, and when I had the chance with a one and only affair, it just didn't work out for many reasons. Having this one experience convinced me that I am too old and too much time has passed. This is why I say that.
Dude. You are younger than I am. Would you tell ME to give up on ever having sex again?
Of course not, I would never tell you that nor to anyone else. For myself, I have come to accept my situation for what it is. From my perspective, I no longer have the will to look elsewhere. If I were in my 20s, 30s, or even 40s; I am sure I would feel very differently and my decision could very well be different.
---- "I walk this empty street on the boulevard of broken dreams. I walk alone......" Green Day
This is not a suggestion or advice or anything of the like Brother RumRunner - I got out at 57.
The case for me to leave stood up all by itself and was, I believed, to be in my best longer term interests.
If the case to leave had not stood up all by itself, then I wouldn't have done it.
These ILIASM situations are very individual circumstances dependent. For me, the circumstances and sums added up to "leave" which I think was a perfectly legitimate choice. For someone else, the circumstances may have added up to "stay" which I think is also a perfectly legitimate choice.
9 years down the track I have no regrets about what I chose. It doesn't look like you have any great regrets about your choice either.
This the "Shoutbox" -- basically a site-wide, group chat. (It's only visible to members.)
saarinista: is anyone else watching March Madness?
Mar 24, 2019 11:44:48 GMT -5
worksforme2: doesn't much look like it...
Mar 27, 2019 12:20:10 GMT -5
saarinista: Well, my team is going to the Final Four! I am beyond thrilled. Basketball is life.
Apr 1, 2019 0:47:14 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Congrats! Yay! I don't know how many people see the shout box, I don't think it shows up not he mobile version of the site. Maybe post something in the Off Topic section and more folks may see it?
Apr 1, 2019 15:38:34 GMT -5
wewbwb: Or, maybe baseball season started . . .
Apr 2, 2019 5:27:34 GMT -5
flashjohn: saarinista, my alma mater, Texas Tech, is also in the final four.
Apr 3, 2019 14:59:01 GMT -5
saarinista: : flashjohn Ruh, roh. Then we have to be mortal enemies for the weekend because I went to MSU!
Apr 4, 2019 16:09:20 GMT -5
worksforme2: The add attachment says a max of 1mb...I see plenty of videos that are way longer than that...how do I do that? My video is 4.97 mbs
Apr 25, 2019 20:10:25 GMT -5
h: The videos posted aren't attached. They are links to videos outside the site.
Apr 26, 2019 14:09:04 GMT -5
sexlessinga: Hi guys just joined
May 10, 2019 20:49:28 GMT -5
worksforme2: @mslowmaintenance….long time no see, welcome back...
May 29, 2019 9:30:25 GMT -5
noregretz: You can never outrun a Grizzly bear, but that's ok. You only have to outrun the person you're with....
Jun 15, 2019 12:28:09 GMT -5
solodriver: or in this case your refuser.
Jun 16, 2019 19:21:47 GMT -5